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I sometimes get friend requests from single males who, in their profile, say "I have a girl I play with" or whatever. I am often quite skeptical of these profiles. Do you tend to trust these people or ignore them?

Single males who do this: I would trust you a lot more if you just sent a message with your request. It's not very hard!
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Wait, what? So you're a single male...and you get friend requests from single males who state in their profiles that they have a girl that they play with? Am I missing something here? Do you want to play with the single males, or their girlfriends. or both? You can imagine my confusion especially given your one public photo, right?
I mean I'd play with them as a couple, I just am curious if this whole "I have a girlfriend who sometimes plays" is a way to get me to accept their friend request, or if they actually have one.
I have dated women who I have taken to meet a couple on several different occasions. If it became serious, for me, I would get a couple profile. That's just me.

I understood the skepticism, but I can always give the name and number of the person as well as current members we have been with. I am not pretending to be a couple and then surprise, I am now single or she doesn't play anymore....
Worst case scenario this for me.... its some horny guy who is lying about having a female playmate who is trying to look at your photos(maybe steal them) and/or tryimg to get in your britches. This is different than anyone else reaching out how? I get that you show straight but so do a shit ton of people who aren't. Maybe this is the first volley to see if you'll engage them. Accept or reject according to your standards and facter in the worst case scenario.
I'm a single male with no GF.

Try throwing me. ;)
I'm with Evildoer, I'm confused... or is this more of a male gay question... do a lot of guys on here try to hook up with other guys? That would be an interesting topic...
I get a surprising amount of blind friend requests from guys that say they're straight on their profile, and I think it's pretty clear on my profile that I'm a single male and for single males to send a message why they added me. I'm willing to do mfm's and I'm fine with guys bumping and stuff in threesomes buf I'm just curious about how people handle the single male profile saying they have a female partner.