I am a straight male with a bi fantasy and approached couples who list a bi male and most dont reply. I found out from a lesbian friend that ff sex is ok but mm sex is not. What is up with that?
I want to explore my bi fantasy but only with a m/f couple. Can any answer why it is acceptable for ff sex but mm sex isbtaboo.
I want to explore my bi fantasy but only with a m/f couple. Can any answer why it is acceptable for ff sex but mm sex isbtaboo.
Cuz it's ICKY! 
Well, to some people anyway. LOL Can't tell you exactly why FF is acceptable (except that it's a HUGE straight male fantasy) and MM isn't. But I CAN tell you that it's WAY more acceptable than it used to be. If you'd been on the swingsites 10 or 15 years ago the extremely blatant homophobia would have blown you away (no pun intended). Most men who were okay with MM play didn't DARE state it on their profiles. In the past 3-5 years, however, a lot of guys have come out of the bi closet, so to speak. You can probably find what you're looking for if you, maybe, expand your search parameters a little bit and perhaps look at couples that you might not initially consider for whatever reason.
Well, to some people anyway. LOL Can't tell you exactly why FF is acceptable (except that it's a HUGE straight male fantasy) and MM isn't. But I CAN tell you that it's WAY more acceptable than it used to be. If you'd been on the swingsites 10 or 15 years ago the extremely blatant homophobia would have blown you away (no pun intended). Most men who were okay with MM play didn't DARE state it on their profiles. In the past 3-5 years, however, a lot of guys have come out of the bi closet, so to speak. You can probably find what you're looking for if you, maybe, expand your search parameters a little bit and perhaps look at couples that you might not initially consider for whatever reason.
I’m sorry you’re having a hard time finding a couple to explore your fantasy with. Speaking for myself and quite a few other females I have talked with, mm is very sexy and a turn on for us. My husband and I love when we find a male that is comfortable with mm. It let’s us all play together with no worries of anyone touching something they shouldn’t. I hope you can find a couple to help you fulfill your fantasy!
There's more issues with this question then I care to get into on chat. If you wanna talk with no fluff like is added on these chats many times then feel free to messaged me. But 2 things most everyone likes to watch girls kiss. A significantly smaller portions like to watch guys kiss like I'm guessing 15% . There in is your first. Second is many guys say there bi or curious just to get with the woman. This to me is really a non question the answers are obvious. Good luck in your search. When it comes to guys I'm pretty picky. Again supply demand. I could post and add online hosting for bi guy and have 10, 20 sumtn year old hot guys message me within couple hours,. Same add for women good luck. Scientific data I've read shows women think sex 10 times daily, men 19. Anyways I think you probably know the answer and are frustrated. Just figure out what is or isn't working and keep it up.
Lastly this is definitely not an add for me looking for guys. I have no problem in that area if your curious feel free to message to talk but not looking for boyfriend currently. And I wouldn't look on swingers site for one.
Sexy couple's HMU anytime I can't wait to dance more this weekend love it
Lastly this is definitely not an add for me looking for guys. I have no problem in that area if your curious feel free to message to talk but not looking for boyfriend currently. And I wouldn't look on swingers site for one.
Sexy couple's HMU anytime I can't wait to dance more this weekend love it
I guess biggest thing I missed most gay guys avoid bi_curious this typically goes for girls to. There's allot of emotion and drama put into it for a gay or even bi person with someone curious.
I personally would much prefer someone who knows what they want. I don't want someone not into me and I don't want to convert them to my ways. It's emotionally draining.
I personally would much prefer someone who knows what they want. I don't want someone not into me and I don't want to convert them to my ways. It's emotionally draining.
One more thought. Something that could also be a factor is the possibility of bi males being at higher risk for certain STI's. Perhaps a little 'blurb' in your profile stating something along the lines of you are an absolute stickler for safe sex/condom use to help allay any fears in that regard would be wise. This new study just came out and certainly won't help your cause unless you can assuage people's concerns in that regard.
New Group of Men At Risk for HIV
New Group of Men At Risk for HIV
Thanks for pointing this out, Its something thats constantly on my mind but I wouldnt have thought to put it in my profile, like theres a poll PreP that can be taken to prevent hiv by people at risk of getting it,Ill definitely be updating my profile, I know myself I dont play with guys often because of this because I need to be able to trust the person im with isnt doing hookups with random strangers 3 times a day like ive seen many times, Thanks again Evildoers,
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One more thought. Something that could also be a factor is the possibility of bi males being at higher risk for certain STI's. Perhaps a little 'blurb' in your profile stating something along the lines of you are an absolute stickler for safe sex/condom use to help allay any fears in that regard would be wise. This new study just came out and certainly won't help your cause unless you can assuage people's concerns in that regard.
New Group of Men At Risk for HIV
HI everyone we are excited to start getting know everyone that is within 20-30 miles... please message us. Also I think that Female Female is very erotic.
Ever think maybe you're not their type? If someone is Bi Curious and not fully Bi; they probably have extremely high standards in members of the same sex.
If it involves consenting adults, and does not harm anyone, it's normal. Perhaps, there really are more bisexual women than men, and maybe social conditioning, and social bias plays into sexual preference more than we know. In any case, just because the majority of men may well be heterosexual, it does not make heterosexuality any more normal or healthy than bisexuality. It's just more common. Mrs. Delicious is full on bisexual. I am full on heterosexual. I am not at all offended by male or female bisexuality or male or female homosexuality. I enjoy sex with women. I get excited watching two women together, because I am sexually attracted to women. I get excited watching a woman with a man, because I am sexually attracted to women. There has to be a woman involved or I am just not excited about it. It seems to be the way I was born, and yes we have tried watching gay porn, and yes I have an open mind, and no I did not get excited. I was not grossed out I just did not get excited. Truthfully I know that bisexuals have an advantage sexually. Mrs. Delicious enjoys sex with men and women, watching men with women, watching women with women, and yes, watching men with men. She is sexually attracted to men and women.
I categorize myself as straight in our profile. I am heterosexual. I am not at all unfriendly to bisexual people. We have hooked up with couples with a bisexual male. It was not a problem. If we all understand before hand what we all are, and aren't willing to do, then it should be cool. If there is some incidental contact so what! So really I am bi-friendly, I just cannot personally accommodate a full on bisexual experience. If everyone is honest and respectful it can still be fun!
BMTWINFUN good luck! Once you find a couple that fits your desire, and you are lost in the experience, you'll probably wonder why the fuck it ever seemed to matter what the rest of us think.
I categorize myself as straight in our profile. I am heterosexual. I am not at all unfriendly to bisexual people. We have hooked up with couples with a bisexual male. It was not a problem. If we all understand before hand what we all are, and aren't willing to do, then it should be cool. If there is some incidental contact so what! So really I am bi-friendly, I just cannot personally accommodate a full on bisexual experience. If everyone is honest and respectful it can still be fun!
BMTWINFUN good luck! Once you find a couple that fits your desire, and you are lost in the experience, you'll probably wonder why the fuck it ever seemed to matter what the rest of us think.
Not only do I think mm is SO hot but find the men who have the strength to admit they are bi or bi-curious very alluring. Not many men have that much confidence in themselves or their sexuality. A sorry waste of some possibly amazing sex, IMO..
Im not sure if anyone will read this, but as for me I think when there is a group of sexy adults all enjoying one another it doesn't matter who is enjoying who as long as everyone is having fun.