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Wondering if we are abnormal or if its just kids or what... But we arent the bar type or the club type. We have kids and are in bed around the time most of you guys start looking for fun. Many responses we have got have mentioned, "we see you post a lot you probably play all tge time." Truth be told, besides mff we never play. Whats normal for us is a normal time and a normal environment. A grocery store or a pool or a movie or dinner. Usually have the kids... So yes, playtime is usually at our house once the kids are asleep. Wife is hesitant on full swap with a guy but is open to soft swap. She loves girl on girl though. With all that being said... Anyone up for meeting in what we consider a normal environment at a normal time?
I totally understand! Between work and kids, and having our own alone time; it is hard to find the time to play. Especially since I will not host if my son is home; I agreed whole heartedly!
Haha my wife worries about that too. Thats why I think we want to meet people outside the hone in a normal environment before we bring them in. We wpuldnt have an issue at all if we were friends and felt comfortable but she is afraod of worst case scenario !
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We agree, it sure gets tricky.

Only mff?!?!

You’re missing half the fun!
Our exact issue. So we end up just living our normal boring life.
Just a suggestion...If you dont want to go home to play then meet another couple in a vanilla setting and get a room if you want to fool around. Perhaps a bit more costly but it will solve your problem. Good luck with making connections and getting the fun you deserve.
don't think you are abnormal at all. real life and kids get in the way for a lot of folks. but it makes the escape that much better when it does happen. we have been in the same boat, but mfm instead of the mff. the new play place in centerville may help things for some of the northern utah folks too
Need to update my profile. We enjoy wide variety. Soft,full. Clubs. Or movies etc. We first started 13 years ago was always at home when babies sleeping. Hit is up if you are interested. Babygirl likes girl on girl, but she's got to be in the mood for it.
Ski, the issue isnt doing it at our house we are ok with that. The issue is where to meet people before 2am that isnt in a club or a bar lol. Somewhere we consoder normal... A pool... A ball game... A park... Just an ice breaker where kids are distracted but gives us a chance to meet people.
Awe I'm with you. I think lol are you wanting to take your kids with you when you meet someone? Our situation is tricky our oldest two know what we do in the lifestyle where working on educating our youngest about polyamorous and this lifestyle. Because of other things happened previous our two middle aren't ready to hear. But where very open. We in the beginning a couple times took our kids to lunch dates with there kids etc. Now there old enough to baby sit. I would guess the biggest problem is people in large part want to meet and fuck. So having to do this in Vanilla setting cramps there goal. We personally love meeting at Chili's or bowling. If you can roller skate I'll be your new best friend. Alot of people I've met say they want friends but so many times they just want fuck buddies. I'm not judging either way just be real. We love Chili's though or bowling for first dates then movies or hiking. Did I say roller skating? I may have a skating addiction.
To be clear I'm usually skater brained. But we like friends and fuck buddies combined. Although sometimes both are needed. Every now and then we will be like can I just fuck someone else I don't care if I see them again. Of course last time the guy had zero body fat , more muscles then Chippendale s and the girl was sexy as hell so who could pass that up.