Now I know some of you will disagree, but single men are a big part of the lifestyle. I'm sure we can all agree, there is no shortage of them. The problem is, finding reliable, trustworthy men. Many couples have fantasies of mfm threesomes, dvp's and dp's but finding the right guy can be hard. Some of you may argue that it's easy to go to a bar and pick up a single male but not everyone is capable of doing that.
In the coming weeks, we will be introducing some new features centered around Single Males. We've been getting a lot of feedback from single women and couples who are looking for options to help them find reliable single men. After extensive research, we've come up with some features that will help in this search. These features are not endorsements, nor do they offer any screening so make sure you do your own research before hooking up with anyone. We cannot be held responsible for any issues that may arise.
With that said, we will be introducing a way for VIP members (couples and single women) to give a recommendation to a single man if they've met him and liked what they've experienced. This recommendation will be a PAL seal, which stands for 'Played And Liked.' Multiple members can recommend the same single male and we will keep track of all recommendations. However, we will not show the number of recommendations but rather levels: Recommended, Very Recommended, Highly Recommended and Greatly Recommended. We're doing this because we don't want to advertise notches on a bed post.
Also, members will be able to revoke their recommendation at any time.
We are also making changes to the Booty Call that will allow private hook ups for single men. This is because some single women and couples are looking for booty calls with single men but they don't want everyone else to know about it. There are couples who prefer single women and other couples but on the very rare occasion, want to hook up with single men. This could be a very personal decision so they don't want their friends on Swingular to know about it.
With the private hook ups, only single males will be able to view the listings. You'll also be able to choose the type of hook up you want, such as MFM, Gangbangs, DP's, etc... Other than that, it's just like the normal booty call feature.
Now we know that this system isn't perfect, but it's a step in the right direction. We hope to have this fully implemented in the next few weeks. We would like to hear your feedback as well as any comments or suggestions before we launch so we can evaluate and make any appropriate changes if need be.
Admin
In the coming weeks, we will be introducing some new features centered around Single Males. We've been getting a lot of feedback from single women and couples who are looking for options to help them find reliable single men. After extensive research, we've come up with some features that will help in this search. These features are not endorsements, nor do they offer any screening so make sure you do your own research before hooking up with anyone. We cannot be held responsible for any issues that may arise.
With that said, we will be introducing a way for VIP members (couples and single women) to give a recommendation to a single man if they've met him and liked what they've experienced. This recommendation will be a PAL seal, which stands for 'Played And Liked.' Multiple members can recommend the same single male and we will keep track of all recommendations. However, we will not show the number of recommendations but rather levels: Recommended, Very Recommended, Highly Recommended and Greatly Recommended. We're doing this because we don't want to advertise notches on a bed post.
Also, members will be able to revoke their recommendation at any time.We are also making changes to the Booty Call that will allow private hook ups for single men. This is because some single women and couples are looking for booty calls with single men but they don't want everyone else to know about it. There are couples who prefer single women and other couples but on the very rare occasion, want to hook up with single men. This could be a very personal decision so they don't want their friends on Swingular to know about it.
With the private hook ups, only single males will be able to view the listings. You'll also be able to choose the type of hook up you want, such as MFM, Gangbangs, DP's, etc... Other than that, it's just like the normal booty call feature.
Now we know that this system isn't perfect, but it's a step in the right direction. We hope to have this fully implemented in the next few weeks. We would like to hear your feedback as well as any comments or suggestions before we launch so we can evaluate and make any appropriate changes if need be.
Admin
For your members who have been on the web site long time and only marked real who deal with more single males on a regular basic vs couple can give a recommendations. Since real and vip is Basic the same. Since it would suck if Wife and I had to refer the guy to a vip and the vip never hooks up with them to give them a mark.
And just so you know, single guys....
What is going to stop a single male from posing as a couple(different profile), and giving himself a mark? And than he appears highly recommended but really is not?
Hey, Evil, real quick before you scurry off on your next excursion...this couple named "beckhamhaze" responded to my booty call and said "we're interested". I blew them off thinking they're flakes lol. I just noticed on your profile they're buddies of yours...what's the good word on them?
