I'm just curious I started fooling around with girls in high school, and have really enjoyed it. So many woman on here say they are curious but are they really or are they just wanting to excite thier guys.
Good Question ... guessin many are people pleazers... I know I have it in Me ~
I do enjoy the turn on it gives him watching me play with women, but I like women just for my turn on too. It's been difficult finding like-minded women.
Those of us that truly enjoy other women DO exist 😉 But I have to agree, it's not easy to find others with a similar mindset.
OJ_SOL wrote:
I wonder the same thing sometimes. Do truly Bi girls besides me exist? Its so hard to find girls that truly enjoy girl on girl play. Someone should make a group for girl on girl play only. We would join and play for sure
I was thinking the same thing!! where are all the truly bi girls and why isn't there a group where we can all chat and set up girls nights out? I getting tired of meeting women that say they are bi but are obviously not really into it they just say it because their man likes girl on girl. I would love to actually meet like minded women
BRCKNESS wrote:OJ_SOL wrote:
I wonder the same thing sometimes. Do truly Bi girls besides me exist? Its so hard to find girls that truly enjoy girl on girl play. Someone should make a group for girl on girl play only. We would join and play for sure
I was thinking the same thing!! where are all the truly bi girls and why isn't there a group where we can all chat and set up girls nights out? I getting tired of meeting women that say they are bi but are obviously not really into it they just say it because their man likes girl on girl. I would love to actually meet like minded women
You can always count on me BRCKNESS I've always really wanted just a girl on girl night
This has been a question of ours for a while now. It seems like the vast majority of bi-sexual women are really more bi-convenient. Or bi-comfortable at best. Not that there is anything wrong with that, we feel everyone is fine where they are. It would just be nice if bisexual in a profile meant, the girl is at least close as interested in a girl as a guy.
That said, I think at times a girl doesn't come across as bisexual not because they aren't, but because they aren't interested in that particular girl. .......aaaand a girl play group would be awesome.
That said, I think at times a girl doesn't come across as bisexual not because they aren't, but because they aren't interested in that particular girl. .......aaaand a girl play group would be awesome.
It's refreshing to know that we're not the only ones who encounter this. I LOVE women, and embrace my sexuality to the fullest. My husband and I tend to play with couples, but I truly enjoy the company of women because of my bisexuality. At times people are surprised that I'm the one making contact... I'm sure they think it's my husband, but no, just kinky me wanting to make some new friends.
I have been with a lot of woman that say they are bi, but when you play with them you get the feeling thier not really into. When I'm with a girl that really is into it, it is awsome.
One of the main reasons we jumped back into the lifestyle was to let Flame enjoy her Bi side.
While I like to join in, just watching her enjoy another woman is quite fun.
TJ
While I like to join in, just watching her enjoy another woman is quite fun.
TJ
Mrs. Delicious is full on bisexual. Whether it is a woman or a man, she has to be attracted to the person and there has to be some chemistry. She can't and she won't fake it. Whether or not I might think it would be fun to watch her with someone is secondary, and just an added benefit. I would never dream of asking her to do anything she didn't really want to do. It's the person and not just the gender that will or will not get her sexually motivated. Frankly, that's true for me and I am heterosexual. I have to be attracted to the woman. Maybe we have been there and done that, within the "lifestyle" so for us to want to go out of our way to hook up sexually, we have to really, really want to be with the person or people. We really are not looking for an opportunity to have sex. We are, however, very interested in meeting people we will want to have sex with. If we meet someone, and some of us, or all of us want to have sex with that person, or people, then we will. If not then we won't. That's not to say we have to move in with our lovers. Infrequent encounters, which are mostly just sexual are fun. We enjoy recreational sex and we enjoy deeper connections. Still there has to be chemistry. No forced efforts, no taking one for the team, no coercing or nagging. Behaviors like that are unfair to everyone involved.
FLAME_N_TJ wrote:
One of the main reasons we jumped back into the lifestyle was to let Flame enjoy her Bi side.
While I like to join in, just watching her enjoy another woman is quite fun.
TJ
It is the main reason we also keep coming back. V loves the girls (well, we both do) but we are 100% down with just girl/girl time and then grab your own and go. Those have been our hottest experiences by far.
On a similar note, I wonder how many women are in the lifestyle to please their man. It appears to me that a majority of the profiles are written by the men, while the majority of the photos are of the woman.
