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What is a great blow job?
When she enjoys what she's doing!

Pretty plain and simple.

If its a chore, its no fun...
That dog don't hunt round here Misplaced =))
When she makes you cum so hard it realigns your L4 vertebra.
My chiropractor mentioned that he was glad the treatments were working.
I told him "yes they are".
Married 30 yrs and wife would give me a bj on my birthday just out of guilt I think, so you can guess how good that was. Don't know what happened over the last few months but for some reason she is now cock crazy, she gives one of the best head jobs I have ever had, still won't swallow but you can't have everything, thanks hun. GLEN
don't know how to load a picture here.. the stupid thing wants a url instead of an upload

gosh..
ORALLYBI4CPL wrote:

don't know how to load a picture here.. the stupid thing wants a url instead of an upload gosh..


Go to the top and click ADD REPLY, that'll allow an upload.
Picture is just my starting point...

I just have to say I LOVE giving blow jobs and have been told I am quite good at it. I love everything about it. What I would suggest is my idea of a great blow job, is to:
1-First follow the golden rule, do unto others as you would have done to you, give them your time, your full attention, and use your entire body. But definitely make the best of your lips, tongue, and even teeth if they enjoy that.

2-Make eye contact, and take your time with each move of your tongue so they can feel it all the way down their spine.

3-If you can do it, go as deep as you possibly can, let yourself relax, get at the right angle, and enjoy the feeling of it on the back of your throat.

4-Make sure they are in a comfortable position and can see every angle of your body; their eyes will travel up and down as you are going "up and down."

# 5 & 6 may not be your thing, but I personally love it.

5-Let them grab the back of your head and guide your head up and down, let them pull your hair, so they can look at your face.

6-Swallow...I personally love it and this is the pivotal moment for me, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Giving a blow job is hands down one of my most favorite things to do. I have come myself while I am doing it. It may sound as if I am just "bragging" but there are a few sexy men out there that have got my back ;) And well, if you got mad skills at something, why not share.
You show her this much attention and see will take of everyone there OH and yes she swallows all of it and will let you know how good you taste
Hey if any of you that love giving head want, I'm MORE than willing to let you do that for my hubby. I am physically unable due to jaw issues... :o(

I'd say it sucks but...... lol Sry.... Anyway.. I have a hot sexy man who would love for you to come play ;o)
Ilike it like this
Men are all about the visual. So being able too watch the action is a must. Also eye contact and sound. I love to see her eyes as she does the deed and hearing her slurp n moan makes it so much better. Which comes to the next and in my opion the most important.....if she enjoys doing it. Its just not fun for either if she doesnt like sucking cock.
Men are all about the visual. So being able too watch the action is a must. Also eye contact and sound. I love to see her eyes as she does the deed and hearing her slurp n moan makes it so much better. Which comes to the next and in my opion the most important.....if she enjoys doing it. Its just not fun for either if she doesnt like sucking cock.
Justin i totally agree with you 110%
NuaghtyD has one of the sexiest pics I have seen WOW!!!
My Hubby says, "ANY type of BJ is great- but when big tits, flirty eyes and a spicy attitude combine, its EXTRA amazing!"....as seen here.. :)
ok..and some teeth!
GOODTIMES3334 wrote:

NuaghtyD has one of the sexiest pics I have seen WOW!!!

My vote goes for LUSCIOUS_74', Post and PIC! ;o)

Although NuaghtyD has some nice looking boobies! ;o)
So does 24throad! DAMN!
Best Bj is when a bi guy and the wife work over the husband then snowball the laod...hmmm hot
boa582
Don't forget to cup the balls. Those poor fellas are forced to support themeselves day in and out. They need a vacation too while they are working up a batch. =) Classy huh?
Highbright you have some amazing looking pics as well! So fucking sexy! We love it:p
My wife knows how to for sure !!!
GOODTIMES3334 wrote:

Highbright you have some amazing looking pics as well! So fucking sexy! We love it:p


*BLUSH* Thank you very much!
HIBRIGHTEYES wrote:

GOODTIMES3334 wrote:

NuaghtyD has one of the sexiest pics I have seen WOW!!!

