Swingers on Swingular - Swingers Forum - Couples that play separately

Opening a new page in our life.
Looking for other couples that play separately.
Anyone out there?
Let us know.
T&K

We do on occasion it's fun and difficult lol
Some people find out you are married and they act like your wife needs to pin a permission slip to your shirt.
Not the women though cause guys don't give a damn they just want some ass lol

We play separately or together.

We do both

We have only played together but are wanting to open this new page.
Like the sexting play and very exciting to move forward in our new adventures

Are you asking about playing in different rooms or 'dating' others and playing separately at different times and or places?
We are finding more and more are interested in 'dating' others.

Not so much like dating but yes.
I guess just more like hooking up so to speak.

We play together and separately.

Time is definitely a hindrance lol

We have been open to playing on our own too. It's been fun for us for about a year. Makes telling stories to each other awesome. Anyone contact us.

We do as well. As long as there is chemistry and the other half knows.

We are looking forward to telling each other about our experiences in their 😊

We are just beginning to open that door and are looking forward to it!

If we have a regular friend then yes if hubby is at work etc then I play alone. He knows and enjoys hearing about what naughty things I did

I'm ready

If we have met you together and things are cool with each other then we will go on dates but still prefer to play together and watch each other

We love doing it while together but also getting off on telling each other about our fun and some pics of the other is approving.
Also would like to do couples meet first in most cases or group text as nothing will be hidden from all people's in play

We play together and separate.

We mostly meet as a couple and then will have separate meetings here and there depending on our comfort with those we meet.

We play separately or together as long as I (the guy) have met and find the other guy safe and trustworthy.

We started playing separate a few years back cause it became really hard for everyone's schedules to work out and also the reality of all 4 having chemistry, so for us it seems to work better however like some of the other comments it's much harder for myself (Mr) to get as "lucky" cause once they find out in married most shy away assuming I'm "cheating" so that part gets a little challenging.

I prefer to have him with me when I play, as a sense of security. He can play alone; not that it does much good because when he tries the woman wants to voice verify, chat, meet us together, request that he do the chicken dance, and find 5,894,321,675 perfectly round brown rocks of the same shade and hue before she will consider 'meeting' alone with him.

We play separately with people we know and trust. We've found that there are many reasons people desire to play apart from their significant other and, unfortunately, not all of them are good or altruistic reasons. There is the very real potential for some seriously fucked up shit if the person you end up alone with isn't there for the right reasons. Play smart, play safe. This has been a public service announcement from your friendly neighborhood Evildoers.

Our side:
Open chat. Everyone knows what everyone is doing no sneaking around.
Not cheating.
There are no private conversations...
Period
😊Love ya all and your comments and thoughts 💋

Sharing the stories after is the best part.

We have hall passes and we both play separately, when and if we both feel comfortable and excited about it. It happens from time to time. Our relationship as a couple has been growing for decades, it's positive and passionate, and it is center stage in our lives. We have a great family, which we enjoy hang out with, and that is something we share together. Our pair bonded relationship is a big part of our family life and everything else in our lives, including any extramarital sexual encounters. You can't be intimate with either one of us without feeling the influence and the passion we share toward each other. Our deep emotional bonds, and everything we share together, has everything to do with why we are able to enjoy this adventure.

In any case we use our hall passes infrequently.

We have played separately before, I agree its harder for guys, unless its an established relationship.

We are starting a Kik chat for the Hotwife lifestyle. If anyone is intested.

Starting it because we do not always play as a couple and it can be hard to find others that play solo as well.

#utahhotwive on kik.

HILLBILLY74UT wrote:

We are starting a Kik chat for the Hotwife lifestyle. If anyone is intested.

Starting it because we do not always play as a couple and it can be hard to find others that play solo as well.

#utahhotwive on kik.

Sounds fun.
Wish I remembered my kik login info

HRNYCOUPLETK wrote:

We are looking forward to telling each other about our experiences in their 😊

Exactly

HRNYCOUPLETK wrote:

HILLBILLY74UT wrote:

We are starting a Kik chat for the Hotwife lifestyle. If anyone is intested.

