Do you purge your friend list? How often? What criteria do you use? We just cleared out ours...we don’t treat this like Facebook. If we haven’t met someone or don’t communicate with them then we remove those “friends.” We do this every few months. We have some recent new friends that we haven’t had a chance to chat with and we keep them until we clear out the next bunch. It’s so weird that many people want to be friends and then never message or reply to messages.
Smartflirts wrote:
Do you purge your friend list? How often? What criteria do you use? We just cleared out ours...we don’t treat this like Facebook. If we haven’t met someone or don’t communicate with them then we remove those “friends.” We do this every few months. We have some recent new friends that we haven’t had a chance to chat with and we keep them until we clear out the next bunch. It’s so weird that many people want to be friends and then never message or reply to messages.
We do the same...you explained why very, very well.
Absolutely. We purge our friends list every few weeks. Usually after no communication or setting up plans to meet. However, we have purged after viewing as well if we don’t have an interest, no pics of hubby/wife, or lack of pics in the private album. Comical how many people request to be friends with no pics whatsoever.
Very true: If someone has like one pic or a couple of pics, we look at their profile and decide if we should add them. If we see their private pics and we are unattracted or they don’t show themselves well we will remove them. We kinda feel bad doing this. We try to include a few accurate pics in our unprotected pic album...no intent to deceive or hide anything. I mean, physical attraction does matter and being honest about what you are matters too. #truthinadvertising
Sounds very familiar Smartflirts.
We’ve been purged! Well, I guess we’ve kind of earned it- we get busy with work, family, and travel- so we get behind on responding to messages or finding time to meet with new or old friends. We’ll try harder!!!
We need to purge. We have good intentions to meet new friends, but it doesn’t happen often enough. There are definitely some sexy, fun people on here though.
Yup.
We never purge unless its someone who is obviously being deceitful.
For the majority of people,us included, swinging is a part time activity. If we don't reply, we might be busy, on a break or just forgetful. I really don't see the harm of keeping the less active people around.
For the majority of people,us included, swinging is a part time activity. If we don't reply, we might be busy, on a break or just forgetful. I really don't see the harm of keeping the less active people around.
We have no friends
We are more like meowmix. We have not talked to people for a while then spring break comes or some other time when we are free and we go to our friends list for people to connect with.
There are months when we play more and months when we don't play at all. So having a friends list of people we are more likely interested in helps us with a place to start from.
There are months when we play more and months when we don't play at all. So having a friends list of people we are more likely interested in helps us with a place to start from.
I think it’s always great fun to play the game.... were we purged? disliked? ... or is our memory so bad we can’t quite remember if we had been previous friends? 🤣😁
The last one happens often 😋
The last one happens often 😋
We never purge anyone on this website becasue we are usually busy fucking couples from other websites.