Those of you who are a little shy but still wanting to be in the lifestyle, how do you usually deal with it? Is it mostly a matter of finding a couple you really click with?
This is something we struggle with so looking for some tips!
This is something we struggle with so looking for some tips!
I'm in the same boat I'm pretty shy it's hard getting into this lifestyle my opinion but then again my problem is getting past small talk I'm a straight male just figured I'd throw out my opinion
2nerds4life wrote:
Those of you who are a little shy but still wanting to be in the lifestyle, how do you usually deal with it? Is it mostly a matter of finding a couple you really click with?
This is something we struggle with so looking for some tips!
Well, if you are both shy, then it might be beneficial if you can find a couple you click with, where one or both of them are quite social, and gregarious. If you make friends with at least one outwardly social person, within the lifestyle, you might find that you will meet a few other people with whom you might share some chemistry. Go to a few meet and greets, and if you are too shy to go make first contact, then try and acknowledge other people's gaze, as they are looking around the room. Even the shy do that. If you make eye contact, with someone that might be interesting, hold their gaze for just a bit and smile back. There are a lot of people, who are unafraid of making a first approach, who find shyness rather sexy. If your hearts race a bit, when they walk over enjoy it. Foreplay often begins with a smile.