After being asked for years, by single males... “How do I get into the lifestyle”? “What’s the best way to approach it”? After having a few couples express their not so good experiences with single males…. We have decided to help interested singles become better informed, instead of condemning them. We are hosting a Single Male Symposium, and are looking for a panel of respectful and knowledgeable women, who have had good and bad experiences with single men. We are looking for those willing to answer questions, give suggestions, and maybe even a few pointers. This is so that we can help single men to be more informed and comfortable with proper behavior and etiquette. Any ladies that would be interested in helping us create this comfortable and informative atmosphere please contact us as soon as possible as we would like to get this out there as quickly as possible. Thank you all for your support, for your love! We look forward to the amazing year ahead of us. Growing together!
Charly and Xavier- Risqué Soiree
Charly and Xavier- Risqué Soiree
As a somewhat regular consumer of single males, we would be happy to help. Just let the Mrs. know when to show up, or if it's virtual even better.
Granted the female has the say of yes or no, but as a couple both parties have a say and there should be an etiquette. There have been times at events or parties that a guy will talk to the missus until I walk up; then he runs away until I walk away, it could be just to the punch bowl or restroom and he materializes next to her until I start to walk up again. It seems like intentional disrespectfulness to the male half of the couple to not take into consideration that the woman he's trying to get with its part of a couple and therefore make decisions as a couple.
The problem with such a panel might be that every damned woman on the panel might have a different opinion on how single males should act.LOL We've been around the scene for a long time and behavior that might totally turn on one woman might absolutely disgust another. So, conceivably, one's advice could be to be confident...even aggressive in pursuing a woman while another woman would prefer a polite, erring on the side of almost shy demeanor and waiting to be approached. Neither approach is wrong with a particular type of woman. Both are wrong with a completely different type of woman.
Personally, I think the best approach is just common courtesy and not coming off as desperate or pushy (even though a few women might actually like that) and not getting butt-hurt if you don't get asked to "dance". YMMV
Personally, I think the best approach is just common courtesy and not coming off as desperate or pushy (even though a few women might actually like that) and not getting butt-hurt if you don't get asked to "dance". YMMV
Just don't start of a hello with a dic pic...but like Evil said, maybe some women like that...maybe I'm just old fashion and need to just start grabbing women by the pussy, but do I need to be rich to do that?
I give advice to single males all the time, biggest advice is to respect the husbands, it's a privilege to play with their wives. And the husbands will let them know what their wives like and dislike
Actually, it is on the spouse (wife, or husband) to keep their collective boundaries when approached by a single person and the other half is away. If a one half of a couple allows an unaccompanied single (male or female) to converse or "lead" the single person in a direction that does not clearly state their interest, desires, boundaries....whatever ....Then it is a "Couple" boundary problem that should get addressed soon. Single people are looking to play their role, not read minds or intentions from two different people. They also have an equal say in all aspects.
I have found being a single male is bit harder in this life style all though i have chatted and meet up with some pretty cool people on here. Ive found that patientience is one of the key things in this life style. And if it doesnt turn out or work out then just politly move on. Maybe im wrong maybe im right but most importantly is that everyone has fun and good time. If any of that made any sense lol
All great suggestions thanks. That is why we are hosting this... To Educate. And yes, it does vary from woman to woman. That's why we are asking the ladies to speak up and express their thoughts. That's what makes them such a beautiful mystery. We will post a date for the symposium soon. Thanks Again Everyone.
Charly and Xavier
Charly and Xavier
Polite, charming, honest, appreciative, intelligent men that are confident enough to be comfortable, giving and relaxed, but not at all conceited are so very attractive, and perhaps a bit rare. Thin hips a nice hard package, a recent STD test with clean results, and a vasectomy also fall in the plus, plus side of selection, as do his location and his ability to host. Every woman has her druthers.
Ok, so virtual. Here's a small suggestion, please read the entire profile. We actually like dick pics but the endless request for friends without reading the profile that specifically says no blind request. Secondly, show up.
Swinger wives that have a reputation as someone who sometimes hooks up with single men, sort of do for a swinger's event, what Jupiter does for the solar system. Jupiter has so much gravity that it sort of sweeps the solar system of most of the asteroids that might have otherwise made impact with the other planets. Single men need to remember, that albeit some swinger wives do play with single men, that they may actually be more interested in meeting couples at swingers events, especially if she is bisexual. If a swinger wife is with her husband, or even by herself, and she is obviously enjoying a conversation with another couple or more, then recognize that is not the time to come over and ask her dance or to try and pull her attention your direction. Say hi it's good to see you, or something like that, and she will enjoy that, but don't go into orbit. Follow the lady's lead and she will let you know if and when she wants you to make impact.
Patience and respect.