Just out of curiosity...
1) How many emails/messages do you get in an average week?
2) How many or what percentage of those messages are from single males?
3) Of those messages from single males how many are non-specific, make no reference to you or your profile, and could easily be spammed out to multiple people?
4) How many of those same messages do you, on average, respond to and do you respond positively?
5) How often does your response lead to a meeting or playdate?
1) How many emails/messages do you get in an average week?
2) How many or what percentage of those messages are from single males?
3) Of those messages from single males how many are non-specific, make no reference to you or your profile, and could easily be spammed out to multiple people?
4) How many of those same messages do you, on average, respond to and do you respond positively?
5) How often does your response lead to a meeting or playdate?
1) three messages a week
2) 75% from single males
3) 90% non specific (or blind friend requests)
4) never respond positively (if at all)
5) never leads to meeting
2) 75% from single males
3) 90% non specific (or blind friend requests)
4) never respond positively (if at all)
5) never leads to meeting
1) 10 messages a week
2- 0 percent from single males Blocked!
3) blind friend requests but hey we do the same sometimes to lazy to send a message with it 😂
4) we respond to all messages and always end up getting to know amazing people
5.) 2-4 times a month of new people!
2- 0 percent from single males Blocked!
3) blind friend requests but hey we do the same sometimes to lazy to send a message with it 😂
4) we respond to all messages and always end up getting to know amazing people
5.) 2-4 times a month of new people!
Never had a msg. I wonder why I even signed up for this site....
Your profile says you're a "40 something couple" with a member in their 50's. You're in Oregon, where this site has very little activity, and you're not willing to have a profile picture, so you're not likely to get any response or attention. In our opinion.
Newport_couple4349 wrote:
Never had a msg. I wonder why I even signed up for this site....
FIT_N_FUN wrote:
Your profile says you're a "40 something couple" with a member in their 50's. You're in Oregon, where this site has very little activity, and you're not willing to have a profile picture, so you're not likely to get any response or attention. In our opinion.
Newport_couple4349 wrote:
Never had a msg. I wonder why I even signed up for this site....
😂😂😂 100% true
1) 10-15messages
2)2 or 3
3) half maybe
4) respond to most everyone and if we didnt we probably overlooked it honestly
5.) Maybe 1 out of every 10 we meet. Kind of picky
2)2 or 3
3) half maybe
4) respond to most everyone and if we didnt we probably overlooked it honestly
5.) Maybe 1 out of every 10 we meet. Kind of picky
EVILDOERS wrote:
Just out of curiosity...
1) How many emails/messages do you get in an average week?
2) How many or what percentage of those messages are from single males?
3) Of those messages from single males how many are non-specific, make no reference to you or your profile, and could easily be spammed out to multiple people?
4) How many of those same messages do you, on average, respond to and do you respond positively?
5) How often does your response lead to a meeting or playdate?
LOL. This sounds like Invasion of Pricacy. It would be extremely inappropriate for a second or third party to disclose these info about members but the way you phrased the questions? That was genius.
Good thing I didn’t bet that no one will fall for this. LOL.
Full disclosure. I work for a secret branch of the NSA (the Perverts Surveillance Unit) and we're keeping track of all you disgusting swingers and your filthy, sinful ways along with Sydney University, through a grant from the American Council on Religious Freedom, and we're hoping to eventually develop a vaccine to kill all your sex drives and make you repent and return to Jesus.
The data the that I collect will be used to petition President Trump (who only PRETENDS to be a philandering letch and is really a pious, faithful God-fearing man who was handpicked by The Almighty Creator to bring America, and the world, back to the moral and religious standards that this country was founded on. So enjoy your filthy little hobby while you can ecause the day of reckoning is fast approaching and soon the naughtiest thing you'll be able to do on a Saturday night is go to a Jamba Juice "bar" for a smoothie and watch the 700 Club on TV before mandatory lights out at 10pm. Hallelujah!
And yes, it IS an "Invasion of Pricacy".
