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So I keep hearing over and over again from females for guys not to send dick pics unrequested, especially as a first contact hello message.... And I keep hearing of guys sending unsolicited dick pics.

So my question is for the guys that send unsolicited dick pics...

HAS IT EVER WORKED FOR YOU, OR DO YOU JUST NOT HAVE THE BRAIN POWER TO COMPREHEND WHAT YOU READ AND HEAR FROM WOMEN???
Definitely something I have wondered about. Because it happens daily . What is the ratio of sent pictures vs actual responses that end in a booty call ?
In our relationship, unsolicited dick pics have never made her say "let's contact this person and set up a date!" If anything, it is a complete turn off for her.
I dont send unsolicited dick pics, to me its a no brainer. I take the time to actually read profiles and if a profile says please send them...I do...that's the closest to unsolicited I will do. Otherwise it's not until we've chatted and they tell me they want some.
Maybe they think it's their only attractive feature? Maybe it's the only working brain they have? Honestly, some random dick does not make me swoon and want to engage. I just block and delete.
No. And shocked how many guys do it. Its hook up 101.

Dont do unless asked!

Also i would remove it from your profile pic while you are at it.
COUPLE40 wrote:

Definitely something I have wondered about. Because it happens daily . What is the ratio of sent pictures vs actual responses that end in a booty call ?


I want to know the ratio too... but I don't think any of the guys that do it will comment... it's ljke they have no personality to say hi (not hey) and start a conversation.
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Ms. Evil and I actually fuckin' LOVE it when guys send her dick pics. She has a great time picking out a suitable gif or meme or some funny, insulting way to tell the dude what an utterly "dick" move (literally and figuratively) it was to send a pic.
WE have also been in chats groups when the dic pic randomly shows up. Usually equates to crickets
Not to get off this topic too much, but we also don't like dick pic as the the main profile photo.
It must or why do people keep doing it haha
Or, is it if yo7 send a dick pic and get a response, then yo7 know they are willing and ready, nad at no external cost to you. So 8n he lon* run....

So we are sittin* here on Haulover Beach in Miami. Beac( if packed wit( naked folks. Several guys keep walkn* by, no luck so far for their advertising their hanging dicks...l...
This phenomena is amazing, it deserves serious research at a credible university. Seriously I’ve seen the shit they get grants for and this would benefit humanity much more.

I think, bottom line, boys are silly. I have supporting claims.

1 Men are visual, we love pictures of naughty bits. We like beautiful things, our penises to us are beautiful. Disconnect - we like it, it will make her wet just seeing it!

2 It has worked for me, I have had women ask for, and even masturbate to pics of my penis. But, a relationship was already established. (Yes ladies....I started a sentence with “but”). Disconnect - it worked once, we may as well break the ice with it.

3 At some point men are just boys, and we all know boys like flashing that wiener! No disconnect here, just a typical male juvenile compulsion.

So that’s my take, some people just don’t learn what is welcome.

[the next sentence should be read as a whisper]

....pm me if want to see my penis....

My apologies ladies I couldn’t help myself.

But seriously, pm me....
Never done it! And never thought it was the way to get traction as a SM. However, I do have one thought as to why some SM's might think it will get them somewhere. There are many profiles for single women and couples where it is mentioned "must be well hung" or some version of that. Why men would take the risk of assuming that for others is their biggest mistake. Duhh! However there was a profile once where she was soo my type BUT, she was asking for only BBC. I almost got out a black marker and painted up my dick to hit the mark. I thought is would be hilarious, but wasn't sure if she would, so I erred on the side of caution and didn't do it.
I have wondered whether or not if would be an overall benefit to have one in my private album. I haven't yet just because I have read profiles talking about how it's a deal breaker. But then I do see a lot of them in private albums of couples.
Big difference between having one or two dick pics in your profile photos vs. sending one, unsolicited, to someone. There are ABSOLUTELY women/couples out there that don't mind getting one. And there are those who DEFINITELY want to vet size, shape, or whatever before even considering whether to meet someone or not.

But our experience has been that those kind of people are in the minority. Most women we've met in the lifestyle assume that you indeed have a dick and, hopefully, know how to use it. They are far more concerned that it's able to get and stay hard for the requisite amount of time than it's ultimate size or appearance (within limits of course). You'd be surprised how many men we've met over the years who have quite impressive members but couldn't get it up to save their lives or, worse, subscribe to the Porn 101 school of sex, i.e. pounding away at some poor woman's pussy (often while checking themselves out in any nearby mirrors) with no variation in technique or speed/rhythm for as long as their Viagra holds up.
I love a good dick pic!! but when it is in conversation and the chemistry is right. I will say if there is something that makes a dick out or the norm---- bigger than a coke can, longer than imaginable those should be shared freely:) but what makes them doable is more like Ripely's believe it or not page!
I love a good dick pic!! but when it is in conversation and the chemistry is right. I will say if there is something that makes a dick out or the norm---- bigger than a coke can, longer than imaginable those should be shared freely:) but what makes them doable is more like Ripely's believe it or not page!
I’ve never sent one unsolicited but I have gotten lucky off exhibitionism in a chat room. Everyone was sending nudes.
I’ve never sent one unsolicited but I have gotten lucky off exhibitionism in a chat room. Everyone was sending nudes.