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Appropriate Parameters of Sexual Conduct in Modern Society - Should sex still have a unique status or just be another hobby? - Beard, You did open something up but I'm not sure what.
I had to copy and paste your original here so I didn't miss or get too confused..
One of your last points first: Moral refers to standards as defined by the church, the government or your neighbors(in light of the Supreme Court decission a few years ago about porn) Ethics, on the other hand are something that we define for ourselves based on our upbringing/environment and values that we have defined based on whatever we base them on.
You are right that marriage is a concept designed by religion and the government for the care of offspring and the clear definition of linage for property rights. You use the term marriage, which is a legal term like it is a moral imperative then ask if it should be based on some one or group of common interrests. Then the next breath you suggest that marriage is supposed to be more than any of that and something to do with sharing and intimacy. Finally you go back to somehow trying to make a point, (I'm not sure what that point was) that maybe there should be a conglomerate of reasons for marriage then with the nesxt breath you ask if sex should be forbidden..
Now lets see if this makes any sense to anyone. I'm poly and We swing. I have a lover who is married and her husband knows or us(he is not poly) and B knows of us and we are all good friends. We are, my lover and I, intimate both emotionally and sexually and both non poly mates knowof this. B and I are very much soulmates but then my lover is also very close to that as well. I do not wish to take her away from her husband and I do not wish to replace B. She does not want to replace her husband with me and we are alll OK with that arrangement.
In my heart of heart I am married to both in a very intimate way although I do not wish to procreate with anyone anymore. She feels the same way toward me. I would submit that marriage is an intimate, emotional and sometimes physical union of people.. I did not say two people I said people. We have been taught sex as a negative thing and relationships with more than one as a negative thing because we cannot love more than one person or more than one at any one time... I submit that we can love more than one and that the more we love the more we get back from that...
Swinging is started off as fun between close friends and sometimes the term wife swapping became a reality.... Sex is fun adn swinging is about sex and today alot of times about relationships. Relationships in my opinion are for the benefit of everyone involved... .
So I'm not sure if I understood where you were going but this is my take on the propositions as I understood them.
Depending on any person's opinion or preferences sex and love can be the same or they can be separate or they can be coincidental but it's basically up to that person or couple to make that determination....
We, in the lifestyle, may ultimately be right and marriage may change to a more contractual thing rather than some sacrosanct BS that it has become.... Swingers as a group have more than 3.4 time greater chance of remaining married than that of non swingers. The range of failed marriages is between 66 and 77% in all first and second marriages and some 70% of all married people cheat on their mates. Swinger have a better than 85% chance of marriage survival. Cheating is not exempt in Swinging but I think is is greatly reduced...
I think as swingers we have sex with friends and it can be just that or it can be more... at least for me..
Have you ever... - - OK, in the interest of playing, here you go:
Had sex outside? yes
Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) yes
Had sex in an unusual location? yes
Had a threesome? yes
A foursome? yes
More than a foursome? yes
Had a happy ending? yes
Been tied up? no
Tied someone up yes
Been to a sex club / swingers club? yes
Watched a porno? yes
Been in a porno? Professionally? no
Wore a costume / role played during sex? yes
Recieved a spanking?yes
Given a spanking? yes
Paid for sex? No. (not directly, but dinner, drinks, etc...?)
Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? yes
Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? yes
Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? yes
How many States / Countries have you had sex in? 8 states
Favorite position? being straddled while sitting.
Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) yes
Had sex at work? yes
With a co-worker? yes
Slept your way to the top? no
Preferred location of "money shot"? Inside a nice wet pussy
Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail
Men - best pickup line? Pull my finger
Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style? shaved or trimmed neatly
Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando?anything easy to remove
Easiest way to get you turned on? her talking dirty to me
Worst mood killer? Him talking dirty to me.
Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough? Yes Please.
Piercings? Love 'em
Tattoos? Love 'em more
Shoes / socks on or off?On. It means we can't even wait to get undressed all the way.
Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? Sometimes
Who is your fantasy partner? Who's available?
Describe the perfect sexual encounter... My next one
Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked? Absolutely!!!
Swingers Rock Club - Live music, Dancing, and Sexy Friends - Anyone in or near NE PA or the Southern Teir of NY should come out and party. There are several club parties set up in the near future. Check the club listings for Elmira NY and the Swingers Rock Club website for details.
Bambi
swingers parties - - You're shit out of luck...have you tried golf?
Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - I think age is only a number. What matters the most is if you get along with the other couple and can see your self with them in that way ;)
Las Vegas Swingers club - - Just go. You have to fill out some paperwork for "membership" and get a tour - but it makes for a great introduction. If you're going on a Friday/Saturday you might want to get there by 9 or a little before.
Swingers in a vanilla bar... - - Say "Hi, how are you two doing tonight"
Seems to work for breaking the ice for us.
Crossville, tenn. - week in the mountains - We will be staying in crossville 9/26 to 10/3 looking meet some couples for play and fun.We are nudist and swingers and we love to partaaaay long and hard. If anyone out there is interested in having fun with us please hit us up.
Barbara & John
network swingers - - So is it based in Utah? All those closet deprived simple folk>>> LOL
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