The data the that I collect will be used to petition President Trump (who only PRETENDS to be a philandering letch and is really a pious, faithful God-fearing man who was handpicked by The Almighty Creator to bring America, and the world, back to the moral and religious standards that this country was founded on. So enjoy your filthy little hobby while you can ecause the day of reckoning is fast approaching and soon the naughtiest thing you'll be able to do on a Saturday night is go to a Jamba Juice "bar" for a smoothie and watch the 700 Club on TV before mandatory lights out at 10pm. Hallelujah!
And yes, it IS an "Invasion of Pricacy".
EVILDOERS wrote:
Full disclosure. I work for a secret branch of the NSA (the Perverts Surveillance Unit) and we're keeping track of all you disgusting swingers and your filthy, sinful ways along with Sydney University, through a grant from the American Council on Religious Freedom, and we're hoping to eventually develop a vaccine to kill all your sex drives and make you repent and return to Jesus.
The data the that I collect will be used to petition President Trump (who only PRETENDS to be a philandering letch and is really a pious, faithful God-fearing man who was handpicked by The Almighty Creator to bring America, and the world, back to the moral and religious standards that this country was founded on. So enjoy your filthy little hobby while you can ecause the day of reckoning is fast approaching and soon the naughtiest thing you'll be able to do on a Saturday night is go to a Jamba Juice "bar" for a smoothie and watch the 700 Club on TV before mandatory lights out at 10pm. Hallelujah!
And yes, it IS an "Invasion of Pricacy". Although I believe it's spelled "Prickacy".
PRICKACY. Lol.
1. 0-1
2. 0 (Blocked)
3. 0
4. 0
5. No meetings with single males but we have met a few couples and all have been awesome
2. 0 (Blocked)
3. 0
4. 0
5. No meetings with single males but we have met a few couples and all have been awesome
Well, we don't keep a tally. The nature of who is on the site, and how an approach is made, has change. What was considered an appropriate introduction may well seem cumbersome to a younger generation, who is accustomed to swipe right or left Tinder dating. We are not being critical about any of that. We have found that this group is quite often, serious about the fun and adventure, and often not at all uptight about what it all says about who they are. Live in the moment and actually be there, rather than bring a big bag of doubt and worry with you into every moment. They don't easily take or give out offense. There are perhaps, some advantages when you "cut to the chase." We do get more blind friend request from couples than we used to, and a few more from single males. The grew up with Tinder generation, rarely takes offense if you just send them an email that lets them know you would rather chat a bit first. The middle age to older age single males, who are migrating from Craigslist are another story. About half are respectful enough, and then we are seeing guys who send us a request, that we send a polite no thank you, or let's chat first who send back an insult. Dudes, doing that, we didn't contact you, you contacted us. We are expanding our blocked list as of late. We don't assume anything when a single guys sends us an email. We know some truly remarkable single men. We are not jaundiced about single men in general. Really a no thank you, followed by clicking the block function is easy to do to end communications with a hostile contact. Once that's done there is no reason to waist any more time or energy on a jerk. All the great people in the community are not the last jerk we blocked. We evaluate people and possibilities when they are before us, rather than as a category. Reading peoples profiles, you can learn a lot, often even if they are brief.
As for hooking up, time to do so is our biggest obstacle. There are way more great people, we would love to get to know, then there is time to accomplish. We are inclined to favor people who live close by that like us, are not apposed to spontaneity, and flexibility, because their lives require it.
As for hooking up, time to do so is our biggest obstacle. There are way more great people, we would love to get to know, then there is time to accomplish. We are inclined to favor people who live close by that like us, are not apposed to spontaneity, and flexibility, because their lives require it.
We did a tally. Last two weeks:
1.) 22
2.) 7
3.) 4
4.) We try and respond to all the messages.
5.) It's going down from a few years back. Our busy schedule is mostly to blame. In the last two weeks 0. In the last two years we are guessing less than 2% of the single men and about 12% of the couples.
