...fuck anymore? We've talked to quite a few people who have been in the lifestyle for some time now and have yet to hook up and fuck so we thought we'd ask the obvious question as to whether swingers actually still hook up and fuck each other.
*Disclaimer: Though we've been in the lifestyle for a long time we've never been SUPER active and have actually gone months at a time and even, occasionally, a few YEARS without playing. In fact, right now it's been probably 2-3 years since we've actually fucked anyone else because life has a tendency to totally get in the way sometimes.
1) Yes, actually. We hook-up and fuck regularly. We're actually quite slutty and fuck other people every chance we get...and that's fairly often.
2) Nope. Swinger sex is just an urban legend...a myth. Nobody really fucks anyone else. Only in Penthouse Letters...or in bad pornos.
3) 2 or 3 YEARS?!!? What are you, monks?!!?
4) We've been wondering the same thing. We're sorta new and have yet to fuck anybody.
5) Swinging is dead. It's been replaced by CrossFit and video games.
6) We'll fuck you, Evil. We're totally into throwing someone a pity fuck.
7) We wouldn't fuck you guys with somebody ELSE'S genitals!
8) You should try the nude beach at the GSL. One billion brine flies can't be wrong.
9) Sex with others is SCARY. We're just here for the titillation factor.
10) You think YOU have trouble getting laid. Try being a single male.
11) Feel free to add your own poll answer.
ps-We're NOT trying to get laid. We're just bored (and a little drunk) on a Sunday evening and there's nothing good on TV.
*Disclaimer: Though we've been in the lifestyle for a long time we've never been SUPER active and have actually gone months at a time and even, occasionally, a few YEARS without playing. In fact, right now it's been probably 2-3 years since we've actually fucked anyone else because life has a tendency to totally get in the way sometimes.
1) Yes, actually. We hook-up and fuck regularly. We're actually quite slutty and fuck other people every chance we get...and that's fairly often.
2) Nope. Swinger sex is just an urban legend...a myth. Nobody really fucks anyone else. Only in Penthouse Letters...or in bad pornos.
3) 2 or 3 YEARS?!!? What are you, monks?!!?
4) We've been wondering the same thing. We're sorta new and have yet to fuck anybody.
5) Swinging is dead. It's been replaced by CrossFit and video games.
6) We'll fuck you, Evil. We're totally into throwing someone a pity fuck.
7) We wouldn't fuck you guys with somebody ELSE'S genitals!
8) You should try the nude beach at the GSL. One billion brine flies can't be wrong.
9) Sex with others is SCARY. We're just here for the titillation factor.
10) You think YOU have trouble getting laid. Try being a single male.
11) Feel free to add your own poll answer.
ps-We're NOT trying to get laid. We're just bored (and a little drunk) on a Sunday evening and there's nothing good on TV.
Just a bit tipsy myself. That actually means (I’m actually drunk, just like you) I fall into the number 10 category. That’s right. I pretty much do not get laid. Let me rephrase that...
I just don’t get laid and I am in hopes that it might happen sometime in this decade. Lol!!!
I just don’t get laid and I am in hopes that it might happen sometime in this decade. Lol!!!
I have mentioned before,it seems like we have a lot of Affirmative Action Swingers and that’s why I am selective.. having said that.. Here we go.. this was last night till early this morning ... and yeah this site is working out VERY WELL
#singlemaleSELECTIVE-BBC
#singlemaleSELECTIVE-BBC
Massagebbcguy.... I think you forgot a lol in one of your messages 😂😂
COUPLE801801 wrote:LOL. Lol. I just lol-ed to my own LOL. Lol. Good eyes. Lol
Massagebbcguy.... I think you forgot a lol in one of your messages 😂😂
We didn’t swing when our kids were small. We really didn’t have the time and the internet was not yet a big thing. When our kids were at that age where they need more autonomy and time to hang out with their friends, we had more time to hang out and play with our friends. We Hooked up once or twice a week for quite a few years. Now that our offspring are happy successful adults, all married or in relationships and some have kids of their own, as it turns out, they seem to want to hang out with us a lot. Family is the best! So between life’s obligations and hanging out with family we really don’t find as much time for swinging. That’s okay. Life evolves. We do still hook up from time to time and when we do, we really enjoy pretty much everything about it.
