Swingers Forum - How can we get noticed???

We are new to the site and we have met a few couples and have enjoyed their company, but we haven't had a whole lot of luck with contacting others. We have gone to a couple meet and greets and had a ton of fun. We were also thinking about hosting a party to help meet more couples. If anyone out there can give us some advice would help tons

DELICIOUSLYWET-
We love to be naked. We both sleep naked, and when we can we walk around the house naked. Nude beaches, topless beaches, camping or where ever it is legal. When we are at parties ( depending on the style ) we do not have any issues being the first to get naked. When the alcohol starts to flow the misses loves to be topless. So being comfortable in our own skin really isn't an issue.

We’ve found that meet and greets and other parties are the best way to meet people. People like to see that you are real. Get to know you a little.

I guess I'm more prudish. At parties I tend to leave when people are randomly strolling around naked. I go to nudist places for that. I like the seduction and intrigue of undressing my potential partner. Now, if I'm watching a couple playing and the clothes come off, that is arousing, but just people walking around with titties flopping and cocks swinging is not a turn on.

achilles1957 wrote:

SIMONEMARKS-

Don't get me wrong about being nude at parties, we just don't drop our clothes at the door. It all depends on the style of party. I mean if I saw people just randomly walking around nude then yeah it would be a little weird. That's why we will go to the resorts and beaches for that.

Well our post on this thread was mostly humor. As you probably know. In defense of naked....We don't drop our clothes at the door. We neatly fold them and ask the host and hostess where we can store them. It's also a great way to get out of a multi level marketing solicitation. Seriously, we don't get naked, unless the get together, is at the point it seems to be desired and appropriate. Perhaps part of the reason hot tubs are so popular, with swingers, is that people can get naked, on the premise they are going to enjoy the tub, and they do, and the water still provides some cover. Naked is however still a big element in hot tub socializing. Otherwise why not wear suits?

We met with a couple a few years back with a beautiful blonde wife, who had immigrated here from Germany and her sexy dark and handsome husband. About ten minutes into the conversation, she told us that she had decided, that she was attracted to both of us and that she was interested in going into the bedroom to be intimate, just to get that out of the way. No rush, no hurry, just so we would know. The two of us and her husband all offered up the same sentiments. Wow, the conversation immediately became really comfortable, and then easily gravitated into comfortably intimate and erotic realms. The sex that followed was wonderful. We had a couple meet us at their door once wearing nothing but bath robes. We have had swinger friends come by to visit us in a hotel suite and we were wearing nothing but the hotel's bathrobes when they arrived. In a bath robe you are not naked. They cover quite a bit of you, but the steps from clothed to naked are greatly reduced. In a bath robe people start to think about you naked. Obviously, naked is only appropriate when it is consensual. You don't invite someone for a job interview, to a hotel room, and meet them wearing a bathrobe. This is a swinger site, and sex and naked, may well be something on all of our minds. Most of the people who contact us, on this site, did so because they are interested in something sexual, and they are wondering if we might be a good fit. Good fit may have something to do with how our nakedness might affect them. We can all flirt and woo, in all sorts of way through digital media and in person, and it is all mostly fun. All of us perhaps understand our own vulnerabilities, and have our own doubts and fears. We dress ourselves up, to protect ourselves, all sorts of ways beyond clothing. In the end, don't we all want to make connections, and be desired, for who we really are? The naked us!

Back to the point. Live out loud and be who you really are, and the right people will notice you with or without your clothing. So will the wrong people, but you can just block them!