SUNRISE wrote:
On a similar note, I wonder how many women are in the lifestyle to please their man. It appears to me that a majority of the profiles are written by the men, while the majority of the photos are of the woman.
when it comes to actually having sex, once it gets to that point, our lady is all in and really self immerses and enjoys, enjoys, enjoys, enjoys. She enjoys just socializing with people too. As for the digital online dance that may precede any in the flesh social and or sexual encounters, she is not all that interested. Looking at our profile, we both have photos apart, and she has more of them, and we have photos together. I may not be a great photographer but I feel she is much more qualified as a nude model than I am.
We are both interested. Overall, our swinging adventures have been great! I probably think about sex more than she does, but she thinks about it quite a bit. I may be the guy who does most of the looking around to see what the possibilities are but she enjoys having a cruise director, who she knows always has her in mind. She does ask me to see if I can set something up from time to time. When we talk about potential sexual scenarios, yes it's pretty easy to recognize which ones get her excited. If a woman's number one lover is more interested in making her sexual experiences everything she desires, and he enjoys it, well in the end so will she! Win, win! We both do it for ourselves and we do it for each other.
SUNRISE wrote:
On a similar note, I wonder how many women are in the lifestyle to please their man. It appears to me that a majority of the profiles are written by the men, while the majority of the photos are of the woman.
The female half of our profile has ZERO Tolerance for drama, BullShit, lies or deceit. Therefore, I (male half), do all of the pre-screening, blocking of "fake couples", aggressive Single males, couples looking for different things than we are, etc. That being said, it makes her no less into the lifestyle and no less into having a good time. She just has a lesser online 'tolerance' than I have.
As Deliciouslywet also eluded, the female form is FAR more attractive to I think most (if not all) humans than that of the male. I try not to assume anything, as everyone has their own method of trying to get the most success.
Wow! While I am bi, there are certain things that stand in the way in the lifestyle. Like the girls boyfriend/husband is just wanting to get at it, or I'm just not into the other woman. There has to be a physical and psychological attraction for me. There have been some couples we've played with where the girl says she's bi and I've been attracted to her but she seems more interested in Jay and completely bypasses the girl-on-girl time I hoped for. I always wrote it off as "she's just not in to me" but in hindsight I think maybe they just say they're bi to attract more interest.
CNTRLCPL wrote:SUNRISE wrote:
On a similar note, I wonder how many women are in the lifestyle to please their man. It appears to me that a majority of the profiles are written by the men, while the majority of the photos are of the woman.
The female half of our profile has ZERO Tolerance for drama, BullShit, lies or deceit. Therefore, I (male half), do all of the pre-screening, blocking of "fake couples", aggressive Single males, couples looking for different things than we are, etc. That being said, it makes her no less into the lifestyle and no less into having a good time. She just has a lesser online 'tolerance' than I have.
As Deliciouslywet also eluded, the female form is FAR more attractive to I think most (if not all) humans than that of the male. I try not to assume anything, as everyone has their own method of trying to get the most success.
Mrs. Delicious likes to get online to review the readers digest version of our activity, and review the profiles of people that we are communicating with and maybe going to meet. She does sometimes like to go to the chat room, sometimes alone, and sometimes we do it together. The only times we have ever had sex on camera in the chat room, she initiated it. Here too our lady does not care much for the vetting process. We pretty much mutually approve our friends list and our profile content.
People in general are kind of fluid in their behaviors, druthers, desires and such. We all have a baseline for everything, and that includes sexual desire, and we all move above and below our baselines. What's happening inside our bodies affect how we see the outside world, and stimulus from the outside world affects what is happening inside our bodies. Perhaps, men tend to naturally have a bit more internal, from within the body sex drive. Women, once stimulated, sexually, seem to be able to go place in their mind and their bodies, us fellas perhaps never really visit. So for some sexually adventurous couples, it's the guy who tends to do most of the searching. The apex of many an adventures may actually favor the ladies.
Playing into the original theme of the post, sometimes perhaps, women do experiment with bisexuality, for their husband. If they really don't want to do it they shouldn't. If they really are curious, and they want to say they are trying it to please him, well okay, people can be coy. It would be more honest for her to just say I really am curious but unsure. Her husband and her experimental partner should be willing to accept her reaction which ever way she swings. With that said her reaction may be somewhat affected by where she is on, above or below her sexual baseline.