A friend in Dublin once said "If you can't get laid in Dublin, then you are trying too hard!" What if that is just as true in Utah, as it is in Dublin? What if all it takes is to just relax and enjoy exploring what's going on, and really look at who is around you, and what they think, feel and like, with no pressure, no worries, and sexy adventures just happen?
A friend in Dublin once said "If you can't get laid in Dublin, then you are trying too hard!" What if that is just as true in Utah, as it is in Dublin? What if all it takes is to just relax and enjoy exploring what's going on, and really look at who is around you, and what they think, feel and like, with no pressure, no worries, and sexy adventures just happen?
Having lived in several different places in the US, ranging from both coasts, we can say that Utah has the strangest lifestyle scene we've ever seen. While we have hooked up, the amount of effort it takes is staggering.
We blame it on the conservative culture. Even if you're not LDS, the church, and their views, permeate the culture in Utah. We think that just HAVING a profile on a swinger site is about as kinky as a lot of couples can be.
We're preparing to move back to Florida, which has the most robust swinging scene we've ever been a part of. We'll miss Utah, but we're looking forward to limiting all the wasted time it takes to get laid.
We blame it on the conservative culture. Even if you're not LDS, the church, and their views, permeate the culture in Utah. We think that just HAVING a profile on a swinger site is about as kinky as a lot of couples can be.
We're preparing to move back to Florida, which has the most robust swinging scene we've ever been a part of. We'll miss Utah, but we're looking forward to limiting all the wasted time it takes to get laid.
My wife n I fk at the beach almost weekly. Just get away from the sagebrush and there are no flies 
(We just don't fk other couples lol but they can watch)
(We just don't fk other couples lol but they can watch)
I wish someone can give me a clue on how spot the weirdos... maybe a weird-meter, well I guess it all falls back to intelligence guided by experience oh well... I am open to private suggestions really.
massageBBCguy wrote:
I wish someone can give me a clue on how spot the weirdos... maybe a weird-meter, well I guess it all falls back to intelligence guided by experience oh well... I am open to private suggestions really.
We hear you dude! We are always looking for some of that freaky, freaky sex too! Oh wait, you probably mean something else? Never mind!
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In the last 2 weeks
In the last 2 weeks
11) Feel free to add your own poll answer. <-- Thank You, I think I will....
12) We are active LDS and Kinky, It's a curse.
13) We have medical issues (truthfully not us, but I, have medical issues) due to diabetes that make sex and orgasm a complicated situation that I'm not sure others would deal with, I'm amazed that my wife deals with it, and after 4 or 5 hours and a half dozen or more orgasms she is usually a little raw, physically and emotionally spent, but still glad that she could put in the time and effort required to finally get me to have an orgasm even if it means she has trouble walking for a couple days. I have a profound love for my wife and the selfless acts of love she performs for, with, and to me.
12) We are active LDS and Kinky, It's a curse.
13) We have medical issues (truthfully not us, but I, have medical issues) due to diabetes that make sex and orgasm a complicated situation that I'm not sure others would deal with, I'm amazed that my wife deals with it, and after 4 or 5 hours and a half dozen or more orgasms she is usually a little raw, physically and emotionally spent, but still glad that she could put in the time and effort required to finally get me to have an orgasm even if it means she has trouble walking for a couple days. I have a profound love for my wife and the selfless acts of love she performs for, with, and to me.
Very interesting, Maybe weve been lucky, We have had good experiences being able to fuck others when we want to. weve of course had drama. Im sure The LDS culture has alot to do with it. for my wife who i think i may eventually get posting on here. she doesnt like the bootie call hey lets have sex but if we go out somewhere and it happens she loves it. but then theres those days shes like baby lets go fuck someone else. I gues where like a roller coaster but enjoy it at times we want to fuck others and have good times. at other times we fuck eachother like bunnies. and or both. we went to whispers in vegas recently which i may write up something on it but wow it was pretty amazing. I think im realizing the things stopping me the most is myself. We had bad experiences in the past with certain things so we watch out for that, but at times we see things that arent there. Luckly me and babygirl balance each other out, if either of us are not seeing something correctly, then we usually call eachother out.
STOPHER29 wrote:Thumbs up to you guys.. I wonder if Admin/developers could add a “Like” button with counts. Good short story.
11) Feel free to add your own poll answer. <-- Thank You, I think I will....
12) We are active LDS and Kinky, It's a curse.
