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During a recent house party some man was taking pictures in the playroom I was in, I’m not sure how long he was in there but when I looked up he was in the doorway either taking pictures or video. First off, in this LS I am very discreet outside of parties and meet and greets and would hope people would respect that....so if you were the person taking those pictures or if you ever think it’s a good idea to take pictures of complete strangers getting it on ...ask permission!! I’m going to be pissed if I find the pictures of me naked on Fb or some other social media site. Hope you got your jollies... now delete them please!
We can guess who put on the party! It’s typical with a couple of individuals that put on parties.

We do not collect or save any pictures or video of anyone else but us. Some times a random sexy will get in the frame if that happens we never share tha5 pic or video without permission.

We had one of the perves being sly at the managerie in SLC one night. Pretending to be on his phone. The best way to avoid if your sisnsitive is to ask host to ban phones in certain areas or risk loosing the phone.
Novak wrote:

During a recent house party some man was taking pictures in the playroom I was in, I’m not sure how long he was in there but when I looked up he was in the doorway either taking pictures or video. First off, in this LS I am very discreet outside of parties and meet and greets and would hope people would respect that....so if you were the person taking those pictures or if you ever think it’s a good idea to take pictures of complete strangers getting it on ...ask permission!! I’m going to be pissed if I find the pictures of me naked on Fb or some other social media site. Hope you got your jollies... now delete them please!


COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE! If this had happened while either Ms. Evil or I were playing we would have stopped IMMEDIATELY and demanded the memory card. If he didn't comply things would have gotten ugly! We were the victims of similar behavior many years ago (hidden cameras!) and won't tolerate this. We would have immediately informed the hosts of the party or if this twatwaffle happened to be the host we would make DAMNED sure that everyone we know, and who is on Swingular, knows exactly who he is.
Yes, thank you. I prefer to control pictures of me and where they are shared. It annoys the crap out of me, how many people feel totally comfortable to take pics of complete strangers in whatever state they may be in or don't think about who may be in the background of pictures taken at a party. Just because I've chosen to go to an event does not mean I've consented to pictures or video of what I'm doing. Just because you are comfortable doesn't mean I am. Have some respect people. Be aware of backgrounds and ask consent before taking photos OR vids.
Jerk is making it harder for good single playmates too!
EVILDOERS wrote:

Novak wrote:

During a recent house party some man was taking pictures in the playroom I was in, I’m not sure how long he was in there but when I looked up he was in the doorway either taking pictures or video. First off, in this LS I am very discreet outside of parties and meet and greets and would hope people would respect that....so if you were the person taking those pictures or if you ever think it’s a good idea to take pictures of complete strangers getting it on ...ask permission!! I’m going to be pissed if I find the pictures of me naked on Fb or some other social media site. Hope you got your jollies... now delete them please!


COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE! If this had happened while either Ms. Evil or I were playing we would have stopped IMMEDIATELY and demanded the memory card. If he didn't comply things would have gotten ugly! We were the victims of similar behavior many years ago (hidden cameras!) and won't tolerate this. We would have immediately informed the hosts of the party or if this twatwaffle happened to be the host we would make DAMNED sure that everyone we know, and who is on Swingular, knows exactly who he is.


If this ever happen at one of my parties I would like to be told and the pictures will never make it out of the house, that is not colol at all like you said discreet is a must and I would have told the host to take care of the problem, If anything like that happens at our parties I would sure like to know so I can take care of the pictures for the person before they get out of the house.
This is completely unacceptable! Nothing kills it faster for me, Mrs. Ginger, than seeing someone film or take pictures without my permission.
Hubby and I went to a hotel party that was a total disaster. We were the only people that showed up. The guy took pics, then posted them as his profile pic on here. I lost my shit when I found out. My hubby allows me to play without him as long as I take pics, but I do NOT do face pics and I always ask for permission and let the guy take the photos using my phone. Then he can control what of him is in the pics and I still get fun pics to please the hubby.
This post reminds me of a similar issue I have had with parties. I had hit it off with someone at a party and we took it to a play room and were enjoying ourselves and other couples were in there enjoying themselves but then someone who wasn’t playing with anyone began to try to play with the person I was with while she was doing oral, she didn’t like it and we changed positions to exclude said person, but it was the audacity that someone would just jump in bothered me. Just because someone is comfortable to play with one person doesn’t mean it is a free for all. In the play room is not the place to hit on others. If you want to be a fly on the wall that is one thing but remain as the fly on the wall. This is the reason my wife and I don’t like to play at the parties.
There are always those that feel empowered by the moment, i.e. naked people pics. They maybe confrontational but who know what their alterior motives are. We have seen parties where once most of the paticipants have arrived they annouce rules...no means no, no pics without permission, pic up your condoms etc. It always best to know your host and trust they have vetted the other guest. That can sometimes be difficult in some circumstances. We try to get a feel for whats going on and if doubtful we just leave.
Several years ago I was at a party with KOIGIRL. SHE knew the hosts and later in the evening one of the husbands asked me (since I was standing closest) to take some pictures of he and his wife (with his phone). I snapped a few and then gave the camera back.
The couple who hosted the party had video cameras all around, and a week later KOIGIRL told me that the wife thought I had taken pictures with my own phone. When it was explained what actually happened the couple verified me as REAL (unfortunately I cancelled when I began dating a woman who wasn't interested in swinging, and now I don't know if there is that badge for single guys.

From the stories I have read in this thread, there's little doubt that pictures were taken without permission. People don't realize that that pictures can be taken from public property onto private property (with certain exceptions) but on private property the owner has the discretion on allowing pictures or not.