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Just curious of what the success rate is when you get on the BC list?
For us living in a small town our fail rate is huge even if we travel it still dosen't improve by much. Steady friend's would be nice but living in a small community where she (the wife) really need's it to be discreet don't happen so we don't try to do local. So we understand our win/fail rate will be on the down side but was just wodering if the rest of the sexy people are winning or failing:)
Honestly there are so many factors that affect the success or failure of a booty call, what you're wanting, where you are, how well you're known, how much info and pictures are on your profile. We've been in the lifestyle for approximately 4 years now. We've put up booty calls for everything from mild hanging out to wild naughty fun. I think our ratio has been more successful than not. We've been out to a lot of parties over the years and met so many great people that I think it helps us a lot when we post a booty call cuz we have friends that recognize us and know us. We have seen this topic before over the years and it seems most will report there is more failure than success when it comes to a personal hook up. If it's a party posted in the booty call then they get good responses most of the time.
AWHOOTY wrote:

Just curious of what the success rate is when you get on the BC list?
For us living in a small town our fail rate is huge even if we travel it still dosen't improve by much. Steady friend's would be nice but living in a small community where she (the wife) really need's it to be discreet don't happen so we don't try to do local. So we understand our win/fail rate will be on the down side but was just wodering if the rest of the sexy people are winning or failing:)


we have some of the same issues as you do being from the same area, it's had to go to a lot of the parties up north, bt we have had some success
We have attened a couple parties up north and had fun both clothed and naked but it gets to be expensive to swing and if you travel and fail then that just put's a bad taste in your mouth don't get me wrong the wife and I have some amazing sex we're completely happy sexually swinging just adds the naughty element to it so who knows perhaps in the near future we will drive up to a party and see what's swingin;)
ours its 50/50 if we host increase to 80%.. hosting its a plus
Also, when you travel, change your location in your profile so that people in that area see your booty call.
LADYLUCK wrote:

when we put out a BC we always put the area/town we'll be in it can work out just wish we could get to more parties/bike ride's
Lol ya it attracts the friend requests for sure but it seems anything you post on this site does that but we'll usally throw on the friend list never know when we might hit someone up for fun and if we get no awnser well then they go on the block list:)
We have put a few up and had no success
pretty much .01% success rate.. lolz
SHADOWINGWHISPERS wrote:

pretty much .01% success rate.. lolz


Well we must be doing something wrong here huh Maybe we should just get together some time ;)
PCGAMMERS wrote:

SHADOWINGWHISPERS wrote:

pretty much .01% success rate.. lolz


Well we must be doing something wrong here huh Maybe we should just get together some time ;)


APPARENTLY! Yeah... ! maybe play some games.. :D
I find virtually not booty calls in south Florida. I haven't posted any of my own.
EROTICCPL wrote:

9 year membership and still have never hooked up on this site


If you would like to change that, please drop me a note. I get out to TX on occasion.
We should all hook up orgy style and at least make it so we're at 1% success rate lol
AWHOOTY wrote:

We should all hook up orgy style and at least make it so we're at 1% success rate lol


we would be up for that, when and where?
We've had a couple of booty calls go horribly . . . Right.
Like so right. And then it went right again, and again. Oh doctor. Keep putting it out there.
BIKE_CPL4FUN wrote:

our booty call success rate is a big fat 0............. seems like the only responses we get are male half of couple with a "hall pass". seems like bullshit to us, male half with "hall pass"! single guys are a dime a dozen, i'm sure they have their place, just not with us.


Some of them might be real, if it matters. Heck, I'm a male half, and I've got a hall pass, and so does she, but I just haven't used mine, is all.
Posted 3 for just him and 3 more for us. No hook ups. We did meet one couple for drinks and then never heard from them again. Have meet 2 couples since joining and that was just through friend requests and messages.
We rarely post a booty call and we have not kept tract but our wins out number our losses.
It's pretty much hit and miss for us, as well. We always assumed success was based mostly on your physical looks in the booty call arena. If you are super hot, it's probably like fishing in well stocked pond, you have so many fish, your success depends on what you like to keep....if you are more like us...a little heavier and older...you have to fish a lot longer..and learn not to throw so many back....
Have never bothered....What would we put?
Who want's to fuck some old fat people tonight?
Our booty calls have been mostly hit and miss about 30 percent hit. Last week it was fantastic though. Thanks to the couple we enjoyed you know who you are it was great lets do it again.
SHRED wrote:

Generally speaking It seams as though its not the booty call list.
For some odd reason it is difficult to find four people that get along and also have an attraction. On top of that surprisingly enough people also have outside lives. We now have two small children also contemplating the Friday and Saturday night dance card.
Not being huge fans of bars we have came to the conclusion that this is merely a social site for looking at pictures and sending an occasional email to be unanswered.
Also not understanding why everyone is so up in arms and "deleting friends" left and right reminding us of our high school years.
So all in all its not the booty call list, I don't think we should blame the admin, the site or the single males for this one....

Ultimately its the lack of people wanting the one night fuck fest...wait that is us right? or is it the lack of "fit people only"? Cause lets face it....some of the "fit"club gets ugly really fast....Yes we all have had the friend requests that we accept only to be deleted seconds later....well guess what motherfuckers we are human too and have more in common than you think.
So kids...what have we learned today? Where do we go for the one night fuck fest?
(raises hand) Here Here pick us ;-)
We have had great success with our booty call posts! We will continue to have tons of fun with them!!
very good! Met some good friends from this site...to us that is the key!
We have had good success in the past too but also the occasional bomb..it's all good though..just goes with the territory.Half the fun is seeing some of the responses so it's always good for a laugh :)
SLENDER_BUTT_BLESSED wrote:

I think I'm going to change my profile name to "Single_Female/Couple", because that's what 90% of the BCs are looking for! :-D
no true we put one up for Single Males only we don't want a SF or a CPL;)
As a not so young single female, I have had a date (a single male) respond to a BC after we decided we were bored at the meet n greet we were attending. We were accepted by the couple, so we went and had a blast with 6 other people. I have since dated two of the other single males that I met that night. The other time, a single male I had been dating responded to a BC one night when we were horny, but this time the couple who posted the BC only wanted me..not him.. then backed out due to a family emergency. 50/50 for me too.
All we have been looking for is a cool couple to hang with and get to know more couples. Kinda curious why they never respond back.
had a 0% success rate with BC on swingular, unfortunately living in Mt does not have the popularity as other parts of the US.