13) We have medical issues (truthfully not us, but I, have medical issues) due to diabetes that make sex and orgasm a complicated situation that I'm not sure others would deal with, I'm amazed that my wife deals with it, and after 4 or 5 hours and a half dozen or more orgasms she is usually a little raw, physically and emotionally spent, but still glad that she could put in the time and effort required to finally get me to have an orgasm even if it means she has trouble walking for a couple days. I have a profound love for my wife and the selfless acts of love she performs for, with, and to me.
We choose 1.
It cums and goes. We have met some great couples on this site from Salt Lake and the surrounding areas. Some flake out and some just are not interested. We dont get discouraged easily but we have not met anyone from the Houston area even though we have emailed many.
Lots of hit and misses on this site as well as others. Its a numbers game....the more people you approach the sooner you will meet someone.
It cums and goes. We have met some great couples on this site from Salt Lake and the surrounding areas. Some flake out and some just are not interested. We dont get discouraged easily but we have not met anyone from the Houston area even though we have emailed many.
Lots of hit and misses on this site as well as others. Its a numbers game....the more people you approach the sooner you will meet someone.
6, 4, and 3 for evil and yes to 12 for stopher29 lol
we have been on this site for 3 months...we have only 2 friends that never reply back... noone interacts on this site with us..we put pics, fill out the shit,request friendships and send messages..no replies. we were told this was a good site but we will prob cancel..too bad. we paid 60 bucks for nothing.. soooo bummed 
2livescrew wrote:
we have been on this site for 3 months...we have only 2 friends that never reply back... noone interacts on this site with us..we put pics, fill out the shit,request friendships and send messages..no replies. we were told this was a good site but we will prob cancel..too bad. we paid 60 bucks for nothing.. soooo bummed
You realize the majority of folks on this site are looking for couples and not another female so that probably limits the number of people that might get back with you. Dont misunderstand my comment, you should certainly put what you are looking for but it maybe much harder to find since the majority of folks are looking for other couples. Lots of the women who are part of a couple may be interested in some type of play but not unless their man gets to participate.
It’s kinda hard for me to believe someone out their isn’t getting more than theirs money’s worth from this site.lol.
If I don’t meet anyone else from here I’ll still be wow-img and omg-ing and that is me not being an Equal Opportunity BBC. I like it here! I doubt I’ll ever do any party’s or cliff thing👌🏿
If I don’t meet anyone else from here I’ll still be wow-img and omg-ing and that is me not being an Equal Opportunity BBC. I like it here! I doubt I’ll ever do any party’s or cliff thing👌🏿
The real question is: Does anybody really...read a profile before shooting off a message? A lot of time could be saved if they did. Some folks are just a tad trigger happy when they get excited.
Cumonme wrote:OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I missed that! My bad.. Your profile does say sexy fit WHITE MEN... My gosh I apologize for sending you a message a couple of hours ago.. I totally missed that. Probably wouldnt be a bad idea if you sent me a message back saying "Whites Only".. I have seen too many "prefers black" to be disappointed..
The real question is: Does anybody really...read a profile before shooting off a message? A lot of time could be saved if they did. Some folks are just a tad trigger happy when they get excited.
I don’t think I could ever bring myself to phrase it like that. I’m not a drinking fountain from the 1950's. But seriously, you aren’t the catalyst for my comment. We all have preferences and physical attractions and they should be made clear in a profile. And they should also be read. Now worries, friend.
LOL. I guess phrasing is key.. thinking about it, I don’t think I’ll say “Whites Only” either. Lol
So couples get trigger happy when they get excited and they blame single males for everything on this site? Ok I am really laughing out loud right now especially when they know who they are.
So couples get trigger happy when they get excited and they blame single males for everything on this site? Ok I am really laughing out loud right now especially when they know who they are.
LOL. I am starting to get more laughs from here than I get from Funniest home videos..
When those who are not having the best experience here complains, they complain like a constitutional right to swing is being violated or swingular has a fiduciary duty to provide orgasm to its members.
Some members have a very strong sense of entitlement and their expectations sits on the summit of Denali..
My Quick Replies are never for personal advertisement BUT if some single male or couple out there getting involved in these forums has no benefits or significant upside then I’ll say you have to rethink your strategy.
When those who are not having the best experience here complains, they complain like a constitutional right to swing is being violated or swingular has a fiduciary duty to provide orgasm to its members.
Some members have a very strong sense of entitlement and their expectations sits on the summit of Denali..