DRAR09 wrote:BRCKNESS wrote:
[quote=OJ_SOL]I wonder the same thing sometimes. Do truly Bi girls besides me exist? Its so hard to find girls that truly enjoy girl on girl play. Someone should make a group for girl on girl play only. We would join and play for sure
I was thinking the same thing!! where are all the truly bi girls and why isn't there a group where we can all chat and set up girls nights out? I getting tired of meeting women that say they are bi but are obviously not really into it they just say it because their man likes girl on girl. I would love to actually meet like minded women
You can always count on me BRCKNESS I've always really wanted just a girl on girl night [/quote]
Heck Count me In! Who is setting up this group??? Let's do it!
sonotahipster wrote:
I total agree with all of you. My husband is out of town 2/3's of the year and we would love to play as a couple when he's home but I would love to have my own thing going with a female for the times he's gone, if your man is cool with you playing on your own of course 😉. If this would work for you check out our profile and message me if you are interested.
So would you be willing to play with a male while your husband is out of town. We don't see any difference in playing with the male or female it is still sex.
Fo us their
For us there is a difference between sex with a guy while my guy is gone or with a woman. For my hubby it is a potential threat with a guy. I think that is because he doesn't see a possibility of my leaving him for a girl. He feels that, whether real or not, with a guy.
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:sonotahipster wrote:
I total agree with all of you. My husband is out of town 2/3's of the year and we would love to play as a couple when he's home but I would love to have my own thing going with a female for the times he's gone, if your man is cool with you playing on your own of course 😉. If this would work for you check out our profile and message me if you are interested.
So would you be willing to play with a male while your husband is out of town. We don't see any difference in playing with the male or female it is still sex.
For us there is a difference between sex with a guy while my guy is gone or with a woman. For my hubby it is a potential threat with a guy. I think that is because he doesn't see a possibility of my leaving him for a girl. He feels that, whether real or not, with a guy.
We strongly prefer the term "bi comfortable". Ms. Evil likes dick, period. On the other hand she enjoys how much the guys get turned on when seeing two girls and has absolutely no problem playing bi if the vibe is right. And no, she's not averse to going down on another girl, or kissing, or whatever. She just wants a good dicking at some point in the evening. :-)
Hello, Everyone, I am new to the scene and open to new sexual encounters. I started exploring my sexual dark side when I became a web model in 2015 the first show I will admit I was a little nervous but I had to relax and go with the flow at that moment I knew I was open to endless possibilities in the bedroom, my first experience with a couple was interesting I was at a swingers party and this guy and his spouse walk over and went to work on me the next thing I know I was fucking his old lady doggy style when sucking his dick I thought hum this may be fun after all after all swinging was not so odd after all. 509-876-5776
So I've set up a local party for bi-ladies. It's on December 9th.
Bi-Ladies Club
By DRAR09
Saturday Dec 9, 2017 @ 7:00 PM
Salt Lake City, UT (US)
Leave your man at home and come meet the bi-ladies of Swingular. This will be the first meet up of the bi-ladies club (name change likely). Ideally, we would like to have a monthly meet up, whether at a bar/club, paint nite, wine tasting, dinner, or game night. This first meet up will be a game night. There are no age restrictions, but this is women only. No expectations, just meeting new friends. Please PM me or brckness for more info. Location TBD.
Bi-Ladies Club
By DRAR09
Saturday Dec 9, 2017 @ 7:00 PM
Salt Lake City, UT (US)
Leave your man at home and come meet the bi-ladies of Swingular. This will be the first meet up of the bi-ladies club (name change likely). Ideally, we would like to have a monthly meet up, whether at a bar/club, paint nite, wine tasting, dinner, or game night. This first meet up will be a game night. There are no age restrictions, but this is women only. No expectations, just meeting new friends. Please PM me or brckness for more info. Location TBD.
Wow that sounds like fun all girl, all like minded.
I definitely agree upon everybody's opinion but I would like to put my two cents in I love the touch of a woman in the fun we have playing. but I am not bi I just enjoy the sexy times we have and my man does enjoy watching me and I love the smile I can give to him. It wouldn't be a half bad idea to do a girls on girls group night lol
Mrs says bi-curious usually indicates the lady is curious about what a woman can do for her.
From his side, how is it that at 40+ years old, 10 years in the swinging lifestyle can you be curious? If after that much time you're still not sure, there's a bigger problem at play.
I knew I wasn't bi, bi-curious, bi-comfortable, or whatever BS label you want to put on it long before I came into the lifestyle.
In essence, yes, the majority do it for their husband, IMHO.
From his side, how is it that at 40+ years old, 10 years in the swinging lifestyle can you be curious? If after that much time you're still not sure, there's a bigger problem at play.
I knew I wasn't bi, bi-curious, bi-comfortable, or whatever BS label you want to put on it long before I came into the lifestyle.
In essence, yes, the majority do it for their husband, IMHO.