This is great...she loves mfm and more but it's been a challenge to find good quality single men. Unfortunately you can't write a negative review (other than a forum which we oppose) so having a feature like this with a referral sure helps in saving time to weed out the posers.
new couples been getting vip same week as the hit the new member post section and I think its because they was referred from a party some get vip vs real the same day they get bronze with an expiration date. Wife and I don't do many parties because single males aren't allowed and the single male invited are normally picked by the host. So we just stay real all these years, but this new idea sounds promising for us, who can't stand single guys out of the bar since we both don't drink, And bar guys are looking for the 1 time deal. which we don't prefer.
EVILDOERS wrote:
And just so you know, single guys....
maybe to some one who's been on the site longer than us but not a new Vip after we joined.
I think this is a great idea. It will take some planning and ability to verify that the guy is real etc. But we both think this would be awesome, just because getting them to show up can be the worst part. But having said that, when they do, they dont look like the pic and so on. Keep it up Admin.
We like the idea.
We have met several dangerous single males on here. There needs to be the ability to black mark them. We are fine if our names are associated the the black mark. Let others contact us and ask the detailed.
Too many folks are afraid of getting outed by these sociopaths to speak up. Then you have others that claim it's just spreading drama. It's not.
We feel an obligation to others on the site to share our experiences.
Buyers beware!
Too many folks are afraid of getting outed by these sociopaths to speak up. Then you have others that claim it's just spreading drama. It's not.
We feel an obligation to others on the site to share our experiences.
Buyers beware!
REDROCKCOUPLE69 wrote:
What is going to stop a single male from posing as a couple(different profile), and giving himself a mark? And than he appears highly recommended but really is not?
In order for the couples profile to be verified VIP they would have to show up as a couple to a meet and greet or get admin to verify them... this could be done but more then likely harder to do... so not worth the time. In my opinion.
The standards need to be higher for allowing single male members. Maybe only allow referred s/m's to join? That way if you see a s/m profile then you know at the least they were referred by a couple.Its a better start to exploring than what's in place right now.
I think the pros out weigh the cons. Every rating system can be abuse so just use it as a guide. Even Angie List get bad apples. We would use it.
With or with out the system we still be shopping single males but it would be nice to comment ya he showed and made the wife very happy or no he sucks since he didn't show and ripped the women because he didn't take his time or he's a flake since every meet he found a new excuse not to show. but like a couple stated with couple getting vip or real easy the last couple of years who says a single male couldn't pose as a single female and bump his self. Single female could go to a party never really meet anyone and boom there real/vip because there on the invite list like some males have in the past, But with this system it will weed out a lot of the flakes a lot faster So We Vote give it a try .
Poet & Dawn
Poet & Dawn
This is my invitation for PARTNERZNCRIME to read the reviews on my profile, and let me know if I am worthy of consideration.
I would think that the moment that someone realizes that the shady/creepy single male just made a new profile, they would be outed and realize that there are diminishing returns in making additional profiles going forward.
NAKEDSPEED wrote:
Hey, Evil, real quick before you scurry off on your next excursion...this couple named "beckhamhaze" responded to my booty call and said "we're interested". I blew them off thinking they're flakes lol. I just noticed on your profile they're buddies of yours...what's the good word on them?
Things just keep getting weirder and fucking weirder here in Swingularlandia. I have no fucking clue who BECKHAMHAZE is but sure enough they've somehow given us a testimonial. Although it's pretty generic and could have been intended for basically anyone. Next our profile will probably show up as a full on gay single male profile with pics of wildebeests having gay intercourse. Where's Travis (or someone who can code) when ya need 'em?
Sign me up. Ignore the haters!
Mav
Mav
I never even noticed they'd somehow given us a testimonial. Honestly the only time I really go into our profile is to fuck around the the photos and, apparently, get briefly booted off Swingular by violating the TOS. 
And bee tee dub, BECKHAMHAZE (if you're out there), how were we? Compelling? Captivating? Nauseating? How would we rate on a scale of 1 to 10? Did we rock your world? Just want to know if we should add another notch to our bedpost in your honor. 
You know the really weird thing is that BECKHAMHAZE's testimonial reads like it was written by a person not entirely comfortable with a keyboard...or the English language. But their profile seems fine in that regard. Curiouser and curiouser!
Okay, sorry for the hijack. So single males, huh?
Okay, sorry for the hijack. So single males, huh?
