We are new to this, we want to explore and have a good time but it's hard. We just want to meet someone and feel a vibe and have fun. Could you give me some advice Please? I want to make this happen but it seems so hard?
One of the best things to do when your new is to attend a few of the local events and come ready to mingle and plan on meeting new people.
I agree with what lookin4fun369 says, but you also need to be prepared to be approached by couples if you venture out into the event space.
What you're looking for based on your profile is the same thing that the majority of swingers are also keeping an eye out for... The elusive unicorn. Yes these magical creatures do exist, but they are difficult to corral. There are many that can be found behind the lcd of your computer screen, but to actually entice one into a dinner date, followed up with play time can be seemingly impossible at times! In fact... We had one completely disappear after making a dinner date just hours before this very night!!! Yes... We had communicated for several days and she made the arrangements... Only to disappear in a trail of glitter.
Do not be discouraged, as your quest will certainly take you on the adventure of a lifetime... But keep in mind... Sometimes it's the journey, not the destination that the excitement lies.
Best of luck!
What you're looking for based on your profile is the same thing that the majority of swingers are also keeping an eye out for... The elusive unicorn. Yes these magical creatures do exist, but they are difficult to corral. There are many that can be found behind the lcd of your computer screen, but to actually entice one into a dinner date, followed up with play time can be seemingly impossible at times! In fact... We had one completely disappear after making a dinner date just hours before this very night!!! Yes... We had communicated for several days and she made the arrangements... Only to disappear in a trail of glitter.
Do not be discouraged, as your quest will certainly take you on the adventure of a lifetime... But keep in mind... Sometimes it's the journey, not the destination that the excitement lies.
Best of luck!
My advice is to not overwhelm a unicorn with a ton of messages. Just one will do.
Sincerely, unicorn
Sincerely, unicorn
It is hard. It’s hard enough to get two people to match up let alone 4, and the layers of trust and complexity thrown in make it a challenge.
We’ve had a few organic experiences and have tried to find those again. We’re realizing that you can’t fake organic, and we’re okay with that too.
Anyway, keep plugging! The chase is fun too, it can make for good dirty talk during sex.
We’ve had a few organic experiences and have tried to find those again. We’re realizing that you can’t fake organic, and we’re okay with that too.
Anyway, keep plugging! The chase is fun too, it can make for good dirty talk during sex.
Oh....and if your just looking for a female your chances just dropped tremendously. Lol.
So single women are called unicorns 🦄 ??? That's cute...
Yes "Unicorns" Mythical creatures, a ton of fun to catch, makes for an out of this world experience! So Damn FUN!!!
Yep we agree with everything said so far. Looking for just a female...you just narrowed your chances considerably. Go to the moose on friday in Salt Lake, mingle and talk to people. If you dont engage others they are not likely to come to you..
Attend a swinger event either here or in Vegas and just remember its about fun. When you get frustrated or mad or dissapointed then you are taking things much to seriously.
Attend a swinger event either here or in Vegas and just remember its about fun. When you get frustrated or mad or dissapointed then you are taking things much to seriously.