Anyone who has had experience as a woman with mfm threesomes what do you like about it. Mrs is mostly uninterested but it seems like someone has to enjoy it so what makes it enjoyable? How do you get past the feeling of being unable to please both men? Looking forward to any answers from those ladies out there who enjoy it.
She is worried she will be anxious thinking about trying to ensure she please both men though, how can she get past that any tips?
I agree, but she still fears that she would be unable to please two of us at once for some reason.
Ya I feel like my Mrs. would love it, as long as she isn't anxious about it. I'm just wondering if there is some perspective I am missing that makes the difference for the female in an mfm.
I couldn't agree with "utyolo" more 
The mrs had her first mfm few months back, she was kind of worried about the same thing as stated above but she did good and enjoyed it and it was pretty hot. Will definately do that again.
It is not about her pleasing them in a mfm it is about the male pleasing her. trust me if you are showing pleasure in what they are doing they will be satisfied.
Tell her that it's not about the guys in a mfm. It's all about her. Believe us when we say that the guys are getting a lot of pleasure from this arrangement. She does not have to worry about focusing on pleasing the guys. There are plenty of fun positions where everyone is having pleasure. If she is enjoying it, then the guys are really enjoying it too. Tell her not to fret. Both guys will be fulfilled. Just tell her to lay back and enjoy.
Everyone is different. My wife was more concerned how I would feel. I assured her I was fine with it (although it took a little getting use to, I must admit).
Her favorite, except the 5 to 10 orgasms per playdate, is to just lay in between the two guys, talk and play with our cocks. It's kind of a half time rest period. A great time to talk. She still keeps in contact with a couple of the guys.
Her favorite, except the 5 to 10 orgasms per playdate, is to just lay in between the two guys, talk and play with our cocks. It's kind of a half time rest period. A great time to talk. She still keeps in contact with a couple of the guys.
There's nothing bad about mfm! I love it, I was a little bit worried about pleasing them both but found out pretty quik that the guys don't mind taking turns and watching, so you end up just laying back and enjoying the ride. I love the attention, having 2 sets of hands on you is amazing as fuck. I'd recommend any lady try this, and from there it's just a short hop, skip, and a jump to wanting a gangbang =)
My wife absolutely loves mfm. Switch between cocks and they will last all night long!! No need to over think about pleasing the guys she will do fine. Just open up say awww and mmmmm.
I (him) enjoys mfm cause I get to watch and feel my wife at work and how hott she gets. Then all the pleasure she gets from us both is priceless!!!
I (him) enjoys mfm cause I get to watch and feel my wife at work and how hott she gets. Then all the pleasure she gets from us both is priceless!!!
Yeah. I always wanted to try an MFM with my wife too, but she never wanted it either. Not sure why. I loved the idea of both of us pleasing her. It sounded fun! Now that we're separated, I kind of want to try it from the other side! Ha.
We've been talking about adding another guy for a while. She's has similar concerns.
The Mrs, was nervous actually had huge anxiety over it but once the time come We took it slow as men and she as soon relaxed and enjoying herself like never before! I think the key is not to rush and slowly work up to it with massage oral one on one, one watching then slowly introduce more. She will want more I promise and don't worry about pleasing both men ladies it's a huge turn and hard not to cum pre-maturely so have fun and enjoy!!!!!!P.S would love to be the M or the F with a few of you asking WOW!!!!
We prefer MFM. When everything works right it is one of the most fulfilling experiences we can have. Finding the right guy takes work but worth the effort.
Yeah, thats a good point TEASIN. I've felt weird thinking about being a single guy in the lifestyle, but you're right, a lot of it comes down to finding the right situation and the right connection, so maybe I shouldn't feel that wierd about it after all.
We love mfm! Ww have some absolutely amazing times with that! Probably our favorite thing in the lifestyle. Although we have had fun with some amazing couples as well. It is definitely about pleasing her in every way but the guys always end up more than satisfied! That is definitely not a problem!
I've had a few MFMs and loved them 1. Because since I like sucking cock and getting fucked equally , I don't have to choose , I get to do both . 2. Im multi organic so, stamina , in the guys part , isn't an issue . But of course , like and group play dynamic the right energy makes all the difference. I say find the right fit and go for it ! 😀
So two polite, attractive and capable gentlemen, who are both sexually very interested in a woman, who in turn finds these two gentlemen pleasing and sexy, and she decides to enter into an adventure where she freely and totally gives herself sexually to both of these men, who just can't wait to give her all they have sexually in return; and the meeting of minds and bodies becomes a deliciously wet, erotic and orgasmic adventure that leaves all three in an elevated state of post pleasure enlightenment and bliss.....What's not to like about that?