My Quick Replies are never for personal advertisement BUT if some single male or couple out there getting involved in these forums has no benefits or significant upside then I’ll say you have to rethink your strategy.
Forgive me for I have sinned, I sucked at responding and following the poll in my first response.
#1, 3, 8,
there, and thanks again for the great reads.
#1, 3, 8,
there, and thanks again for the great reads.
This post made me laught😅😂🤣 I love how authentic it is to the lifestyle! We have only fucked one other couple but have met many couples!
So many amazing people in the lifestyle but to find sexual chemistry with all 4 people can be a bit challenging!
So many amazing people in the lifestyle but to find sexual chemistry with all 4 people can be a bit challenging!
I am glad massageBBCguy isnt the only one laughing. lol
lordy I was worried I'll be labeled the schadenfreude of Swingular and some minuscule slut-shaming after my Re-match screenshot.. Alert! before you slut-shame goodluck meeting me or those I have met/gone all the way with.
After my first experience OH BOY! I was done (that good)
After my second and rest experiences OH BOY! then I was asking "why me?"
I have noticed an unreasonable expectation SOME people have, they want to be MY first experience,I am sorry too late now
The best part is, when I send someone or a couple a message saying something like.. Great pictures,nice profile,I am a fan and whatnot some members are so uptight, well maybe not so uptight they probably make $60hr and giving someone a minute/$1 (time it takes to draft a Not Interested) before taxes is a big price to pay..
If I saw an A-list Celebrity here will I send a message? Absolutely!
Now, I am not entitled to a reply but hey if a very gay guy sent me a message I'll probably say "lol.. I am pretty straight bro, thanks tho!" anyways be selective BUT! have a common courtesy
lordy I was worried I'll be labeled the schadenfreude of Swingular and some minuscule slut-shaming after my Re-match screenshot.. Alert! before you slut-shame goodluck meeting me or those I have met/gone all the way with.
After my first experience OH BOY! I was done (that good)
After my second and rest experiences OH BOY! then I was asking "why me?"
I have noticed an unreasonable expectation SOME people have, they want to be MY first experience,I am sorry too late now
The best part is, when I send someone or a couple a message saying something like.. Great pictures,nice profile,I am a fan and whatnot some members are so uptight, well maybe not so uptight they probably make $60hr and giving someone a minute/$1 (time it takes to draft a Not Interested) before taxes is a big price to pay..
If I saw an A-list Celebrity here will I send a message? Absolutely!
Now, I am not entitled to a reply but hey if a very gay guy sent me a message I'll probably say "lol.. I am pretty straight bro, thanks tho!" anyways be selective BUT! have a common courtesy
Maybe we have not noticed, that it is more difficult to actually hook up and find someone to fuck, because we have entered into a time period in our lives where we are, and have been less available. Perhaps, if we were to post a let’s hook up and fuck booty call, looking for someone to play with, we have never been with before today, we would find it harder than it was just last year? Does six months make a big difference? Do we need to hurry up and try and find time to hook up, because a.) It’s getting harder for everyone? b.) Our shelf life may be approaching a real or perceived expiration date?
Perhaps, part of the reason it is getting harder to hook up is that this social media may have become just a bit polarized as has some of the other social media venues. Whereas, the subject is sex, and sex is a loaded subject, we can't just post pictures of animals or children doing something cute and play it safe. Getting rejected and rejecting advances is just part of what happens when sex is a possibility. There is no need to take offense or give offense unless someone actually does something offensive. Friend request are just friend request, whether sent or received. A simple yes please or no thank you is all that needs to be said to end a pursuit or move on to the next step.
Perhaps, part of the reason it is getting harder to hook up is that this social media may have become just a bit polarized as has some of the other social media venues. Whereas, the subject is sex, and sex is a loaded subject, we can't just post pictures of animals or children doing something cute and play it safe. Getting rejected and rejecting advances is just part of what happens when sex is a possibility. There is no need to take offense or give offense unless someone actually does something offensive. Friend request are just friend request, whether sent or received. A simple yes please or no thank you is all that needs to be said to end a pursuit or move on to the next step.
How about a one (1) for us. However, it is so much work to find, meet, greet, and then if it isn’t 2am , the time and energy to play!
Can’t we all start by 10?!?!? ;p
Can’t we all start by 10?!?!? ;p
Does anyone want to be friends on here
10:00? We prefer getting together about 7:30 p.m.