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Swingers Kickball Society - - We are interested.
Ways to point out Swingers in public - - The problem with the whole black ring thing is twofold. First, many people wear them now who aren't even close to being swingers. We see the silicone versions at the gym fairly often because you can lift with them without hurting your finger and I have at least half a dozen vanilla friends who wear black wedding bands (albeit on their left hands).
Second, if black rings for swingers (or ANY other surefire way to ID other swingers) ever really caught on it would quickly become common knowledge and most swingers would prefer their little hobby stay discreet and not public knowledge to their friends, family, and coworkers.
We were once at a lifestyle hotel takeover in San Diego and they issued wristbands to the guests. It took approximately two hours for the entire hotel staff to figure out what the wristbands meant (they were color-coded for sexual preference) and by the next morning you could walk to the adjacent mall and restaurants and people would look at you then immediately look down at your wrist and smile or even laugh and stare. People started trying to hide their wristbands and a few even removed them because they didn't enjoy the attention.
And all this was before social media became a thing. How long do you think it would take nowadays for black rings, or whatever, to become common knowledge? Don't get me wrong. I would LOVE a foolproof way to know who else is a swinger as I walk down the street but swinging is still looked down upon by most other people in the world and most swingers still don't want their private sex lives exposed to the world.
Hello summer - Swingers couple party - [quote=MoreFun4U]Short answer is because a large number of couples will not attend an event without some type of filter for single men, and without couples it's a non event. The reason why a large number of couples will not attend such an event are varied.[/quote]
Having been in the lifestyle for a while now, here’s some experiences we’ve had.
Parties with unrestricted access to single males: we attended a party with a ratio of 10 men to each woman, that was not a gang-bang. And only 3-4 of the women were willing to play (Mrs being one of them). It was not as fun and lots of people decided to leave after an hour or so.
Parties with screened single men. These are usually better. These guys usually understand the expectations and are respectful. That being said some “coupled” men have gotten overly aggressive and have been asked to leave. Still these are generally much better, with folks much more relaxed and having a great time. The ladies feel more free to do as they like without feeling like they’ll be swarmed by dicks like they’re in a bukkake film.
Clubs with lots of single men. First, when we arrived there were LOTS of men waiting to get in. Then when we got in, lots of dudes were all over Mrs. She does like the attention, but can get overwhelmed. When she did select a nice, respectful guy to take for some fun, we went to a play room and got undressed, then he let in 3 more dudes. Presumably he had an agreement to let his buddies in, and had not asked Mrs. if that would be okay. We told them to get out, all of them. Had to get staff to assist and escort them out. Never went back. And we’ve been cautious about venues with lots of loose dicks ever since.
So it’s not usually anything about any single man in particular, but experience has shown us, and many in the lifestyle, that having lots of loose dicks about can at best put a damper on a party, and at worst generate lots of drama. And this is why we don’t attend events with lots of single men and very few of any other demographic.
Swingers clubs are the new singles hangout? - - seems strange that singles would go to a swing club to find a lifetime mate :)
But, at the same time, we have heard of alot of single straight men and women going
to bi-bars, or gay bars. Maybe it's all just that Curiosity thing you know?
They may be going to see what it is like at one.
What do you think?
Curious Devil - Political Science Project - Total number of members on Swingular within a 25 mile radius: 360 (active within last 30 days)
Total number of members on SDC within a 25 mile radius: 2323 (active within last 30 days)
SDC sponsor's meet & greets at Trapeze Club, Miami Velvet, Sapphire Lounge, Naked Swingers Boating Regatta, Hedonsim Club, Harrison's Wine Bar, Fetish Factory, SWFL Playpalace, The Dutch Delight, Oz, and Caliente's
SLS sponsors parties at Trapeze, Miami Velvet's and Sapphire Lounge
Bliss Parties are promoted by SDC
Skin Parties are promoted by Lifestyle Lounge
Aahz Parties are promoted by Playful Swingers
Not only does hosting and promoting parties provide a social enviroment for swingers or those curious about the lifestyle it also give those traveling to the state an opportunity to see the lifestyle happenings and guestlists of events in the area planned during their stay. Granted they could email a random person and ask but that certainly is a handy dandy lil tool eh?
What incentives do people have to come to this site? What exactly would make this site "hot" in Florida since you seem to think this doesn't matter. The swinger community is huge in Florida and the tourism factor is important to the lifestyle businesses too. You can always find an event scheduled every Friday and Saturday on SDC and SLS. The Bliss Club and Skin host parties every month. People want to get out, party and have fun, that is what it's all about.
I wish it weren't true but you are simply wrong stating that this site is hot in Florida...take it from someone whom actually lives here (and belongs to several sites)!
What really defines a TRUE swinger? - - I think we are what we wish to be so I had better explain this. Swingers are strictly defined as a couple that trade partners in sex. Couples that invite singles into their play are not swinging by a normal
Black Rings - Do Swingers really? - We both have black rings on our right ring fingers. They have each others nicknames on them.
Single Males - -
We too have met quite a few single males who have told us that it's much easier to get laid in the vanilla scene. If that's indeed the case I'd think that at least some of the younger single guys would prefer banging a hot young girl at a bar rather than some 45 year old milf on a swing site. Unless, of course, they get off on the fact that they're fucking a married woman. Don't discount the fairly high number of single guys who think married male swingers are pretty much all cucks and really enjoy the ego boost they get from fucking another guy's wife.
Spanish Fork to American Fork - Utah - [quote=JoeThe1Mac]I am Looking for a Cuckold Couple or submissive married lady to use as my personal Slut. From Spanish Fork to American Fork. Remember discretion is always assured.
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Unfortunately, there is VERY common belief among single males that all or most swingers are into the cuck lifestyle. I mean, how could any self-respecting man let his significant other fuck other men if he wasn't a cuck? We've actually heard single guys say that. And we can't count the number of times over the years that we've been approached online or even in person at parties and meet-ups by SM's who have this misconception. There are plenty of cuckold-specific websites online for people who are into that dynamic.
Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - Definitely interested.. how do we join? Kik needed?
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