Hi everybody,
I am a single male new to this lifestyle. I understand there is a stigma to being a single male. Therefore, I am seeking advice on how not to be nuisance to anybody. Any information would be super helpful.
Also, if any couples or people seeking fwb's are willing to take me under their wing, that would be much appreciated.
Thanks!
I am a single male new to this lifestyle. I understand there is a stigma to being a single male. Therefore, I am seeking advice on how not to be nuisance to anybody. Any information would be super helpful.
Also, if any couples or people seeking fwb's are willing to take me under their wing, that would be much appreciated.
Thanks!
You’re competing with a lot of fit guys. Get in shape. Be respectful. Never blind friend request.
Go to parties with a date and mingle. Be nice and classy.
Go to parties with a date and mingle. Be nice and classy.
A piece of friendly advice. You're already starting off on the wrong foot. You created a profile on SDC recently, listing a different age. It's a small thing, but there's value in being sincere when you're a single guy.
Drop this site completely and go to match.com
Were all very fucked up here.
Or....look on the classified forum and make a date with "Wolfe"
Were all very fucked up here.
Or....look on the classified forum and make a date with "Wolfe"
My gawd.... love the "we are all fucked up here"
And the "WOLFE" thanks for keeping it alive. Classic 😂😂🤣
And the "WOLFE" thanks for keeping it alive. Classic 😂😂🤣
If I were you I would leave this site. Go out & find a gal & then come back when you have something to equally trade. Or perhaps find a SINGLE swingers site.
We have been to parties & the single guys flying around looking to jump on anything that will let them is just weird.
Single males in this environment are like Misquotes.
We have been to parties & the single guys flying around looking to jump on anything that will let them is just weird.
Single males in this environment are like Misquotes.
Oh, your such a cute kid. Honestly in our opinion your just to young to be “looking to gain experience in the lifestyle”. Go out live a little life then when your old enough to stop getting accidental hardons give it a go. Single males are a dime a dozen. When your ready, start with parties and events. Be respectful and only approach once you have been approached first. Nothing is more annoying than some single guy sending an unsolicited friend request or email. But like we said in the beginning this is just our opinion😉
A good place to start would be to go to the Swingular home page and click on the Lifestyle Questions, Lifestyle Tips, and especially Lifestyle Etiquette buttons on the bottoms of the left side of the page. After you've memorized that info you should type "Advice For Single Males" into the Swingular search engine and study ALL the threads you find dealing with this subject. Once you've committed all of this info to memory you will be ready to take the written exam and get your Single Male Learner's Permit. Then the REALLY hard work starts. Good luck!
Thank you all for your replies. I really do appreciate every one of you for taking the time out to add to this thread.
freshdom97 wrote:
Thank you all for your replies. I really do appreciate every one of you for taking the time out to add to this thread.
Shit, thank you, I learned something new today. This sort of thread has never been seen again. I earned my SM Learners Permit a few years ago and after passing all the exams I was issued a single female to buddy up. She comes with me to swinger parties but falls asleep in a corner most of the time.
I've found that being a single guy on here can be difficult at times as everyone for the most part are into other coupled and or the single ladies but I've also been able to chat and meet up with some pretty cool people on here and hey if it doesn't work out as far as the sex stuff goes at least you've made a friend or two out of it all
69LOKING4FUN801 wrote:
I've found that being a single guy on here can be difficult at times as everyone for the most part are into other coupled and or the single ladies
We are going to recommend you for the Mars mission at NASA, you have critical analisis skills.
SUENDAN wrote:69LOKING4FUN801 wrote:
I've found that being a single guy on here can be difficult at times as everyone for the most part are into other coupled and or the single ladies
We are going to recommend you for the Mars mission at NASA, you have critical analisis skills.
It must be tough duty trying to be a smart ass and misspelling words.
Wasn't trying to be a smart ass and didn't know I'd miss spelled words but thanks anyway guess I'm done with this have fun everyone