Maybe they should create a similar system for single females/unicorns LOL!
LOL lets create a whole new government in the lifestyle vs leaving it to Freedom of Choice of who hooks up with who. This just makes it easier for couples to find single males, single male who will go out of their way to make their Std test are current or not so they can hook up with couples. Since picking a guy up in the bar there's no telling what comes with the package. Lets say a Vip gives a real marked guy a pin up of approval and they still suck since the couple is looking for term and the single is wanting a 1 night never see you again. It doesn't mean crap. It's still that couple or single female's Freedom of Choice to hook up with them or not. A guy could have 5 pin's and still be an ass and only vip can make the call to take away the good pin. So give the program a shoot since its VIP is favored to make the judgement calls, But in all reality its the couple or single who says yes to the single male not the vip.
ILLUSTRATOR wrote:MAPARTY wrote:
It's a good idea but poses a lot of problems. The biggest being a single male could just make another profile and make himself PAL certified and look like he's well liked.
It's no secret that plenty of single males on this site are creeps, flakes, assholes, disrespectful, shady and pic hunters.
So what's stopping them from creating more fake accounts to PAL their "real" account?
You're absolutely right. This is why I suggest that only Verified Real couples can rate a male. I don't believe that anyone with a profile that isn't verified, or at minimum paid platinum member, should have the ability to rate or give positive comments on another person's profile. It may sound unfair, but it does keep someone from making several temporary accounts and leaving comments on their own profile.
The way I read it was that ONLY VIP members can do the rating... vip is higher then a real member... Did I read it wrong or is this getting blown out of the water?
ILLUSTRATOR wrote:MAPARTY wrote:
It's a good idea but poses a lot of problems. The biggest being a single male could just make another profile and make himself PAL certified and look like he's well liked.
It's no secret that plenty of single males on this site are creeps, flakes, assholes, disrespectful, shady and pic hunters.
So what's stopping them from creating more fake accounts to PAL their "real" account?
You're absolutely right. This is why I suggest that only Verified Real couples can rate a male. I don't believe that anyone with a profile that isn't verified, or at minimum paid platinum member, should have the ability to rate or give positive comments on another person's profile. It may sound unfair, but it does keep someone from making several temporary accounts and leaving comments on their own profile.
The way I read it was that ONLY VIP members can do the rating... vip is higher then a real member... Did I read it wrong or is this getting blown out of the water?
EVILDOERS wrote:NAKEDSPEED wrote:
Hey, Evil, real quick before you scurry off on your next excursion...this couple named "beckhamhaze" responded to my booty call and said "we're interested". I blew them off thinking they're flakes lol. I just noticed on your profile they're buddies of yours...what's the good word on them?
Things just keep getting weirder and fucking weirder here in Swingularlandia. I have no fucking clue who BECKHAMHAZE is but sure enough they've somehow given us a testimonial. Although it's pretty generic and could have been intended for basically anyone. Next our profile will probably show up as a full on gay single male profile with pics of wildebeests having gay intercourse. Where's Travis (or someone who can code) when ya need 'em?
With the way that people can change their profile name it could have been someone you were with back in 2014 under a different name and since has changed it.
ILLUSTRATOR wrote:
If I'm wrong, I hope Admin can clear that up.
Correct, only VIP members can recommend a single male, the first recommendation gives the single male the PAL symbol. ANY couple and single female can get the VIP symbol so nobody is left out. The VIP symbol means that the member was actually Verified In Person and this can be done by any local host, admin or moderator by actually meeting them in person or via webcam sessions.
Is there a chance that the couple breaks up, the male keeps the profile, creates a single male profile and recommends himself. Sure. But that is why there are levels of recommendation. He can't keep recommending himself.
Remember, this isn't a perfect system, but a helpful one nonetheless. Any system is still going to require you to do your due diligence.
And for those who want to add the ability to add bad reviews, as we've said in the past, we just can't allow that. It becomes a he said, she said issue and Swingular does not play judge and jury. However, we do like what someone mentioned earlier and that is a private comments/reporting/flagging feature for all members. This will allow us to keep track of recurring bad behavior and if the flagging reaches a certain threshold by multiple members and the comments are consistent, we could possibly step in. However, no matter what we do, it would be virtually impossible for us to prevent them from creating a new account. This goes back to my earlier comment that no system is perfect and it's your responsibility to be safe and do your own research.