My vote goes for LUSCIOUS_74', Post and PIC! ;o)

Although NuaghtyD has some nice looking boobies! ;o)


THANK YOU!!!
it was a good blow job when the sheets must be extracted from his ass...
Hope you enjoy this as much as we did
Here's one . . .
Well now I like it when I get doubled teamed.
AMEN to sinful!!!! :)
I agree with everyone..... I love to give head and I like to try new things all the time. and I will say that I haven't had a guy be disappointed my oral performance. I love cum all over my mouth and in it also. :)
With all due respect to 24THEROAD hubby, I have to disagree.
There is such a thing as a BAD blow job - and I've had a few from women/girls who had NO clue what they were doing or how to do it.


In one man's opinion, the criteria for a REALLY GREAT blow job is really pretty simple:
#1. The single most important factor is, that the woman ENJOYS what she's doing. Trust me - there IS a difference - and a man can pick up on it easily if she's doing it just because it's expected, or JUST to please the guy.
#2. There's a LOT more to a cock than just the head. A woman who is willing to at least TRY to deep throat a guy will earn herself a LOT of points - and will REALLY make the guy happy. Ladies, there's no way to explain the difference in feeling and sensation for a man from a true deep throat.
#3. It's been said that it's only oral sex until the woman swallows - THAT'S when it becomes a blow job. Yeah, a LOT of having a woman swallow is psychological, butt it breaks the rhythm for a man when he has to pull out for the money shot.

Don't get me wrong - I've met a LOT of VERY talented ladies who neither swallowed nor deep throated, and it was still VERY good.
Butt 1, 2 & 3 are the ideal.
Love it.....!!!!
Hubby says they have all been great!
BIGDBLD wrote:

Hubby says they have all been great!


Well same here darling :)
Last great one was on halloween couple years ago 2 on 1 and they both were into it. Thats what makes it the best, not asking and the woman actually wants to do it and enjoys it imensely! The perfect storm!
UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:

Married 30 yrs and wife would give me a bj on my birthday just out of guilt I think, so you can guess how good that was. Don't know what happened over the last few months but for some reason she is now cock crazy, she gives one of the best head jobs I have ever had, still won't swallow but you can't have everything, thanks hun. GLEN

UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY
I am interested in how you do this fantastic vblow job. I thought I was good until I met my husband. It isn't his favorite, but we don't leave it out. I want some fabulous secrets to make his hairs on his legs rise... :)
Don't forget the Boys!
some ladies like to get naughty and share it with him too...
that's so fun.. why should only a lady have fun?

sharing is such a turn on that some ladies get very wet from it

ummmmmm

x gf loved it
My Lady's (Shure) blow jobs have been approved by the worlds oldest pron star Dave Cummings. He just can't get enough of them and her when we're at a party. I agree, and the girls like what she does with her tongue as well. "Shure" states, "It's a thumb sucking thing"...

Surf, Out...
loving it love giving head
I have to say my baby has never given me a bad blowjob..... But I have to say one thing that makes for good head is eye contact.... When she is looking up at me while she is giving me a hot blowjob that makes it all that much hotter. couldnt figure out how to put a pic up but we have a great blowjob pic on our profile in our public pics..
My former partner could suck a golf ball through 50' garden hose
Like the Chinese dish "happy ending"
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Love the user4sex pic hanging over the bed I LOVE it when a woman takes this position. First it shows she wants to deep throat since this position opens the way and it allows me to fuck her mouth and enjoy looking at and playing with her tits while shw rubs her pussy and clit!!!!!!!!!!!
cummingin my mouth mmmmmmmmmm
There is a reason ancient art work depicts this sexual position. Just a note to all you single guys if the gal wont happily do this dump her fast. As you see there are plenty of gals here who enjoy this with a passion and I suggest you hold out for one of those.
Keep the pics cuming
I just HAVE to weigh in here... I agree that a girl's gotta love cock to give a great BJ; Desire is huge. That said, it is technique that distinguishes a good BJ from an OMG-I-can't-believe-that-just-happened(!), BJ. I love cock, and I love to learn, so I have embarked on a spiritual journey in a never-ending quest for cock sucking perfection - even consulted a few gay friends... I think I'm getting pretty damn close. I've fooled with a few boys here, who, as Luscious says, have my back on this one. I've even thought it would be fun to have a "how to" demonstration at an upcumming party, lol. That said, here are my top ten:

1. Coconut oil - 100% organic, virgin (until I'm done with it), coconut oil. It feels amazing and can prolong the fun by staving off orgasm a bit (which is a good think in my opinion) giving you more time to enjoy him.

2. Start at the base, licking his balls and going all the way back... as far as you dare. Feel free to pull that thick elastic tissue at the veeerrrry back of his balls into your mouth, maybe even use your teeth a bit.

Here's the good part...

3. Facing him, take both hands, and grasp his wonderful shaft. Keep your elbows out - way out, so that where your fingers come together around his cock, they face your stomach.

4. Now start moving your hands and your elbows in unison. Elbows kind of forward and back, which makes your hands circle and twist around his shaft (not up and down and this point).

5. Your hands, especially the upper one, should be grasping, each finger moving in succession like the hands of a Flamenco dancer.

6. At this point, add in some up and down action and, especially with the upper hand. Move the upper hand completely over his head - his head resting in the center of your palm. It's hard to explain, but it's a synergistic movement of fingers, palm, hands, and elbows that is mind-blowing, or so I'm told.

7. You don't want to move to #6 too soon because they'll probably cum very quickly.

8. All the while you're doing 3-6, alternate your upper hand with your mouth, or stop the hand action completely (other than stroking his balls, of course) and incorporate the deep throat and other techniques aptly described by Luscious. Remember... lots of licking and eye contact.

9. If you're doing it right, your hands will become an extension of your mouth. You will almost always have the lower one twisting on the lower part of his penis, or mostly on his balls if his cock isn't so long. Either way, keep those hands involved!

10. Of course this one's optional, but the puta madre of BJ's is catching that load and slurping it down. yum!!

There are, of course many other moves and variations, but this is a good start!!

Bon apetite'!

Kelly
The payback for mastering the art of the BJ.
Kelly - coconut oil just ended up on my shopping list and 100% agree with #10. I would love to do a how-to at a party, maybe we can share tips ;)
Let's do it! I've had a few wives ask me what the hell I did to their husbands and how could they learn to do the same, lol. I would love to take a few moments and enrich the world's sexual knowledge a bit!

Incidentally, ask me about the 'prayer' move that uses your cupped-together, slightly flattened hands and your entire forearms... sigh... It's a religious experience of a decidedly different flavor.

Oooh, and waking him up in the middle of the night with the midight blow and go...

Sooo much fun waiting to be had!
right there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Vlad... you're too kind!

JC4EVER... time and place, baby. time and place...
love big cocks
getting ready to suck this giant dick
Two loads
loves sucking dick
GUESS I'M LUCKY SHE'S SOOOO GOOD AT IT OH YEAH AND SHE SWALLOWS
1. ENJOY WHAT YOU'RE DOING. This is the biggest one, ladies. Men say it's hard to enjoy themselves when their lady seems bored, in a hurry or unsure how to give a blowjob. Can you blame him? This is his most sensitive part of his body that he's entrusting... TO YOUR MOUTH! This is your chance to give pleasure to your man.

Think of this as one of the most passionate gifts you can give to him. So be enthusiastic about it! It
love a woman that looks like she is REALLY enjoying going down on me.
The ultimate resource for blowjob technique...



