So I recently bought the Mrs a new car and in the process a threesome got brought up in the negotiations lol. She said she is down for another mff threesome but as most of you know that can be difficult. So my question is on swingular the option with the play solo tab means if someone says yes they are open to the idea, am I wrong? I hate even asking anyone because I feel like I am stepping on toes even asking or crossing that line of disrespect but then again why would someone say they would play solo? Anyone faced this problem? Don't get me wrong a full swap would be fun but this is a rare occasion where she is giving me the benefit of being the center of attention lol.
I don't think that you're wrong at all. I've been involved in mff before it can be way fun for both parties involved.
The majority of couples profiles where one (or both) say they "will" or "maybe" play alone is usually after they get to know another couple and/or single that they are comfortable with, have a long history with, etc.
That is the feedback we've gotten from the people who have that as an option.
Long story short, if you start hitting up couples that have the fem half (which is all you are interested in) saying she does or might play alone. You'll most likely be committing "swinger suicide".
Hope that helps.
That is the feedback we've gotten from the people who have that as an option.
Long story short, if you start hitting up couples that have the fem half (which is all you are interested in) saying she does or might play alone. You'll most likely be committing "swinger suicide".
Hope that helps.
There are quite a few couples, that grant one another hall pass privileges. From experience, our observation, is that very few hall pass couples, want hall pass play, to be their primary focus. They prefer playing together, mostly because they enjoy each other's pleasure and company. Sharing the adventure is something they enjoy. Even if they play separately, they share everything about it. Couples, with this mind set, probably don't want to enter into a swinging relationship, with another couple, or single, that altogether excludes one half of their partnership equation. If they play with singles, they both have to like the single person involved, even if only one of them might be having sex with that person. People usually don't want to have a sexual relationship with anyone who dislikes, dismisses, or treats badly, in anyway, the person they love, like cherish, etc., above all others. Bottom line, is there are not that many wives, who are looking to be your unicorn, unless you have already established a working sexual relationship, as a couple of couples. Maybe always means maybe, and yes usually means maybe. Even in swinging the devil is in the details.
This is a sex site, and having a presence here, suggest all of us here, are open to someone sexually approaching us. If someone reads one of our profiles, and it is not obvious, that we are not apposed to what they are proposing, and they politely send us an inquiry, and we are not interested, then a polite no thank you is perhaps appropriate. How we inquire makes a big difference, and says a lot about us. How we respond to an inquiry say just as much.
Best of luck!
This is a sex site, and having a presence here, suggest all of us here, are open to someone sexually approaching us. If someone reads one of our profiles, and it is not obvious, that we are not apposed to what they are proposing, and they politely send us an inquiry, and we are not interested, then a polite no thank you is perhaps appropriate. How we inquire makes a big difference, and says a lot about us. How we respond to an inquiry say just as much.
Best of luck!
We are a couple where he likes the hot-wife scenario if a connection and trust level have been met. His fantasy is watching her play and to be played with and if all works, he joins in with her only. He likes that she has a hall-pass with other women as long as all is shared, open and no secrets. We are surprised when some couples get uptight when they think he is being excluded or think the other lady will feel left out. We don't see it that way at all. For me, the lady half, if a lady asked me to join a MFF but only wanted me to play with her and leave her guy alone, I would fully respect and understand that.
Jim00998877 wrote:
I have a lady who wants to play with a couple while I video it. Let me know if your interested in that. I will not join in.
If you can arrange for us to have a threesome and or a foursome with Gwyneth Paltrow and or Gal Gadot by all means we are cool if you film it. If that won't work how about Will and Jada Smith?
We're obviously negotiating our car buying the wrong way. All we get is maybe a free tank of gas