There are so many different types of situations people are in with the lifestyle, it should make for good convo. Let's hear it! Do you and your spouse have rules for the life style? If so, what are they?
Who DOESN'T have some rules/boundaries? Lol! I would think the majority of us have at least a few?
we have them, but they can shift you might say depending on the situation lol for example, one was no kissing but lynn could not hold back and have to admit, it was so hot to watch.
livinlvn1, that really covers it. when that happens its so much more fun.
Our rule is everyone have fun.
We've always had some ground rules but they've evolved over time. And yes they can shift/change depending on the situation as FUN4US said. We do have one cardinal rule (Prime Directive), if you will. That is that NOBODY, at any point in time, feels pressured, coerced or otherwise put in any situation they're uncomfortable with. If we get any indication that this is the case we have no shyness about stopping play and ending the evening abruptly. Sadly, we've encountered this more often than we ever thought we would in the lifestyle.
We have a small rapid test STI machine with up to three swab probes that we require before our Holiday Inn glory holes. I recommend this machine strongly to anyone playing with 90% of the old CL single male market.
That and we prohibit the word “finger bang” during play.
That and we prohibit the word “finger bang” during play.
Ucouple wrote:
We have a small rapid test STI machine with up to three swab probes that we require before our Holiday Inn glory holes. I recommend this machine strongly to anyone playing with 90% of the old CL single male market.
That and we prohibit the word “finger bang” during play.
We've found that we have to downgrade from Holiday Inn to, like, Super 8, or maybe even a Motel 6 to get good, quality glory holes on BOTH sides of our room.
Uncouple great screening idea. You are the type of couple I like to be involved with.