Vegas Babe
Agood blow job is when she makes you cum
she loves sucking cock an being fucked at same time
Bathroom blow job
ASSETS wrote:

A picture can't do justice in saying what a good blow job is....too many factors involved...soft lips...use of the tongue(especially when licking the tip)....about the sucking action(and actual sucking not just sliding in ur mouth)...hand motions(good long strokes with circular motions)...the ability to do it for more than 2 min haha...sucking balls and giving that sexy look while ur doing it...and some even like a finger in their ass (but won't admit it)...and the the topper...allowing them to cum on ur chest or swallowing! Mmmm love the taste


Wow.
Wife gives the best blow job I have ever had!!!
Suck it, lick it, squeeze it, smack it, yank, pull, spit or squirt-- Just Blow IT!
I (he/Greg) can't define what makes for a good blow job, but I know one when I get it.
I also agree that when a woman actually enjoys sucking a cock, it makes it oh sooooooo much better for the guy.
Believe me - we can tell the difference.

I can tell you one of the things that makes for a BAD blow job though - and that's a woman who thinks all she has to take into her mouth is the head for it to legally qualify as a blow job.
NOT!!!!!!!!
If only you ladies knew what true deep throat feels like for a guy..........................
And yes, there are a LOT of women who CAN and WILL deep throat.
Mostly that's because they were willing to try it and practice - because they know how important it is to a guy.
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So many good ones....
Don't get many blow jobs but ive had a few fantastic suck jobs one time she put icecream on it.
TONY_SUSAN wrote:

What is a great blow job?


Agreed, when you enjoy your self... it's always more fun
Mmmmmmmmm
WESEE wrote:

Here's one . . .


Mmmm would love to have her for a night.... She is hot
there is a spot just below the head on the underside that when licked or sucked drives me crazy. Find it and we're good.
my wife is my fv bj giver....does it all perfect....mmmm
she definitely loves it!
A good blow job:


Lust for the object at hand. If you don't enjoy it in your mouth, you can't give a good one.

Variation in the sensation, but do give extra attention to the frenulum.

Continuous contact. If your mouth needs a break, make sure your hands are in place before the lips come off. This isn't an absolute, but it's something I think improves the BJ in much the same way continuous contact is a principle of good massage.

Don't rush it, let the experience happen at its pace. Sometimes that's fast, sometimes slow.

Tickle the balls/taint/anus with the offhand as the recipient prefers.

Swallowing is a bonus but at least let the guy cum in your mouth.


Dark Admission: Best BJ I've ever had was from an older guy with no teeth. Guy was a devotee of cock.
I think guys give the best blow jobs in general. like me for example, i always get compliments on my efforts (including a bunch of "best evers"). the reason is guys know how good it feels and try harder to make it totally pleasurable to the other guy. let me say though, there are a few women who are superb and i do not wish to demean them in any way, just in general, guys win hands down.
I like long and slow, deliberately sensuous and torturous. Bring me to the edge and hold me there teasing me with teeth nibbling lightly and then....not so lightly mmmmm then aggressive
Any hummers out there?
RRUPFORFUN wrote:

she definitely loves it!
and i can say she is very good at it.
hi
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God, I love giving head! One of my favorite things, and one of my talents. I think there are a few techniques that make it great: very little gag reflex; plenty of spit; fingers joining the game; and passion. Now that I have shared my wisdom, I am all horny and need to go find my guy.
To Orallybi4cpl: Thats a good boy...Alllllllll...
My wifey is the bomb....right before I cum she starts sucking my balls....dam!!! Ecstasy right there
CarriermanAndGeekGirl wrote:

Any hummers out there?


I thinj women hum when a they are getting fucked or they are getting oral while they give always such fun.
To Orallybi4cpl: So very kinky ! Good boy...Everyone says ahhhhhhh...!!!
When the person giving the blow job truly enjoys it as well.
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The best blow job is one where she enjoys giving it, knowing that the better she gives the more she will receive.