Is there a small group of couples that gets together one or twice a month for dinner and drinks and play time? If not is there an interest in some thing like that?
Sign us up. We would love a small group of friends for dinner, dates, fun with possible play
Have you hosted before? The truth is, this is a very insecure part of the lifestyle...invite six couples and two will arrive on time, two will change their mind last minute and two will have not remembered to check the calendar for real life events (kids' sports, time of the month, etc) most hosts that I know Over-invite for that reason. Planning gets complicated...
On the other hand, we always need a safe place to meet up/play, so your suggestion has a lot of merit.
I guess it really depends on what you consider "small group"....
On the other hand, we always need a safe place to meet up/play, so your suggestion has a lot of merit.
I guess it really depends on what you consider "small group"....
Sign us up.We would like to go to dinner,dates,with possible play.
We would enjoy dinner, drinks, and play with a small group.
Virani has it right, trying to plan and organize a meet for a group is difficult, with most either no shows or tell you they can't make it up front. So it is risky setting up events. But good luck, and hope you have success.
We have been hosting a couples poker game for a couple of years now and for the most part, it is very successful. Yes sometimes it is like herding cats but we usually have 5-6 couples attend each game.
For us, that is a small group and more manageable. Over time you find out who the fakes and flakes are and we just remove them from the invite list.
One suggestion is to have the first couple of dinners in a public place so there is little no work involved for the host couple.
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Tim and Brenda
For us, that is a small group and more manageable. Over time you find out who the fakes and flakes are and we just remove them from the invite list.
One suggestion is to have the first couple of dinners in a public place so there is little no work involved for the host couple.
If anyone needs help, please write us
Tim and Brenda
We love the idea
We used to host dinner and sex parties and then a couple of our kids moved back in.
Thanks for the interest and the input we really can't host the house is small and we have four dogs that just are a pain in the ass. The idea of having a group of friends that we all get together for dinner and drinks and possible fun, just sounds like a lot of fun and better then the meet & greets that we have been to. We are open to idea's and that the fact we are an older couple that some folks would have a problem with.
If you plan a monthly meet-up with a hotel suite that's a shared cost, it could be a real potential. Dinner and drinks then retire to the room, or take-out and a couple bottles of wine in the suite. Either way, it might be what you're looking for if you can find a group that is serious and consistent.
LILMISSRIDINGHOOD wrote:
If you plan a monthly meet-up with a hotel suite that's a shared cost, it could be a real potential. Dinner and drinks then retire to the room, or take-out and a couple bottles of wine in the suite. Either way, it might be what you're looking for if you can find a group that is serious and consistent.
What she said.
We'd be interested
let us know
Thank you all for the feed back and the interest. We'll have to plan some thing after the holidays and all the new years eve parties.
We are in if you do it
We have thought that it would be fun to own a second home, that none of our vanilla friends, and our family know anything about, and therefore never becomes subject to vanilla friendship or familial loan outs. Somewhere they couldn't find us and not at all subject to anyone's oversight or opinions about sex! Alas, having five adult kids and a few grandchildren, and all the rest of the obligations of life and family to live through, and frankly enjoy, enjoy, enjoy, the second home never really becomes a priority.
In any case, there are accommodations for rent, large and small, that would work nicely for sexual liaisons, also large and small. You have to take into consideration that most hotels have a quiet time, that they enforce should any of the neighbors complain. Really, a noisy room party with loud music, is probably more likely to get broken up by hotel management than a party where the sounds of passion, perhaps somewhat restrained, are audible. Unless your hotel neighbors are here for general conference or have a room containing small children. There are a few hotels, like the Monaco downtown, that have some rooms and suites, that are a bit more sound insulant than most accommodations, and that really are not places that families land for vacations. The Monaco, is kind of like someplace you might expect in a James Bond movie. It would be possible, to have a dinner party at the Monaco, beginning at the Bambara Restaurant and bar in the lobby and then move to a suite. You could just begin with the suite should everyone already know one another, and there is established chemistry. Room service is available.
Hell after the first of the year we will throw just such a party with some of our lifestyle friends. Maybe with a 15 minute in your clothing grace period once in the suite. Great ice breaker. Of course everything must be consensual, and no always, always means no, but you eliminate those sorts of problems up front if you only include the right and polite sort of people in the party mix.
In any case, there are accommodations for rent, large and small, that would work nicely for sexual liaisons, also large and small. You have to take into consideration that most hotels have a quiet time, that they enforce should any of the neighbors complain. Really, a noisy room party with loud music, is probably more likely to get broken up by hotel management than a party where the sounds of passion, perhaps somewhat restrained, are audible. Unless your hotel neighbors are here for general conference or have a room containing small children. There are a few hotels, like the Monaco downtown, that have some rooms and suites, that are a bit more sound insulant than most accommodations, and that really are not places that families land for vacations. The Monaco, is kind of like someplace you might expect in a James Bond movie. It would be possible, to have a dinner party at the Monaco, beginning at the Bambara Restaurant and bar in the lobby and then move to a suite. You could just begin with the suite should everyone already know one another, and there is established chemistry. Room service is available.
Hell after the first of the year we will throw just such a party with some of our lifestyle friends. Maybe with a 15 minute in your clothing grace period once in the suite. Great ice breaker. Of course everything must be consensual, and no always, always means no, but you eliminate those sorts of problems up front if you only include the right and polite sort of people in the party mix.
We spent the night at Secret's Hideaway in Orlando last week, Now the miss's want to buy a hotel and turn it into a place like Secret's I told her Utah would never allow a business like that in the state of Utah. So we figure go with some thing that would work in Utah 
DODGE1 wrote:
We spent the night at Secret's Hideaway in Orlando last week, Now the miss's want to buy a hotel and turn it into a place like Secret's I told her Utah would never allow a business like that in the state of Utah. So we figure go with some thing that would work in Utah
LOL, we were driving though sardine canyon the other night and I said we should buy Sherwood hills and turn it in to a swingers resort.