EVILDOERS wrote:NAKEDSPEED wrote:
Hey, Evil, real quick before you scurry off on your next excursion...this couple named "beckhamhaze" responded to my booty call and said "we're interested". I blew them off thinking they're flakes lol. I just noticed on your profile they're buddies of yours...what's the good word on them?
Things just keep getting weirder and fucking weirder here in Swingularlandia. I have no fucking clue who BECKHAMHAZE is but sure enough they've somehow given us a testimonial. Although it's pretty generic and could have been intended for basically anyone. Next our profile will probably show up as a full on gay single male profile with pics of wildebeests having gay intercourse. Where's Travis (or someone who can code) when ya need 'em?
Wildebeests now? You swore to us it was sheep only. Can we get a beastiality rating system added now too?
We think one thing single guys should know is that a single pic usually won't get the interest of most couples. We also don't want to have to accept a friend request to see more pics of them.
Perma-Bachelor wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
[quote=NAKEDSPEED]Hey, Evil, real quick before you scurry off on your next excursion...this couple named "beckhamhaze" responded to my booty call and said "we're interested". I blew them off thinking they're flakes lol. I just noticed on your profile they're buddies of yours...what's the good word on them?
Things just keep getting weirder and fucking weirder here in Swingularlandia. I have no fucking clue who BECKHAMHAZE is but sure enough they've somehow given us a testimonial. Although it's pretty generic and could have been intended for basically anyone. Next our profile will probably show up as a full on gay single male profile with pics of wildebeests having gay intercourse. Where's Travis (or someone who can code) when ya need 'em?
With the way that people can change their profile name it could have been someone you were with back in 2014 under a different name and since has changed it.[/quote]
Well, since it's been longer than 2014 since we've met or hooked up with anyone new I kinda doubt it. We're not THAT fucking senile...despite copious evidence to the contrary. I think it's prolly a fake profile that Heidi Hatch created knowing that if she gave us a testimonial it would automatically give her some street cred...well, that and she totally wants me.
PAIRPLAYERS wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
[quote=NAKEDSPEED]Hey, Evil, real quick before you scurry off on your next excursion...this couple named "beckhamhaze" responded to my booty call and said "we're interested". I blew them off thinking they're flakes lol. I just noticed on your profile they're buddies of yours...what's the good word on them?
Things just keep getting weirder and fucking weirder here in Swingularlandia. I have no fucking clue who BECKHAMHAZE is but sure enough they've somehow given us a testimonial. Although it's pretty generic and could have been intended for basically anyone. Next our profile will probably show up as a full on gay single male profile with pics of wildebeests having gay intercourse. Where's Travis (or someone who can code) when ya need 'em?
Wildebeests now? You swore to us it was sheep only. Can we get a beastiality rating system added now too?[/quote]
Sheep were back before we were "classy". We've even thinking of adding a "petting" zoo at our next party. Okay, who wants to fuck the Bonobo?
it would be nice for the site to allow searches for people who are interested in bi fun
and to show who looked at my profile for instance.
Some couples really like a man to fluff and please both but don't want other people to know it
so they probably would like to have a search item
that selects people that are interested in bisexaul, bicurious, and bi friendly
I love to please a lady or a couple... it's so fun and so natural
and to show who looked at my profile for instance.
Some couples really like a man to fluff and please both but don't want other people to know it
so they probably would like to have a search item
that selects people that are interested in bisexaul, bicurious, and bi friendly
I love to please a lady or a couple... it's so fun and so natural
how can i get a temple recommend on here ?
And don't be too surprised if, before issuing you your recommend, he asks you to 'hold fast to (his) iron rod'. 
ILLUSTRATOR wrote:TD_NINE wrote:
I think that either way, if they are a distracted up and flaky single male, they will be ran out very quickly as well as being ran out by everyone on the site.
Trust me, there are people who have had many complaints about their behavior and they're still hanging around. I've had other couples and/or single females tell me about other couples or single males who were rough, rude, crude, creepy, stalking, etc. There is no way to report this kind of activity on Swingular right now and some people won't put themselves in the spotlight to out the person in the forums. I can't report what someone else tells me because it's hearsay. I think Admin should have a place where they can receive serious complaints and hopefully find a way to alert others of this sort of activity or warn the member that they might lose their status if the behavior continues.
