I (as a single male) want to make sure that if a couple or single female is interested in me at a bar or club that they don't hesitate to approach me! Do you think these wild encounters will be rare as I am 21 only?
Our 2 cents is keep in mind most of the time you'll be dealing with someone's wife that isn't looking to marry you lol so just be respectful and calm because my wife gets annoyed with horny young guys because they think "I got a dick wanna see it?" Or the "hey let me put this thing in ya!" Just stay easy going the women find you most of the time so if they approach you that means they are into you so don't be an asshole and you'll do just fine mr man.
It is rare but I have seen it a couple times while I was out with friends but anklets can be an indication of women in this lifestyle and the type of way they like to play. My wife and I have considered getting a HW and MFMF charm and seeing the results for it. This definitely isn't a tell-tale sign but gives you a better idea.
We randomly found some at a mutual friends wedding. But some say a black ring is a sign of being a swinger. But with the popularity of the sylicon rings it is hard to tell and we're not ones to just go up and ask!
I've heard the black ring worn on the right hand is an indicator, but it's still tricky to try to just go up and ask them if they swing. Lol
We have seen the black ring . However for us we tend to flirt and steer the conversation in the direction that will lead that. If their flirting back and itโs an open conversation. But still is very rare case.
UTFunTime wrote:
I've heard the black ring worn on the right hand is an indicator, but it's still tricky to try to just go up and ask them if they swing. Lol
It also means they are Asexual... so good luck.๐
People aware of the lifestyle, who are not in the lifestyle, that we know, seem to think that some of the people who go to Club 90 are swingers. They knew about Habits too. I don't think that very many outside the swinger's community, seem to even know the Moose exist. As for jewelry or accessories that swingers might use to subtly self disclose, I don't think they have any thoughts on the subject. We are out numbered, even though our numbers are growing. It's possible, and maybe even probable, that there are more people out there, who wear black rings, or anklets, or toe rings, that have no idea what they might suggest to swingers, than there are swingers, wondering if their jewelry selection means, that these people swing.
Recently, I bought Mrs. Delicious a nice, long scarf, with sort of subtle silhouettes on each end, of a naked woman, sitting on a naked man's lap with her arms wrapped around his back, and her legs wrapped around his waist. If you look close it is a couple having sex. If you don't it's just a design with colors that go well with the majority of the scarf. If the scarf is hanging with the ends sort of in folds, it's hard to make sense the silhouettes. If she makes sure the ends are flattened out then, if you look, it's obvious. So, let's say we go out, and someone seems to be interested, and looking our way, and maybe we are interested too. She can flatten the ends out. If someone seems to be looking at the design with approval, and it just so happens, that the scarf is draped over her braless breast, to concealing her nipples, that would otherwise, be quite visible, through her shear shirt; and one or both of her nipples end up out from under the scarf, well there you go. Really a scarf, and a shear shirt, is probably enough, but the design is also fun.
Recently, I bought Mrs. Delicious a nice, long scarf, with sort of subtle silhouettes on each end, of a naked woman, sitting on a naked man's lap with her arms wrapped around his back, and her legs wrapped around his waist. If you look close it is a couple having sex. If you don't it's just a design with colors that go well with the majority of the scarf. If the scarf is hanging with the ends sort of in folds, it's hard to make sense the silhouettes. If she makes sure the ends are flattened out then, if you look, it's obvious. So, let's say we go out, and someone seems to be interested, and looking our way, and maybe we are interested too. She can flatten the ends out. If someone seems to be looking at the design with approval, and it just so happens, that the scarf is draped over her braless breast, to concealing her nipples, that would otherwise, be quite visible, through her shear shirt; and one or both of her nipples end up out from under the scarf, well there you go. Really a scarf, and a shear shirt, is probably enough, but the design is also fun.
MATTANDLIZFORFUN wrote:
We both always wear black rings on the right ring finger. Have only ever had one person notice though, and they were former ls.
I believe asexuals wear a black ring on the right middle finger if I recall
The only black rings you can rely on as a good indicator of someone being a swinger are black cock rings. The trick is to figure out if the guy (or the girl, no judgments) is wearing one.
It's not that hard to identify people, just keep it to yourself. Case in point.... This past weekend while in Lava with friends, I was in the hot pools and there were other couples there, they were talking to an older woman about China. The woman said something about her being up from Utah to visit her daughter. The two couples both said what part of Utah they were from but didn't ask do you know so and so.... I said to my friends, I was waiting for the next question, 'what's your screen name?'
When we go out my girl wears a SLUT bracelet but no one has ever noticed it...
MEANDHER1968 wrote:
When we go out my girl wears a SLUT bracelet but no one has ever noticed it...
Maybe put it on a necklace so it hangs in the cleavage area. People would notice that.
SHENANIGANIZER wrote:MEANDHER1968 wrote:
When we go out my girl wears a SLUT bracelet but no one has ever noticed it...
Maybe put it on a necklace so it hangs in the cleavage area. People would notice that.
Forgot that...She does wear that..Always to dark in bars though
MEANDHER1968 wrote:
When we go out my girl wears a SLUT bracelet but no one has ever noticed it...
Not sure it has quite the same effect/impact as it would have if you didn't see so many of these t-shirts these days.