Meh. We experimented with this a little bit some years ago and found that it didn't really do much for us. I enjoyed it for the voyeuristic aspect of seeing Ms. Evil get excited but other than that it really didn't do much for me.
For her part, Ms. Evil found it a little annoying with so much going on at once and it was a little nerve-wracking for her to feel like she had to please two guys instead of just one. She's very much a 'giver' and didn't really like the distraction of having another person there so that she couldn't give her full attention to just one partner.
Eventually we gave up and she just played alone with some single guys for a year or two until she got tired of their games. Not saying there aren't a few really great single men out there that "get it", but, unfortunately, our experience has been that they're EXTREMELY rare and hard to find (although almost all single men THINK they are one of the few that understand their role). YMMV
For her part, Ms. Evil found it a little annoying with so much going on at once and it was a little nerve-wracking for her to feel like she had to please two guys instead of just one. She's very much a 'giver' and didn't really like the distraction of having another person there so that she couldn't give her full attention to just one partner.
Eventually we gave up and she just played alone with some single guys for a year or two until she got tired of their games. Not saying there aren't a few really great single men out there that "get it", but, unfortunately, our experience has been that they're EXTREMELY rare and hard to find (although almost all single men THINK they are one of the few that understand their role). YMMV
I've engaged in several MFMs and they are my favorite. Its lovely to be the focus of attention. To experience that feeling of being as full as i want. To feel someone at my breast while another is on my clit. Set some expectations with the people you want to engage with and have fun.
Have had several MFM's and it is the best sex ever! The guys go out of their way to make sure you are having lots of fun and multiple orgasms. You women should try it at least once!
I loved mfm, dont worry the guys will have a blast regardless! My hubby loves to watch me and he usually joins in, being spitted (pussy and mouth)is the most awesome feeling for a woman. Feeling the pleasure you are giving 2 guys is the biggest sexual high for a women. I have to admit, I do have to be a little drunk, even after 15 yrs in the LS, the mind F of being raised in this State is still an issue.
The sounds, the sights, the taste and textures, plunging into the soaking wetness of her excitement. The panting and moaning, toes curling and releasing, her legs and arms quivering as each orgasm burst into another, and yet another, as if her orgasm are having orgasms. Her passionate expressions coax her two lovers into lust beyond expectation or comprehension as they worship her, striving to fill her every desire as they fill her. Throbbing, thrusting, in the rapture of her most intimate wet embrace from below. She has captured them completely as they give her everything from deep within. In quivering spurts, with minds, bodies, and souls, in flames they adore her!
Doggystylelovers... on our previous post, on this same subject, we talked about the attributes of MFM... HOWEVER, you can put in a lot of energy and time "anticipating" a Play Date, only to find that there are A LOT of fakes and flakes on this site. Just blowing off a little steam from last night when we had a first meeting set up at Iggy's. Mrs was enjoying her favorite drink and we had ordered a couple of appetizers expecting a pre arranged 7:30 ish meeting. It got to be 8, then 9. Well, turns out "his phone died" (right!!) and that was after the previous first meeting that didn't happen because his "X" brought their little girl over for him to watch when she had to go out of town on a family emergency. GEEEEEZZZZZ When will we learn? Got it, "once shame, twice shame"
Oh well, we had a nice date and a good laugh.
Would be nice if there was a fake/flake area on this site where one could check previous problems. Angie's List!!!
We know.... Certified, Real, VIP and only go to Meet/Greets... We understand... We didn't have these issues in California on a competitors site. Maybe it's US!! I really don't think the site has anything to do with this issue. Thanks for the ventilation time.... Mahalo...islander2
Oh well, we had a nice date and a good laugh.
Would be nice if there was a fake/flake area on this site where one could check previous problems. Angie's List!!!
We know.... Certified, Real, VIP and only go to Meet/Greets... We understand... We didn't have these issues in California on a competitors site. Maybe it's US!! I really don't think the site has anything to do with this issue. Thanks for the ventilation time.... Mahalo...islander2
For my wife it's the idea of being desired by multiple men at once, being dominated and had her way with. It's not for everyone tho.