I know many share our point of view on this situation or there wouldn't be people in the lifestyle, but even in this type of interaction with others, it can become dull or loose some of its luster. I have talked with many other couples that find as they reach that middle age, some of the excitement of sex is lost because of the change our outward appearance. We don't get the same second looks we used too, people don't flirt with us at the clubs when we show up dressed to thrill the way it used to be. Things change, its just a fact of life. I want to try to put some spark back in my wife's daily routine. She has drifted away from the lifestyles feeling that her outward looks are aging and the thrill seems to have left. Bluntly put, I am looking to find some men or would like to take the time and challenge of the chase. If you think it sounds like fun and you have the patience to try, let me know. If others of you have similar feeling or thoughts.. share them.
what kind of men you looking for?