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What kind of people can you expect to find here? A very wide variety. We have everyone from sexy couples, to single men, to the elusive unicorn, the single female. We have all ages and body types as we do not discriminate. One thing you will find though is our members are all very classy and real. Other sites are over-filled with webcam girls, fakes and bots. You won't find any of that here.
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You'll find the most complete Swingers Personals here at Swingular.com. If you are new to swinging or even a seasoned swinger, then Swingular is the site for you. We offer the best features to find other swingers through our easy to use dating site with complete ads and profiles. Place your personal ad today for free!
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Swinger ads are the craze of the new millenium as thousands of adults search for other couples & singles. Most members wish to remain private and anonymous and our first priority here is to make sure your information is safe. We do not ask you for any personally identifiable information and we do not share your email address with anyone. Rest assured, your privacy is safe here.
If you are an adult, age 18 or older, you can join today. If you of any others with a high sexual appetite seeking sexual freedom, let them know about Swingular and the and our free trial offer. We promise that neither your or they will be disappointed.
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Don't think that just because you're new to the swinging lifestyle that you have to participate. Get comfortable first, then enjoy your experience. Our personals allow you to find everyone from voyeurs to exhibitionists, nudists to wife swappers, picture traders to bi-females. Our extended profile questions will help match you with a more compatible partner or couple. These ads are fully featured and we review each one. Place your ad today.
Single Men
One of the biggest questions asked in the swinging lifestyle is, “How does a single male get into the lifestyle?” To be honest there is no “easy” answer to this question. The truth is, the answer lies almost 90% in luck. Here are a few tips that might help you in your exploration of the swinging lifestyle though and you find swingers.
Before you, the single guy, try to make a leap into the lifestyle, there are a few things that you should be aware of and consider, many that most guys never think of. The first thing that you should realize is that swinging is basically a couples activity. There has always been a debate over whether single guys who do get into the lifestyle are actually swingers or if they are just LUCKY. It all depends on their perspective. Swinging is about the fulfilling and sharing of fantasies. If you enter the lifestyle with the idea in your head that you are looking to help others fulfill their fantasies while fulfilling your own, then yes, you may be a swinger. If, however, you are attempting to enter the lifestyle with only the thought that it's an easy way to get laid, not only are you not a swinger but you are sadly mistaken.
As you are probably already aware it's not easy for a single guy to get into the lifestyle; however, you might not be aware of the simple reason as why. Go back to the earlier statement that swinging is mainly a couples activity and it is about fulfilling fantasies. Yes, there are many couples out there who have fantasies, which involve an extra male or 4 or 5 even. However, for every couple out there looking to include males in their playtime, there are at least 10 males looking to fill that one spot. So, as you can see, you have some competition in the swingers world.
Swinging Couples
Adults have a mind of their own and in this lifestyle, you know they are the ones to trust. If you swing or become a swinger, you have to be honest and respectful. Swingers love to have fun, that's for sure. However trust is a major issue. Do not enter this lifestyle if you are trying to 'save' your marriage. A lot of couples think this will help but in the end, the results could worse than before you started. You must be very much in love and trust your partner to be able to handle all of the emotions that this practice can bring forward.
If you are new, take your time. The majority of our members have never actually engaged in swinging or have only done so once or twice. It is best to make sure you find the right situation. As a friend once said, 'I'd rather wake up the next day regretting it didn't happen, then wake up regretting it did.' That's some good advice.
So, if you are looking for other swinging couples, then Swingular is the right place for you. The majority of our members are couples and they are looking for others just like you. However, there are those few who are only seeking that ever hard to find single female. But they soon realize that their chances are slim and in order to experience anything like that, they must seek out other swinging couples.
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Most in this lifestyle have a great relationship with their partners. You'll never catch a couple swinging alone unless they are single. If you know anyone who parties alot, those are the ones to take to Vegas. Otherwise, try finding others who are in the lifestyle at the swing clubs.
The Lifestyle & More
Have you ever seen a nudist jump? Go to a hedonism resort and watch them jump off cliffs naked. You'll find plenty of nudists at this private resort and on the beach. Some of them may be swingers, some may not so be very careful who you try to pick up. Also, try running naked on a beach in the sun and if you're a male, I'm sure something will definately be swinging! And who knows, you just might find yourself some swingers.
