So I'm curious to hear about everyone's first time getting into the lifestyle. Was it your partner pushing you or was it a mutual deal? Did you enjoy your First time? I'm sure there will be a wide range of answers would love to hear some stories. How long did it take to get comfortable with everything?
When we got married and first tried sex we decided we definitely liked it. We also decided that what our parents had told us and what the church tried to shove down our throats about sex was bullshit so we started to talk about fantasies and about what we might have missed growing up as two good little Mormon kids.
Soon, fantasy talk and doing stuff like reading Penthouse Letters to each other in bed became a regular part of our repertoire and a most of those fantasies revolved around fucking other people and talking about "what if" we had fucked other people while growing up and even what if we'd fucked each other and other people in the dorms where we met.
One day I was at a magazine shop buying the latest Penthouse Letters and a cheap looking magazine called Ohio Connections caught my eye. I opened it and discovered it had ads from couples looking to swap spouses. I decided to buy it and take it home to show Ms. Evil. We looked thru it together and couldn't believe that people would actually DO something like we'd read about so many times.
After talking and fantasizing about it for a few months we decided to contact a guy who hosted small parties at his house. We sat outside in our car for probably an hour, drinking Bartles & Jaymes wine coolers, scared to death, and daring each other to go in.
We finally went in and soon met a really cute couple and went in the back room and basically did nothing more than give each other massages. That was enough to fuel our fantasies for MONTHS. Eventually, we decided we liked it enough to try it again and, well...the rest is history.
Edit- Once we actually started swapping with other couples we used condoms and apparently that isn't "real sex" so I guess we're still, technically, two good little Mormon kids.
Soon, fantasy talk and doing stuff like reading Penthouse Letters to each other in bed became a regular part of our repertoire and a most of those fantasies revolved around fucking other people and talking about "what if" we had fucked other people while growing up and even what if we'd fucked each other and other people in the dorms where we met.
One day I was at a magazine shop buying the latest Penthouse Letters and a cheap looking magazine called Ohio Connections caught my eye. I opened it and discovered it had ads from couples looking to swap spouses. I decided to buy it and take it home to show Ms. Evil. We looked thru it together and couldn't believe that people would actually DO something like we'd read about so many times.
After talking and fantasizing about it for a few months we decided to contact a guy who hosted small parties at his house. We sat outside in our car for probably an hour, drinking Bartles & Jaymes wine coolers, scared to death, and daring each other to go in.
We finally went in and soon met a really cute couple and went in the back room and basically did nothing more than give each other massages. That was enough to fuel our fantasies for MONTHS. Eventually, we decided we liked it enough to try it again and, well...the rest is history.
Edit- Once we actually started swapping with other couples we used condoms and apparently that isn't "real sex" so I guess we're still, technically, two good little Mormon kids.