How many LS couples find books and LS information on the emotional ups and downs you go through it's awesome when you have open minded friends to share with but many don't I have found a podcast series I love and I am sure there are lots more like it it's called life on the swingset it's awesome check it out guys
We just starting listening. We love it so far...like you said there are many ups and some downs in the lifestyle
Swinging, like BDSM is based on an absolute trust of your partner. It can lead to an amazing life or it can lead to regret. The decision has to be, absolutely what you both want. If you or your partner ever feel uneasy it's time for you to have a serious conversation about it. Good luck to you guys
We've listened to Swinger Dairies. We like it because its less about the sex stories and more about what to expect and how to behave.
People who tend to do well in their closest relationships and other social interactions overall, probably do well as swingers. Swinging includes sex, which is a powerful interaction, physically and emotionally. Having sex with someone can have all sorts of long lasting positive and negative effects. Most of us really want to express our sexuality, and we hold it dear, so we tend to evaluate people a bit differently, if we are considering having sex with them. Perhaps the stakes are a bit higher, even if the sex is no strings attached. The rewards and the risk are elevated.
There are a lot of great resources available, to help people learn how to communicate and interact with each other, more effectively. They apply to human interactions within our community where we do take a few more risk in search of more reward. Obviously, we can all learn from other peoples experience. So if there are successful swingers, that are providing their insights and support through the media, why not look into it? Enlightenment is fun and is often a free standing reward. Enlightenment and discovery, gained through shared experience with a lover, perhaps leaves everyone involved stronger and happier. Stronger happier people make for stronger happier communities.
There are a lot of great resources available, to help people learn how to communicate and interact with each other, more effectively. They apply to human interactions within our community where we do take a few more risk in search of more reward. Obviously, we can all learn from other peoples experience. So if there are successful swingers, that are providing their insights and support through the media, why not look into it? Enlightenment is fun and is often a free standing reward. Enlightenment and discovery, gained through shared experience with a lover, perhaps leaves everyone involved stronger and happier. Stronger happier people make for stronger happier communities.
I have enjoyed listening to that podcast as well. I started listening to it a couple of years ago but then forgot about it. I will have to go back and catch up. Thanks for the reminder.