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"Swing," "Swinger," what do these words mean to you. How about the word "lifestyle?" Funny how words mean so many different things to so many different people. My dictionary defines "Swinger" as: "One that swings: a good swinger of baseball bats." I always had a suspicion that Barry Bonds was a "swinger." My dictionary also says: "A member of a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners." Now we're getting somewhere, although I didn't know marital status had so much to do with "swinging." I'll have to call Webster and explain to him that non-married couples swing too. I'm sure he'll be glad to hear that.
The word "swing" dates back to the 20's when the black community discovered a new form of music called Jazz and called it "Swinging Jazz." The reference described the form of dance where a man would literally "swing" his partner through a series of dance moves. Like the Charleston and the Lindy Hop were born, and so was the term "swing." Most conservatives couldn't believe it when they saw people shaking their hips and frolicking to this new underground sensual music.
Eventually, in the 30's and 40's, band leaders like Cab Callaway, Duke Ellington, Glen Miller and Count Basie brought in the big band era and "Swing was King." The popularity of swing music faded after WWII until the late 50's when Frank Sinatra and the Rat Pack redefined the word "swinger." The word's connotation reached beyond their music and started to represent their lifestyle. They were hip, fashionable, cool and sexy. They were swingers, man. Playboy magazine was first published and a new era of sexuality was born. "Swinger" had a positive connotation, everyone wanted to be called a "swinger." Of course the term was only relegated to men. Being considered a swinger would never be considered appropriate for a woman.
Of course the "shagedelic swinging sixties" followed and once again the term "swinger" took on a new, cartoon-type of character. Towards the end of the 60's, swinger clubs started to form. Publications were printed and different forms of alternative relationships like swinging, polyamory and communal living started to show up.
It wasn't long before the 70's and rumors of "key parties" and "wife swappers" became the common explanation of the "new swingers." Again, sexist overtones dominated the "swinger" scene, the very term "wife swapper" implies that the man owns his wife and can trade her at will for another partner.
The 80's saw a surge of new clubs forming until the AIDS scare forced many swingers underground and many clubs closed or dropped in membership. Eventually, swinging became a lot more open, clubs rebounded and national conventions like Lifestyles in California and Las Vegas gained in popularity and thousands of couples came to meet other open minded couples. "Recreational swinging" became a powerful economic factor, in fact it became an industry. Today, you can find articles on "swinging" in Time magazine, the New York Times, Details, on HBO, MTV, Showtime, VH1 and most national and local newscasts, newspapers and magazines. Conventions and clubs have popped up in every state. Resorts and hotels now cater to "swing" groups like never before. Recently, in New Orleans, over 1,000 "swingers" paraded down Bourbon St. in the first ever "swinging parade" behind a jazz (swing) band with a police escort. Swinging has almost become mainstream.
It has become so mainstream that swing clubs and businesses finally have their own trade association. Imagine the effect of an organized effort to put forth positive images of this "swinging lifestyle." This is the first step in gaining acceptance and tolerance for a sexual minority that is steadily growing and we are being noticed.
By the way, I looked up the word "lifestyle" and my dictionary said: "A way of life or style of living that reflects the attitudes and values of a person or group." When the term "lifestyle" became popular over a generation ago, it had many critics that objected to it as trendy and superficial because it was mainly used to justify habits of consumption, recreation or fads to categories in a system of social classification. Many different forms of sexual minorities all consider themselves to be living a different "lifestyle" from the mainstream. Nonetheless, the term has been useful, in fact, because they help explain ourselves when referring to social values and behavior.
Why the history lesson? Most people I run into find the label "swinger" as a negative term with which they don't want to be labeled. While I understand their reasons, most do not understand that the terms "swing" and "swinger" have undergone many transformations over the last century and will continue to change over the next few years. My favorite dictionary definition defines "swinger" as: "A person who actively seeks excitement and moves with the latest trends." Now that is a term we can live with. Maybe we should print that definition on shirts, come out of the closet and show the world who we are. OK, maybe not this week... but soon?
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