I'm very excited some ladies decided to plan a gathering. I will definitely be there on the 9th. So excited to meet other like-minded ladies.
I agree with JSTJIM72 that after 10 years one should have gotten past the curious stage but maybe that's where bicomfortable fits in. As for me I was curious coming into the lifestyle, had a few experiences, went to comfortable and now bi. Even though my husband enjoys seeing me with other women, I still like having fun with women if he's not around.
I agree with JSTJIM72 that after 10 years one should have gotten past the curious stage but maybe that's where bicomfortable fits in. As for me I was curious coming into the lifestyle, had a few experiences, went to comfortable and now bi. Even though my husband enjoys seeing me with other women, I still like having fun with women if he's not around.
I'm bi-curious and my husband and I are looking for a threesome with another woman. I have fantasies of him being with another woman and he has fantasies of me and another woman with him! We have walked this for a while but have a hard time getting anyone to commit. We are willing to host!
I’m new to the site,
Can I post pics with my response?
Can I post pics with my response?
This is a cool topic
I’d say you know your lady is into other ladies when you wake up in the middle of the night and they are playing without you.
It’s hot for sure but it was not for my visual pleasure 😈
Or you come home from work and they are already naked and in bed playing.😈
I believe there are lots of ladies are are truely into ladies (Bi-sexual)
I know Mrs. Jjsexytime craves the touch of a woman and is amazing at pleasing them!!
And that’s all good news for us Men. Let the ladies play!!! Sounds like a Win/Win
I’d say you know your lady is into other ladies when you wake up in the middle of the night and they are playing without you.
It’s hot for sure but it was not for my visual pleasure 😈
Or you come home from work and they are already naked and in bed playing.😈
I believe there are lots of ladies are are truely into ladies (Bi-sexual)
I know Mrs. Jjsexytime craves the touch of a woman and is amazing at pleasing them!!
And that’s all good news for us Men. Let the ladies play!!! Sounds like a Win/Win
Cinder66 wrote:We have often wondered how many women on here are truly bisexual or even curious. Seems like every couple is. Very few couples admit that both are straight. We are probably in the minority in that regards. We do feel most donit for the husband.
I'm just curious I started fooling around with girls in high school, and have really enjoyed it. So many woman on here say they are curious but are they really or are they just wanting to excite thier guys.
JJSEXYTIME wrote:
This is a cool topic
I’d say you know your lady is into other ladies when you wake up in the middle of the night and they are playing without you.
It’s hot for sure but it was not for my visual pleasure 😈
Or you come home from work and they are already naked and in bed playing.😈
I believe there are lots of ladies are are truely into ladies (Bi-sexual)
I know Mrs. Jjsexytime craves the touch of a woman and is amazing at pleasing them!!
And that’s all good news for us Men. Let the ladies play!!! Sounds like a Win/Win
Well put JJ!!
Longcarbine wrote:Absolutely. Lol
I’m new to the site,
Can I post pics with my response?
I'd love to go to this meet up! Here's my two sense on the topic being discussed. I think for a good percentage women, they are just getting comfortable exploring their sexual side for the first time. Their true sexual nature and desires. For many, they may feel like they had girl/girl attraction or tendencies but never fully explored or owned their sexuality. It's hard to ignore the prominent religious culture that surrounds us, whether people recognize and/or admit it, the general shame culture that surrounds loving who you are sexually and embracing and exploring it definitely causes a good number of women to never allow themselves to fully open up to it. I've always been a huge advocate of helping women feel comfortable talking about, asking questions, and exploring their sexuality in a sex positive, non judgmental, non shaming manner. I actually run an all girl sex positive discussion group on facebook, so women had such a place to go! You can message me if you want more info or if you just wanna chat about it. My passion is talking about sex! But I especially love talking and discussing things with women.
I know for me, it took a while to shed all my shame walls and ideas about sex that had been ingrained in me. Once I did, it was SO liberating! Being able to fully embrace your sexuality and be true to yourself is the most freeing experience!
~Mrs. Embracesex
I know for me, it took a while to shed all my shame walls and ideas about sex that had been ingrained in me. Once I did, it was SO liberating! Being able to fully embrace your sexuality and be true to yourself is the most freeing experience!
~Mrs. Embracesex
Curious if it is sexual exploration why aren’t there more men on here that are bisexual (curious, comfortable, etc). Seems like the percentage of women outweigh the men by Far!
Curious if it is sexual exploration why aren’t there more men on here that are bisexual (curious, comfortable, etc). Seems like the percentage of women outweigh the men by Far!