Starting it because we do not always play as a couple and it can be hard to find others that play solo as well.

#utahhotwive on kik.

Sounds fun.
Wish I remembered my kik login info

Create a new account😉 the chat as been pretty fun. Just cleaned house so there in room for fun people to join again.

We also play together and seperate.. It's hot to hear about eachothers playtime.

We usually meet couples together but have the option of separate play if everyone is in agreement. Sometimes there isn't chemistry between everyone so we don't like to limit our options or take one for the team so to speak.

We have never given each other hall passes and we don't negatively judge those that do. However, I can't imagine her going alone to a hotel room of someone we've never met other than texts or emails. Even if I met the guy for a drink prior, I still really don't know the guy and I would be concerned about her safety. We have considered giving each other a hall pass when it comes to couples that we have had many experiences with and became good friends with. Then maybe we would consider a hall pass to join "the couple". When we play with another couple who is ok with separate rooms, we do enjoy separate rooms for round one. When the guys have recovered and ready to start round two, we love all four of us on the same bed to get into those fun "four way" positions. After we've said good-bye to the other couple, we do enjoy sharing our stories and experiences of playing in separate rooms. So, not sure if we will ever try, but we also never say never.

Hi everyone. We are new to utah.We have played seperate and my husband gets off on us talking about it later. I have even put my phone on so he can hear me while he's at home it's super sexy!

We do, but mostly he likes to play because he wants more than she does. But she LOVES to see pics and hear stories.

In case you can't tell by our profile name... Uhhh, yea... we're down! LOL.. Love to share our stories after. Fun to plan before it happens too... Wife has even flown out for weekends with her friends and hubs is on the road all the time. It's just easier to coordinate schedules.

We are open to either way.

The Mrs tells me to go fuck myself all the time..... does that count????

We'll play separate, long as we're comfortable with them of course

Does a couple that is playing separately consider themselves to be "playing as a single?" Hmmm, I don't think my question has much value ... sorry ~

Weve talked about it if we found the right couple and all met up first as stated above butt havemt found that couple yet. The playing then telling each other about it after is always fun.

We play separately and together.

We play separately and it is fantastic. Telling each other about our experiences is very erotic, and reconnecting after we have been with others is fucking awesome. We highly recommend it

We love to play separate

I see a lot of couples that play separately and wondering if any of the woman would like to come join us for a drink and some fun?

We have also talked about it and would love to do it. We have been out of the lifestyle for a few years and we're not sure how to make it happen. We also know it's a lot easier for the wife to find a playmate than the husband. We know we have to post pics again and then we'll give it a chance. We have also found that a lot of young guys have a milf fantasy but not as many young women have the desire for older guys. We both like the idea of playing with someone younger.

We are looking to try playing separate. We enjoy playing as a couple but it's so hard sometimes with kids.

We've experimented with it here and there. It's difficult to find couples that we are both into.

We on occasion play separately. It is such a turn on knowing your spouse is out playing. Then getting details while reconnecting is off the charts. We only do this with trusted people. We prefer couples.

We're fine with playing separate, but only when one or the other of us is otherwise occupied and can't make it. There is no bigger turnoff than a couple saying they don't even want to meet Mr Danish.

We play both ways , together or separate . kik DChorse or 87countrygal

We just got back from a long trip across the Atlantic in the Republic of Ireland. A fantastic and fluid experience, full of adventures, in doors, and out doors, where we deeply immersed ourselves in life and living, and each other. After a couple of weeks of cultural, intellectual, sensual and sexual experiences, all shared together, playing apart, just to play, seems a bit less interesting. Adventures together are great bonding experiences. There is sex and then there is great sex! Now that we are back home, back in the midst of our responsible lives, which leaves the two of us with a bit too little free time together, and a bit of free time apart, we are open to hall pass possibilities. But, only if and when, we are really motivated toward meeting someone.