1.) 22
2.) 7
3.) 4
4.) We try and respond to all the messages.
5.) It's going down from a few years back. Our busy schedule is mostly to blame. In the last two weeks 0. In the last two years we are guessing less than 2% of the single men and about 12% of the couples.
Deliciouslywet, do you ever give a short and straight to the point answer? Lol j/k 😁
SHENANIGANIZER wrote:
Deliciouslywet, do you ever give a short and straight to the point answer? Lol j/k 😁
Yes.
1) 6
2) 3
3)2
4)10%
5)20%
2) 3
3)2
4)10%
5)20%
1)3-4 messages per week, unless we have a meet-up posted. Then it’s more like 5-10.
2) We block single males, but there seems to be more of them pretending to be a couple on here ever since CL shut down their “personals” ads. Thanks Craigslist!
3) Of those messages from single males or those we believe are pretending to be a couple...most of them make almost zero mention about our profile.
4) We rarely respond to blind friend requests. We receive them all the time, especially after posting a meet-up. And nearly every time we accept a blind friend request, we say to ourselves...”okay, now what?”
People! Why send a friend request if you have no intention of communicating with us. Is it really all about just perving our private pics?
Absent any further communication...we generally give it a short time and simply delete most of the friend requests we accept.
5) How often does our response lead to a meeting or playdate? Almost never! It’s pretty clear most of those that reach out to us don’t read our profile. If they did they would know we have very little in common. Not to mention most have few pics in their profile. Or those that they do have are mostly of the woman using angled shots not accurately depicting their true aesthetics.
We generally find this site and the Utah based lifestyle pretty much a waste of time. Having said that...here come all the blind friend requests from married males on here without their spouses knowledge. LOL
2) We block single males, but there seems to be more of them pretending to be a couple on here ever since CL shut down their “personals” ads. Thanks Craigslist!
3) Of those messages from single males or those we believe are pretending to be a couple...most of them make almost zero mention about our profile.
4) We rarely respond to blind friend requests. We receive them all the time, especially after posting a meet-up. And nearly every time we accept a blind friend request, we say to ourselves...”okay, now what?”
People! Why send a friend request if you have no intention of communicating with us. Is it really all about just perving our private pics?
Absent any further communication...we generally give it a short time and simply delete most of the friend requests we accept.
5) How often does our response lead to a meeting or playdate? Almost never! It’s pretty clear most of those that reach out to us don’t read our profile. If they did they would know we have very little in common. Not to mention most have few pics in their profile. Or those that they do have are mostly of the woman using angled shots not accurately depicting their true aesthetics.
We generally find this site and the Utah based lifestyle pretty much a waste of time. Having said that...here come all the blind friend requests from married males on here without their spouses knowledge. LOL
SOMEWHERENTIME wrote:Interesting Reply— 👌🏿 I think now I understand what Evildoers is/was trying to accomplish
1)3-4 messages per week, unless we have a meet-up posted. Then it’s more like 5-10.
2) We block single males, but there seems to be more of them pretending to be a couple on here ever since CL shut down their “personals” ads. Thanks Craigslist!
3) Of those messages from single males or those we believe are pretending to be a couple...most of them make almost zero mention about our profile.
4) We rarely respond to blind friend requests. We receive them all the time, especially after posting a meet-up. And nearly every time we accept a blind friend request, we say to ourselves...”okay, now what?”
People! Why send a friend request if you have no intention of communicating with us. Is it really all about just perving our private pics?
Absent any further communication...we generally give it a short time and simply delete most of the friend requests we accept.
5) How often does our response lead to a meeting or playdate? Almost never! It’s pretty clear most of those that reach out to us don’t read our profile. If they did they would know we have very little in common. Not to mention most have few pics in their profile. Or those that they do have are mostly of the woman using angled shots not accurately depicting their true aesthetics.
We generally find this site and the Utah based lifestyle pretty much a waste of time. Having said that...here come all the blind friend requests from married males on here without their spouses knowledge. LOL