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Why is it so hard to find a truly bi couple or bi guy to join us?
We felt the same way.. I'm very bi curious (this is Mr. k by the way) so much so we dont even list it as a preference anymore.. we noticed it just tends to come out (Jesus what a bad pun) when you meet your partners.. I think if you follow the vibe (another pun? Fuck) you'll run into them!
Hey i am new to the site. I am a bi guy who loves to have fun. I am a top so i like getting sucked etc. Let me know if you are interested. I cant host but i can travel.
We're out there just most couples don't want a single guy
Ummm, hello?? Let us know! We would love to get together. Kisses. J&J
I would love to try a few things if interested
UTAHROCKER wrote:

I would love to try a few things if interested


Rocker your profile says you are straight and also down below you have NO under the 'bi' questions?
Please explain?
A simple "HELLO" goes a long way ~ ~ ~
I wish that there was an option to put heteroflexible for my sexual orientation.
I am not necessarily bisexual but I am not just straight....I hate labels where based on the sexual orientation that I put on my profile.  I hate that SOME people are still lying about their desires.... The sexual orientation of too many couples reads she is bi-whatever and he is straight.  However, I know that everyone here has known couples where that was BS. Sorry for the tangent....if you're still reading...

I am into both members of the couple when I have been in threesomes and other various combinations... However I am not as interested or aroused by just guys alone.  I have also been with couples where the was straight..I didn't try and do anything because I have been played with guys before.  I have experimented with men before ( I had fun,and it's not the individual, but I prefer to be with both)...when I am with couples where the husband or both are bi, just a personal preference...
I'm a bi male.
I imagine that there are a lot of married and single people out there that are nervous to put the word "bi" on their profile. Some individuals can be judgmental of others. Being a single male on this site, I very rarely send the first email because of the rude single men that have given most single men a bad rap. I feel that as long as fun is being had by consenting adults, why judge?????
1404allin wrote:

Hello,
Right here waving our hands in the air trying to get noticed. 😁


I have noticed many of the couples who have posted on this thread.... As a single guy who has sent messages before, if you are interested in meeting single men who are into playing with both, accepting messages is helpful.... I know that many couples may forget... We can't message you if you don't even accept messages...
I don't send more than one message, unless I get a reply.... I am not here to bother others.... But I also agree that changing the sexual orientation is intimidating. No doubt that I have been ignored by some for the simple fact that I am not just straight....
Very well said SCOTT84067.
I'm a very curious male half of a married couple. She seems to be straight because of our religious (non-LDS) upbringing. We haven't found anyone yet to experiment with but have been actively looking. We would definitely entertain single males if we knew that they were bi and willing to explore both of us.
This is a great post-----I consider myself bi curious--I prefer women but I have played with and enjoy men as well. I love naked bodies, masturbation and getting sucked. I find it most people on here do not consider me in their play even though I have and enjoy playing with groups and couples.
George
Infinity email me back or kik me utahrocker
INFINITY4U wrote:

COOLCPL98 wrote:

I'm a very curious male half of a married couple. She seems to be straight because of our religious (non-LDS) upbringing. We haven't found anyone yet to experiment with but have been actively looking. We would definitely entertain single males if we knew that they were bi and willing to explore both of us.


Might help if you uploaded even some private photos and said more about you guys


Very true! Still a tad bit apprehensive. #rustissues
Tallbicouple16 wrote:

Hello everyone. We are glad someone posted this question because there are many of us who share the same frustrations.
First let me say that we believe most people's definition of a bisexual person differs greatly. To say it is relative is an understatement for sure. Here is how we define labels.
If a person can be in a committed relationship with either sex and have both their emotional and sexual needs met, they are bisexual.
If a person can only be in a committed relationship with the opposite sex and have both their emotional and sexual needs met, they are straight. The same goes for being gay.
We call ourselves "bi friendly" because under the right circumstances and with the right people, we are open sexually. Emotionally, we can only be intimate/committed with the opposite sex. But that is us and our opinion. To each their own.
We definitely feel being open to bisexual sex really opens the doors for more ways to enjoy pleasure. Being in a group sex environment with people who are picky about not being even remotely touched by the same sex is boring and frustrating. So is the whole "bi female and straight male" cookie cutter profiles we see. It's more fun for everyone to be involved then just sit and watch.


Well said. 👍🏻
We are new at this. Definitely looking for bi couples.
Orally bi.
May want to look at noty4u and I.
I'm a bi single male who's a little different than most. I'd love to find a couple to play with. Send a message if you're interested. As a single male on this site I try to only respond to others. I don't initiate contact due to the fact that most couples are not interested in single males and I'm cautious to not annoy or offend them. Many other single males may feel this way
I like many others here put straight in my profile because that is what I am. I will dont mind by play if a female is involved and is part of the fun. "If it brings you pleasure do it" The problem is I dont play alone with men. If I but bi or bi curious in my profile I get to many guys wanting to hook up and I only play with men when with a woman. So if interested in those standards hit me up and lets see what we can do.
Well I guess I'm bi friendly/ comfortable then.
I am a single bi male and available to travel to anywhere to help out and fulfill any and all wishes and fantasies, drop me a line.
I'm just wondering why you looking for bi couple one with bi guy if your partner is straight.
Tallbicouple16 wrote:

We definitely feel being open to bisexual sex really opens the doors for more ways to enjoy pleasure. Being in a group sex environment with people who are picky about not being even remotely touched by the same sex is boring and frustrating. So is the whole "bi female and straight male" cookie cutter profiles we see. It's more fun for everyone to be involved then just sit and watch.


Now, if couples would just own their bisexuality. Many couples reach out to me and say, "Hey, he's bi. Wanna play?" When I go look at their profile, yep, it says Straight under the Male. It is 2019, let's help everyone own their sexuality. The world would be a much nicer place!

Cheers,
Mav
kik:maven2014
aka: one of the original bi males on Swingular. lol
Wouldn't think it would be too tough where are you from?
I have met a number of amazing couples over the years. Some are both bi and others not. I have enjoyed playing with everyone I have had the chance to. It's not as bad as everyone makes it out to be.

I have found that you can't decide on a Friday night that you want to meet. You have to be willing to change your schedule around.
Any bi couples in the Mesquite Nevada area?
I don't avertise as bi. But I'm a Bi top. Single. Kansas.
I am am a bisexual Male, we are a bisexual couple
Truly bisexual guy who admires the beauty of both genders. Love to meet a bi couple to start a conversation and hopefully a friendship. Dinner is on me. Please friend me. Thanks
bi men are around.
Hi I'm a bi guy salt lake ,clean discrete no drama , no drugs no smoking, hit me up
I would love to chat
I’m bi in Arkansas and my wife is in menopause so she quit playing but I know why I’m having a hard time finding couples.. I’m old
I am a Bi guy and would love to get together with you.
Mike
We are a bi couple who would like to meet other bi couples
Hmm, that's funny, what my husband and I are interested as well, it is hard, lol...
I'm up for fun in Utah County. But don't have a problem traveling either
We are a bi couple but everytime we find another bi couple something always comes up and the wife of that other couple stops participating and the man always becomes interested in fucking my wife. Seems this site is full of flakes.
WesandCarman wrote:

We are a bi couple but everytime we find another bi couple something always comes up and the wife of that other couple stops participating and the man always becomes interested in fucking my wife. Seems this site is full of flakes.
maybe you dont put out clear expectations. Guess the part confuses us is that the male half shows to bevstraight, so I kinda get the guys wanting jump over and play with her.
Anyone from Southern Oregon wanna chat
We are. Your profile says male is straight