It seems super common for the females to be bi on this site from what I've seen. I am curious about the couples who have a male that is bi comfortable/curious. I am sure this is frowned upon, me posting this. I have no profile picture, I'm not verified. I am looking to meet a couple that is open to bi exploration for the male. I really want to try a few things and figured this was my easiest way to reach out to the masses! if you are interested feel free to check out my profile. I am clearly not going to be the right guy for most but I'm hoping there is someone willing to chat more.
I've tried CL and people are so freaking weird. Not saying I'm not but I feel like CL brings out the creepiest of the creepy. I found this place and thought i'd give it a shot.
Yeah, get the membership, put some pics in your private folder and then cast your net, you'll get better responses.
One way or another, the sooner you begin to tell your wife about what you really want, the sooner you'll get it. 
That fact that you tell people that you're married and are hiding this from your wife is what is turning people off towards you. Cheating not something most in the lifestyle tolerate. Like tmattz said just talk to your wife becauae if she finds this before you tell her I can only imagine how bad things could get for you.
Honestly you should tell your wife. Youd be surprised what a spouce would be ok with. But this sounds like strait up cheating and you wont get far in this ls. Good luck dude. Youll need it doing this this way