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Hello everyone!
We am not having much luck browsing profiles, so I figured I'd give this a shot.
We are looking for a polyamorous girl for Mr to date. When I say date, i mean the whole shabang. I want your both to become attached to each other, I want him to flirt and celebrate with you. I also want him to have many, many wonderful, exciting sexual adventures with you, but that's a given here ;)
I already have a boyfriend, that I am beyond happy with. I want my darling, loving, passionate husband to experience the intensity and lust that comes in a new relationship.
Yes, it is fairly likely that us girls will play too, and if you're partnered, maybe the four of us will have some fun. But I want someone that we can hang out with too, and that we all genuinely enjoy each other's company.
Does that sound appealing to you? Please, reach out. We'd love to meet you.
I (Mr. DandDMontreal) have not had any luck finding other poly people on this site as it's predominantly frequented by swingers (great for when we want to swing!). I have had a tiny bit of luck on OKCupid and I have found a lot of poly people on fetlife.com but online dating is generally terrible for poly men. I have had pretty good luck with attending poly events like poly cocktails and the most luck just generally being open about my poly in everyday life (not an option for everyone). Checkout https://utahpoly.org/ for details on poly events.
Thank you so much for your feedback! We will definitely try all those things :)
Hi Nurselinda43! Nice to see you on this thread. This is Matt (mork). I'm in some senses poly, but really more of a "free love" advocate at this point. Many poly's surround themselves with so many rule structures, meeting and developing relationship feels overly complicated - a bit like work. Too many tasks and diplomatic maneuvering can be hard on my expression and libido since I'm known for analysis to paralysis when there are too many people involved in a decision. I'm therefore careful not to identify myself as a typical poly. There are Poly organizations out there. Most will ignore you if you say you like to dance, laugh or take life less seriously. This is because many poly groups as a whole are simply very introverted and keep to themselves. I follow a wonderful poly group on Facebook, but they are mostly from the Pacific Northeast, and very few of them seem to share any kind of sense of humor - always posting about things which wouldn't be so difficult if they just relaxed to enjoy the ride a bit. Beyond Facebook, OKCupid is a useful tool for finding polyamorous couples and singles. You might try keywords such as "ethically non-monogamous" to which I've seen there linked to several couples and poly singles. I've met some of my very best friends this way, but your profile and site questions must be quite detailed for the OKCupid search engine to properly match you to such a specialized trait.