I am having trouble making any connection with anyone .i really am reciently split from my wife,and am used to going at this from the couple looking for a single male and couples.so to my dismay being a single male in the lifestyle is like having leprosy,and it sucks because this close to the split the thing i miss the most is physical contact i love sex and giving pleasure.maby this will be like renting a plane to write in the sky.