I've reported probably a half dozen of the worst single guys on here to admin over the past year and in all but one case nothing was done; in fact, nearly all my messages were never even read so it isn't like something went on behind the scenes. One of the nastiest pieces of work is still quite active.
(I've reported couples and SF profiles as well for things like offering sex for drugs and the like but I'm sticking to the topic at hand.)
Hey CHEFFETTE, I've got almost a WHOLE bottle of Tylenol PM (name brand, not generic!) to swap if you wanna have a little hardcore bareback ass sex.
Administrator wrote:ILLUSTRATOR wrote:
If I'm wrong, I hope Admin can clear that up.
Correct, only VIP members can recommend a single male, the first recommendation gives the single male the PAL symbol. ANY couple and single female can get the VIP symbol so nobody is left out. The VIP symbol means that the member was actually Verified In Person and this can be done by any local host, admin or moderator by actually meeting them in person or via webcam sessions.
Is there a chance that the couple breaks up, the male keeps the profile, creates a single male profile and recommends himself. Sure. But that is why there are levels of recommendation. He can't keep recommending himself.
Remember, this isn't a perfect system, but a helpful one nonetheless. Any system is still going to require you to do your due diligence.
And for those who want to add the ability to add bad reviews, as we've said in the past, we just can't allow that. It becomes a he said, she said issue and Swingular does not play judge and jury. However, we do like what someone mentioned earlier and that is a private comments/reporting/flagging feature for all members. This will allow us to keep track of recurring bad behavior and if the flagging reaches a certain threshold by multiple members and the comments are consistent, we could possibly step in. However, no matter what we do, it would be virtually impossible for us to prevent them from creating a new account. This goes back to my earlier comment that no system is perfect and it's your responsibility to be safe and do your own research.
So just because you don't want to meet some one since it's freedom of choice who a person hooks up with. Since just because you didn't enjoy your time with that person doesn't mean someone else wont enjoy them. Everything is about freedom of choice. We've been told in the past to stay away from some one, that person didn't enjoy and we didn't find an issue with them. So do your own research and you decide about a person or couple.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Hey CHEFFETTE, I've got almost a WHOLE bottle of Tylenol PM (name brand, not generic!) to swap if you wanna have a little hardcore bareback ass sex.
I'm on to your game - I know that Tylenol PM is EXPIRED.
Okay, I'll throw in some Gas-X and a few Flintstones Chewables but you have to bring your own lube.
FANTASYGUYUTAH wrote:
Single male benefits? I thought we were just pieces of meet/stunt cocks lol
Depending on the couples/single females you are. But this is a new voting system to get you laid by more than a small hand full.
We love single males, as long as we all click. It is just another way to play, so why not. The amount of venom directed towards single males on this site is always surprising to us. We get it if it isn't your thing, but not sure why the incessant need to marginalize the community.
Having said that, we have been places where there were too many creepy single males, so we think a certification system to try and avoid this circumstance would be nice. For the record we use the same level of scrutiny for couples, as we have met some creepy couples too.
Be in this lifestyle long enough and it is bound to happen
Having said that, we have been places where there were too many creepy single males, so we think a certification system to try and avoid this circumstance would be nice. For the record we use the same level of scrutiny for couples, as we have met some creepy couples too.
Be in this lifestyle long enough and it is bound to happen
Polite, charming and attractive single males, that can host, living in Salt Lake County. Mrs. Delicious might be interested. Yes she is selective, but interested. We have enjoyed MFM playdates and Mrs. Delicious has enjoyed occasionally using her hall pass for a Hot Wife Booty Call!
Being a single Male I appreciate the effort taken to ensure we have a good experience as well. It's been difficult establishing friendships because of the bad apples in the bunch, and I believe that these changes will go a long way to helping the single women, and couples feel safer having single guys spending time with them. I know it's not going to be perfect but at least it's better than no information and just hoping for the best. Thanks again admin.
I think its a good thing..Just Blocked a new single male who was messaging us. Turned out to be a pic collector. We want to find single men too, but its difficult when 90% of them are creepy pic collectors. there needs to be an equal feature to this that lets us report these creepy single men as well
We like the idea. Something is better then nothing.