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So, after reading my original post about "labels" i realized i really didnt make a ton of sense...

What I mean about labels is... why should it matter if a person is no curious, no sexual, trans, gay, hetero. . Why can't we
All appreciate who those people are deep down.

If my original post was confusing you are correct... I asked myself,"wtf are you trailing abiut"??
lol People have there sexual preferences there not going to enjoy everything that's why the different question in the profile of what you might be interested in, as you put it labels.

Not everyone is going to want to hook up with a tran or a pre-tran-sexual since that's not there cup of tea. A straight female like my wife isn't interested in a gay or a bi-sexual female just as i'm not interested in a gay or a bi-sexual male.

you call them labels when it's a choice of sexual preference.
I like my ice cream labeled...would hate to get home, open it up and see nothing but strawberry. What a waste of time and money, and my hopes and desires crushed hoping I was getting chocolate...
I think most of us respect and appreciate all forms of sexuality and gender. I think maybe you are 1)either making a faulty assumption that people judge, belittle or disrespect those types of people we are not interested in sleeping with or 2) wanting to apply your values to the populace.
Tell us a bit about yourself. You sleep with men and women equally? No preference? To make an extreme example now, would you sleep with a dog? Some do. Would you label or judge that? I am just trying to make a point that just because you are comfortable with ALL things (which probably isn't really true), why would you infer that everyone else should share that viewpoint?
Still just confused about your problem with labels or descriptions. Maybe you are just trying to say that you love all types of people and accept all types of people. So do I. I have friends from all walks of life and all sexualities. There are people that, on paper, would seem to fit my needs perfectly, but for whatever reason I don't want to fuck them. I am sure you spent awhile looking for your partner. Most just don't settle on the first person they meet and marry them, or settle down with them. The lifestyle is the same way. Most look for a good match, not just any match. And labels help to find that match.
Mr. SRO