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We have multiple people ask
Q1. Why the location is not posted and?
Q2. Why single men are not allowed?
A1. This event is categorized as an Extreme Play Party. So the location is only given to ticket holders the day before the event.
A2. Because this is a Play Party. Single men are allowed but must come as a Volunteer or Guardian. A limited number of single men are allowed. So if you have more question about how to attend as a single male please message us.
Go to risquesoiree.com for details on this upcoming soiree.
I'm super excited to see all the ninjas, naked sushi, and geishas. I hope to see a bunch of new/ old friends.
As a single guy, I would like to weigh in on the question of whether single guys should be allowed to attend these types of events because this is something several people have brought up with me lately. I totally understand why single guys are only allowed to attend these events in small numbers, if at all. The reason is pretty simple: if we open it up to all single guys, it will turn into a sausage fest and at the same time scare away many of the couples and single females. It is just an inconvenient truth about human behavior. So us poor single guys all need to accept that fact and figure out how to find a date so that we can attend these parties. Once we have attended a few and shown ourselves to be responsible, respectful, and not creepy, then doors will open and we will be allowed to attend more parties (possibly even without a date sometimes). This is our cross to bear single males. So let's put on our big boy pants and show that we are not all the stereotypical creepy pervs that scare people away. Oh, and sitting around complaining about stuff like this is about as pointless as trying to make the Earth stop spinning. This is one of the few areas in life where being a guy is a disadvantage, so let's suck it up and stop whining about how "persecuted" we single males are. :)
Thanks Fitnerd. It's hard to please everyone, but we are always fair. Looking forward to seeing everyone. https://swingular.com/events.php?_a=details&_EID=2848
I hope my post did not bring out any negativity. As a single male, I just wanted to share my perspective on your question about single males. I am really excited for this event. It is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to participate in something like this. How many people have ever been to a Ninja Sex Party? I just invite everyone to take a step back and consider how awesome this sounds. I look forward to seeing everyone there. :)
So true Fitnerd.
Also Nyotaimori - often referred to as "body sushi", is the Japanese practice of serving sashimi or sushi from the naked body of a woman. Naked sushi idea began during the samurai period in Japan. It was a subculture to the Geishas. It would take place in a geisha house as a celebration after a victorious battle.
An event reserved for Emperors and great warriors, is now available to guests, from Risque Soiree.
Isn't it amazing to think that we live in a time and place where we can enjoy the luxuries previously reserved for only emperor's and kings. I am so excited to experience this event. Imagine the incredible possibilities of a "Ninja Sex Party." This will definitely be a night to remember. For those who have not experienced it yet, "Tom" is going to be out in full bloom. If you have not seen him, please come and experience "Tom." ;)
Slightly suspect that Fit has figured out how to get Risky to keep posting more beautiful photos.

As a weigh in on single males - the idea that having a partner automatically makes you a more suitable partner is a very broad generalization. Misbehavior doesn't only happen when you're "free-range". Plenty of the negative behaviors experienced by people on here can be attached to coupled men and women. I agree with Fit that it takes some effort and determination to get
1. Noticed
2. Trusted
3. Experienced
4. On the guest list.

Years back, I personally used chat rooms to find personalities that meshed with my interests. There were always several people (not just men)who came off as angry, others who would spend hours and hours declaiming their skills and equipment and of course the ones who have crafted the "ultimate pickup line" and copy/paste to get their point across.

This is also true of the parties/events: people want to be noticed and desired. It's a straightforward emotion. How each person/couple pursue that desire is what makes them a good partner. I'm reminded of the scene from Finding Nemo when the pelicans are all trying to find food while screaming "mine, mine, mine". That, to me would be a negative experience. And I can only speak for myself.


Like anyone, I like attention. I find that some comes my way when I post on this message board. I don't consider that sly or sneaky. You may - but knowing what you like is part of attracting a partner who can fit (possible pun) your wish list.
I agree with Virani. 12 yrs of hosting lifestyle events. And the majority people I've had to pull aside and speak to them about their behavior has been couples. (Husbands & Wives) I have really had very few issues with single men. Only a few isolated incidents.
(We post photos when ever we write text because so few people read things without pictures) LOL
I love the feedback everyone. Thank you all for your comments. I, too, have seen that being in a couple does not guarantee good behavior. Excellent point. We all need reminders about how to be respectful. Now, hopefully, I can keep getting people to post awesome pics. So here is my contribution. This is my dream date to the Ninja Sex Party.
So if any of you know her, please give her my screen name. :) http://cdn.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/2269352/83340312.jpg
So excited! Ready! POW! BAM!
Okay last one. This one is super sexy. Love you all. See you Sat.