So looking around for an introduction to bdsm...not looking to draw blood or leave scars ...it's a thing for us... we would like to find a couple or group that also enjoy the same. As Lady Gaga says " if it's not rough it isn't fun" 😉😉
Very intrigued by it as well.
Hotpassion i lioe your online pics hahah good luck with those on here
Would love to help you learn
SEXYLATIN93 wrote:
Hotpassion i lioe your online pics hahah good luck with those on here
agree with latin, you have some gorgeous pics as well latin!
FetLife is a good place to find groups for introductions into BDSM etc...
A good rule of thumb is don't leave room for interpretation. It undermines the authority of the dom. The only standing rules should be:
1. Do as you're told, without question.
2. You are not allowed to remove your collar without permission.
3. If placed on your knees or all fours, you're not allowed to rise without permission.
4. When going to events, I pick what you wear. No questions.
Being caled sir or master at all times is not a feasible rule, it leaves room for interpretation (i.e. with vanilla friends, her parents comes over, at a restaurant with work colleagues etc.)
nstead I make it clear to my subs that it pleases me greatly to be addressed with respect. If I am doing my job, deserving of their respect, instilling a genuine desire to please me, then I will always be addressed as I desire, regardless of any rules.
Second, they have to know of the disciplines that come with not following the simple rules.
You have to be able to remove your personal sexual pleasure with being dominant. If you cannot do that, you have failed.
1. Do as you're told, without question.
2. You are not allowed to remove your collar without permission.
3. If placed on your knees or all fours, you're not allowed to rise without permission.
4. When going to events, I pick what you wear. No questions.
Being caled sir or master at all times is not a feasible rule, it leaves room for interpretation (i.e. with vanilla friends, her parents comes over, at a restaurant with work colleagues etc.)
nstead I make it clear to my subs that it pleases me greatly to be addressed with respect. If I am doing my job, deserving of their respect, instilling a genuine desire to please me, then I will always be addressed as I desire, regardless of any rules.
Second, they have to know of the disciplines that come with not following the simple rules.
You have to be able to remove your personal sexual pleasure with being dominant. If you cannot do that, you have failed.
I realized I left a few things out. The sub must respond appropriately to verbal cues with the appropriate title (i.e. yes my lady, yes master, yes sir, yes baroness etc.) Mistress is usually not a common term for dommes, to call a domme mistress will either break any further contact with her, or a punishment that was not previously discussed.
I am a proponent of honest dynamics. What I mean by this is I, personally, am only interested in truly honest reactions and interactions with a sub. To push a sub’s limits, you need to have enough information to know exactly where her limits lie, and how you can push on them in a positive, beneficial manner. The more information you have, the more able you will be to accomplish this, and the greatest source of information from your sub will always be interactions, honest to the core
If you break the trust of your sub, you have failed.
To be called Sir, Master, Baroness etc. you have to earn it. This means I only want to be referred to as Sir, if she feels in that moment I deserve that respect. If she doesn’t feel that way, then I don’t deserve to hear it. There are a lot of rules, and cues to learn in a M/S relationship. As long as you have communication and trust, it will work itself out in the end and increase your appreciation for other. Remember there is no greater gift than someone willing to be your sub, the absolute trust and devotion put in your hands is something to cherish. If you want more information, feel free to message us. We'll answer to the best of our ability.
I am a proponent of honest dynamics. What I mean by this is I, personally, am only interested in truly honest reactions and interactions with a sub. To push a sub’s limits, you need to have enough information to know exactly where her limits lie, and how you can push on them in a positive, beneficial manner. The more information you have, the more able you will be to accomplish this, and the greatest source of information from your sub will always be interactions, honest to the core
If you break the trust of your sub, you have failed.
To be called Sir, Master, Baroness etc. you have to earn it. This means I only want to be referred to as Sir, if she feels in that moment I deserve that respect. If she doesn’t feel that way, then I don’t deserve to hear it. There are a lot of rules, and cues to learn in a M/S relationship. As long as you have communication and trust, it will work itself out in the end and increase your appreciation for other. Remember there is no greater gift than someone willing to be your sub, the absolute trust and devotion put in your hands is something to cherish. If you want more information, feel free to message us. We'll answer to the best of our ability.
Lol! We'll be your Huckleberry!
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We have people from mild to wild
Start anywhere on the scale and progress at your own speed
We suggest you do some reading before pressing ahead
The orgasm are awesome
Marcus n rose
i would be happy to sponsor you to some local parties after we talk a little bit , if your interested . you would have to attend an orientation also .